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Hi, Im 24yo good looking guy with a 20yo super hott wife. Were newly weds and for some reason I've been having these turn ons daily for the past year. I want to watch my wife get fucked by another guy with a huge cock and thats basically it. I tried to get over it because I feel bad but whenever we have sex I have mentioned it to her and she gets really wet and cums fast but after I get off then I get insecure. I ask her if thats really what she wants when she talks dirty back to me about it and then she says no that shed never do that but it does turn her on and she wishes that there were 3 of me to gangbang her instead. I really dont know what to do because 1/2 the time I want it and nothing else turns me on but then whenever I get off I feel like Id really regret it and itd destroy our marriage because she had sex with another man and you cant take it back. I think Id feel more comfortable with a black guy than a white guy for many reasons. But Im here to ask if theres anyone in PA who is a cuckold and that would invite me over to watch, nothing more jsut to see what its like and maybe be friends and teach me from there point of view. I think I could get my wife to do it but I change keep changing my mind because then she will never do it. Any help would be nice....also a BBC to be friends with and get to know me and my wife would be good too.

Not so sure a couple will be inviting you over soon to watch them as many of us that do this keep it rather a private thing, but good luck anyway. On the other issue you mention, I too used to fantasise about it when in my 20s but always felt awful about it after I'd cum. As the years passed, that awful feeling kind of died away somehow, maybe I became more confident in who I was. Anyway, by my mid-30s I found the thought of another guy fucking my wife was a hot thought even after cumming, and at that point I knew I had to try and make it a reality, which I did. If there's anything I can say to you, it's that the desire to see your wife with another guy may never go away, and it actually might get stronger. Only you'll know when the time is right for this, and that day will surely come. The first time another guy fucks your wife is a psychological watershed, because if you both enjoyed what happened, you'll be looking to repeat the experience often. Good luck.

I dont think anyone will just invite you over to take notes either. It sounds like she likes the fantasy but may be willing in time. DONT RUSH HER! Let her tell you when and if she is ready. Took me 7 years from mentioning it to actually doing it. She told me that was something she wanted to do, I was already ok with it. We use to watch porn where women had 2 or more men at once. We took our time and found exactly what she was looking for and she loved it. I enjoyed watching and getting in on the fun, it never affected us and she became even more sexual. We even did a threesome with a female because of it. Good luck but all I can say is take your time and dont rush her, its all about her desire, she has to be comfortable

I can tell you from my situation that the desire to watch my wife take a bbc in her pussy has gotten stronger over the years. I've wanted it for 15+ years and can't quit thinking about it. My wife knows all of my fantasies and desires, it even turns her on. But she's afraid it will destroy us. I think you will find as time goes by you will want this more than anything. I do.

help make it happening...
 

i am not sure if i can give advice..as we have not done it yet....i have had fantasies for a while and wife knows about it also. She has played and done some videos, pictures...some exhib...it has helped enhanced our sex life...will she do it for real? well yes i think that after all these years she will...i think that you will find out that yourwife says know but her pussy says yes. If you combine the right conditions, like vacations, a bit of alcohol, great time during the day like snorkeling, nice dinner, a few more drinks, somedancing...and some black guys inviting her to dance, strating to feel her tits, ass....bringing her in a quiet place...something WILL happen...

are you ready? it is normal that once you have jerked off, the envy disappear..it happens to all guys....but if your wife does it, will you be jealous? will you still have some control? i have wild fantasies that my wife will do bbcs...unprotected and risk getting some permanent brown souvenirs!!!! ...

in my case, i would prefer that my wife does strangers and not friends. I would prefer that the wife does it for physical sex but not loving the guys...not sure if wifes can do that!!!

so if you think that you are ready, setup the right conditions and be prepared to see it happen...but be sure that it is what you want...and if it is, the nmake that your wife knows that bareback is what you want to see....

Following my own advice
 

It seems the way to know of she might be ready is to let her know for sure she has your approval and desire for her to go for it. Then find the guy on your own (secretly) that is right for the job and establish a plan where she "runs into him" on several occasions. After he establishes his desire for her and she starts to think about him then the opportunity will arise when she will either see him or not. If she is on control and has manageability over the situAtion, then it will be her program and that could make all the difference with some women. Mine wife included. I will let you know if it works. I am currently looking for the right stud! Any hung young black studs in MidMichigan? Wife is awesome and always wet! She fantasizes about thick uncut black men! Drives me crazy for 12+ years but she is very loyal to me and very afraid. Patience will earn the right stud a real treat!

