NEED Help urgent
 

Hi Everyone,

I'm Kristine,26 and married to my high school sweetheart. i really love him but i have been discreetly fucking black. but the encounters are rare as i'm careful of my sophsiticate prim and proper reputation.

I really want it more often and i dont want to hide it from my husband. i dont know how to tell him everything. i fear losing him. i love him and i love black too

what should i do, how can i tell him and not lose him

be honest with yourself and let hubby know or live a lie hiding things.

Tuff decision
 

Honey Bunch , you need to look inside yourself , and determine what you really want in life that will make you feel complete, fulfield and satisfied. either continue to be a secret sub slut or find a Black man than can give you everything that you enjoy from your husband as well as satisfiy your carnal desires. I don't know for sure , but I don't think your husband is a cuck and will not enjoy the idea of another man satisfying his wife or you wouldn't have to keep it a secret. These type of situations usually lead to a major life style change depending on how you choose .Weigh the pros and cons of what you want , make a decision and STICK with it. I faced this delima 30 years ago when I got married, I had to ask myself can I truely love a white woman or should I just stick with what everyone expects and marry a black woman, well it's been 30 years
I'm still married to her and I have never regreted my decision in truth it has made me grow and come to realize my full potential. It was a bumpy road but well worth the trip ....Good luck :)

Thankyou So much Rodd75 and Lowride58 your words give me a lot of courage

Still i cant figure out how to spill the beans

You should check if your husband enjoy interracial sex, if he has fantasies of watching you been fucked by black men or sharing you with them... many white men would love to see their wives involved in sex with others but do not feel comfortable to share this kind of idea with them because they fear they get hurt.

I think you should find a way to tell him the truth so you will enjoy your sexual life much more then doing now

Good Luck Dear! :)

Good Luck Kristine Darling! Hope he accepts it!
 

My wife J. told me she loved BBC and that her two previous B/F's had been black when I proposed. She was 21 at the time. She just told me that before she answered that there was something about her that I needed to know, might not like, and could possibly even cause me to rescind my proposal! (that was a good hint wasn't it? I sorta suspected it had to do with men or a guy.) It was something that she knew she loved and wasn't sure she could live without as a married woman everafter. I told her to tell me straight up and we'd deal with it. She started with the fact that her two last B/F's were black guys, I was totally cool with that. She was relieved obviously, but wasn't finished she said.
As I recall she said something like, "And they both had huge, beautiful dicks that I loved having sex with and think about all of the time still. That's the part I'm not sure that I can promise you to give up if I marry you." Well, turns out that that was the perfect time to tell her about my G/F in college that was also very model-hot like her and constantly being hit on daily by men and women. I had found out that instead of driving me crazy jealouse like most guys, that it actually made me horny to hear about all of the proposals she would get. I ended up telling her that when someone she really wanted to do came onto her to go ahead, do it, and just tell me about it.
But I digress and go too long here. I told my fiancee that surely we could make these two things mesh cohesively and that when she found a man she wanted, to go ahead, be careful, and have fun! Just come home to me and tell me all about it afterwards as soon as possible! (The sooner the better, right hubbys?)
Within two weeks she was getting some and I was getting to hear and see and smell and taste and etc, all about it when she would come home from her dates.
We've been doing it since ..before..we were married, and it's been GREAT! We both hope that your man is understanding, accepting, and realizes how lucky he is that you want to stay with him and occasionally fuck BBC!

GOOD LUCK GIRL
c&J
TX USA

Hi Kristine, :) I have the same problem as you and I have not cheated or shared my interracial fantasy with my husband yet either. I thought about leaving hints like faking an email address and sending his email pictures of black lovers and beautiful wives, but I am to scared to even do that! :( It would be so wonderful to share this fantasy, but remember it could wrong and you will loose your husband forever. That's what keeps me from taking it any further than a fantasy!

Good luck sweetie! :) Kisses, Kristy

Kristy,

I don´t know but I don´t think sending pictures of interracial sex to your husband is a good idea. He could open them, enjoy them but not share what he thinks with you... Maybe you have to see how sex is in your marrige, how you feel the creativity of your husband about sex... Does he seem to have some kind of sexual fantasies too? Does he enjoy porn movies? Sex is so important in life that is not wrong to talk about it in a open way in a marriage and so you are going to find out what he thinks... tease your hubby, dear :) let he knows the hot woman you are.
I believe that is totally normal to have sexual fantasies and it doesnt mean you are going to make them real, so I don´t think it is a problem to share them with your husband... probably, he must have fantasies too and you both can have a great time sharing them ;)

why do not invite your husband to a sex shop or let him know you would love go there? Once there you could look for some black dildos (that ones that seems a real black cock) just to see his reaction (something to tease him...)

Women know how to tease men ;)

I wish you luck too :)

Hello Kristine!
I think you must try to talk with your husband about his and your phantasms.Aftter that if he is ok about that propose to go to a sexy shop and buy a black dildo.Ask him to manipule it on you.Play different games with it!
Sorry for my bad english.Be patient!Best regards to you and send us some pics of your black adventures!
Filipe Switzerland

kristina
 

I think the time to tell was before u got married,but now if u want to continue u have to come clean or convince him to explore a sexual adventure with u or share a fantasy that u have with him..some white men i know have told me how they got there wifes interesting in blkmen was to convince them to watch interracial porn,the mind is a powerful tool that can be use to plant seeds in people minds to get them interested so try planted seeds in his mind and see what happens if that don't work,please use wisdom