Ladies, Better alone or in the same room?
 

We've had some experiences that were great, but I've been wondering if she may have a better time if I wasn't in the same room. So ladies, please tell me what you think.

In the room
 

Mine knows if she wants to have sex with other men that I have to be in the room. I just sit in the corner and don't say a word. If that was to change then she would be our on her own with out my support, no house, no money, nothing.

It's better alone, sorry
 

Don't be upset but I have done both and I have more fun on my own. Don't get me wrong it's fun either way but for some reason when alone I just get to enjoy it more instead of worrying if my man is really thinking.

Same same. No difference. Only the potential for a threesome if same room

Yes I have to agree. I've always done both but when hubby is in the room I feel it's much more about him than me. Don't get me wrong I do enjoy it but it's about involving him and giving him his kicks.

The best times are when I have an overnight with a bull. Then I can really relax, don't have to worry about putting on a show for hubby and don't have to think about getting back home.

I enjoy both but for my own pleasure being alone is preferable - however the cuckold dynamic wouldn't work for us if hubby wasn't there to watch from time to time.

Its great both ways!!
 

I like it both ways.

It's hot to see my cuckold watching me with a well hung lover making me cum on his thick black cock but sometimes he is a distraction. If my Lover is getting off on it then I do too.

Because I often entertain when he is not home I have plenty of opportunity to let loose,. If I know a Lover well then I tend to get Kinky when it's just my lover and me.

I love to go out on a date with a Lover to vanilla gathering like drinks with friends on the weekend or after work, often i'll leave my husband home, my close vanilla friends know that we have an open relationship and my girlfriends are jealous that I have this freedom of choice and variety in my sex life. My husband likes it too as he is not good at small talk and hates, absolutely hates to dance!!

If I know my date well sometimes we go back to his place and i spend the night and my husband has to come pick me up in the morning after I've been able to wake up with a thick cock in my pussy and start the day filled with semen. It's almost a vacation for me to have great sex in the morning and start out in the day totally satisfied for a change. It's the only time I regret being married to a small cock but honestly it is a absolutely perfect way to start the day. It makes me feel more womanly to have a man want me in the morning and be so excited to leave his semen inside me, I feel a warm glow all day long when I think about it.

One of my long time boyfriends, 12 years now, moved to DC so when he comes back to visit family and friends I stay at his hotel with him. He likes tom to come pick me up in the morning and sit at breakfast with us and wait for us to finish. More than once we have left him at the table and gone back up to the room to get my things and ended up having sex again. He earned bareback rights years ago so when we are finished I never clean up, I just pull on my panties so tom can smell my Lovers sent and sex on me in the car on the way home.

Sometimes I'll let tom have sex with me afterwards so he can feel how open and wet I am and I know he gets excited about it too as he ejaculates almost instantly. He's is a premature ejaculator, sometimes he can last maybe 3 minutes, but when I have semen inside me he cums almost before getting his thin 7" inside my wet lips.

hubby has asked if I want to be alone...
 

Its important that he is part of the experience. We do this, this isnt just about me. He has sat downstairs before, not been in the room, but I honestly prefer him being present. I have never gone out and met someone on my own, and atleast for now, not looking to. Frankly, if the fucking is good, your mind doesn't even go near the thought of hubby, its all on him anyway.

Flilp a coin
 

Why is the wife interested in putting on a show for the chuck unless that what she wants. My wife wants me there in case something goes wrong and safe words are not responded to.

I agree with Funinvegas9999 that I really don't think about hubby at all any more but I alos agree with dilligaf696989 that when I'm meeting a new Lover for the first time my cuckolds presence is reassuring.

Usually same room MMF but occasionally he will stay the night while I sleep in the spare bedroom. Sometimes a guy will call round when I'm at work and she will phone and tell me she is being fucked.

A Different Perspective
 

This old thread is pretty interesting, I think. One aspect of this whole dynamic that no one has mentioned is how the "bull" reacts to this situation. I have seen other posts on other threads (mostly from cuckold white guys) who say that if the bull wants to get in the wife's pants, he has to accept the husband in the room (at least initially). It's a package deal.

As someone who has been in a couple of relationships with married white women whose husbands knew nothing about it (to my knowledge), I have wondered how I would react if I had a chance to get kinky with a woman as long as hubby is allowed as a spectator. My first reaction is that I am not a "performer" for hubby's entertainment. I am also concerned that the wife may not be as sensual with hubby there. But on the other hand, as long as hubby just sits quietly on the side, "no harm, no foul", right?

My question is for the "bulls" who have been in this situation, how much of an adjustment is it? Does it change the wife's responsiveness when hubby is present?

We are more into the HotWife Lifestyle. My wife has a Regular th) meets a few times a month. I recently decided to ask the wife of she wanted to play alone while I waited outside the hotel room or either I could drop her off and she could text me sfter they finish Fucking. Well the first couple times I just waited outside the hotel room. Let me say that I heard sounds come from her body that I had never heard of even new she could or would ever make. I was Turnt on, concerned, Amazed & pissed all in a matter of seconds. I asked the Bull was their much of a difference with me out of the Room he said most definitely. Said she Fucks at 90%with me in the Room and 110% when I'm not. She Denys she Fucks different. But I know better than that.

PinkBucky My cuckold agrees
 

Pinkbucky, My cuckold also thinks I fuck differently when he is not in the room but the only way you two could judge that is by sound alone and I think it's just wishful thinking on your part.

At least in my husbands case he is free to think what he wants but I'm more vocal when he is around as I know verbal humiliation does to him what watching a Lover physically humiliate him does to me. His humiliation is an aphrodisiac for me so why would I want do deny that.

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I agree with you Sir. Hubbies should learn their role, they have to obey and nothing else.
if the Bull doesn't like to have "spectators" during sex, hubby must leave the room, obviously if woman agree with Bull's decision.
Over the years, I've known Black Men who liked to have fun of me when they fucked my girlfriend, they even allowed me to clean up pussy and their cocks, but many of them weren't so much friendly and they didn't allow me to stay in the room. In such situations I always respect Bull's choice and I leave the room or the house, until they've done.

I play alone
 

I play alone. My husband loves to know that I'm out doing it and it's easier for me and my lovers to get intimate. Any black men want a blonde wife in nc / rdu hit me up