Once my wife agreed it would be fun to try a black bull and we agreed the rules..we decided the best plan was to select a black stud while on a Carribean vacation..for me to make a casual introduction ..allow them some beach pool time alone..where she would flirt with him.. I then reappeared to say I had to go into town for some reason..leaving them alone..she then invited him back to our suite for a drink which led to sex.

In the evening we would run into the bull and I would tell him I knew all about it, that it was cool and if he wanted more I would have to watch..by then he wanted more pussy so bad he would agree to anything.
On our honeymoon she had a huge young black bull who was the Masseur and word spread she was hit up by every bull working the resort it was fantastic !

Take your time encourage her and be present at least at first.

Dont know if youve seen it on the general thread but I think it may pay you dividends on getting her interested by taking a look on the general discussion board

http://www.iloveinterracial.com/forum/general-interracial-discussion/2142-sub-concious-stimulation.html

THIS IS WORKING FOR ME AND MY WIFEY so what you got to lose

My method that worked with my ex-wife and some but not all girlfriends afterwards is to start slow. Begin with verbal comments complimenting her on how good she looks, how much you enjoy watching other men flirt with her and how good her pussy is.

Then I move to psych encouragement by flattering her further and flattering how good her pussy is and should be shared or it's a shame only one man gets to fuck it.

Later I move to sabotaging my performance; not as much sex with her, masturbating more
and underperforming in sex then not cumming in her.


All during these steps inviting strangers over and encouraging them to be alone and flirt by leaving the room
and doing chores, becoming more homely and submissive indirectly by doing house work, taking
care of the kids, going to bed early.

Finally, I have a talk with her, sober and drunk over a period of time and convincing her she is so pretty and good enough in bed she deserves to be shared with random strange hung studs only to service and fuck her better than I can.
Sometimes I plant that I suspect or know she will cheat and that this way, she can get fucked by hung studds in a safe relationship healthy way and not compromise our love/relationship.

Usually they are coy and deny this or are shocked at first but by me introducing studds to her in social situations and letting them know there are no expectations, she may not fuck, eventually one prevails and fucks her.

During that time, I bring up all the stuff we talked about while shes getting fucked and empower her by allowing her the freedom to verbally tell me during getting services how much she needed another mans hung dick and how much better it is than mine.

Finally, allowing him to cum in her and at the same time renforcing my submissiveness her dominance by telling him before hand if he fucks her to cum inside her unless she says not too but that I will tell him not too and for him to pretend to not listen and show dominance over me by cumming inside her anyways.

That way, she can feel well fucked by a hung studd, cuckold me by maybe enjoying the feeling of another man taking her body, mounting her in front of me and cumming inside her regardless of what I asked him to do.

Usually they begin to enjoy cuckolding me and getting different hung studds in their pussy.

The last stage that sometimes yes sometimes no happens is the creampie enjoyment. The girls, especially my ex that wanted me to eat their bulls creampie were the best. I enjoyed the pleasure she got in seeing me submit to another man's hung cock in her pussy and eating his cum out of her. With select special studds, it let them know I submit to their desire to have the right studds mate them and her need to have their cum drip in her pussy and hope she gets pregnant.

I was never with a girl that got pregnant but was with some where we began the discussion of a pregnancy. Basically if it was the right fit regular studd she foresaw she was attracted to enough to maybe keep around long term some agreed they would entertain the idea of getting pregnant on purpose and having the baby for both love, family and the pleasure of being able to realize carrying another man's baby in her belly we can both raise, that she knows I and her would enjoy seeing our new baby suckle her tit and possibly have a semi-regular love she would gladly submit to when he came around or she needed him.

In the above scenario, my ex-wife wanted a white baby and I wanted her to have a black baby. She wasn't ready in her mind for that but did agree it was a turn on to see pretty white girls witth mixed black babies. Myself, seeing a mixed baby suckle her tit and knowing the daddy/bull may come over and stay from time to time was a turn on. Especially me pushing the baby around the neighborhood while he is over fucking her afterwards.

Finally, talk to your wife about possibilites and scenarios.That has helped sometimes too. Woman love to think it may turn into a regular thing without emotions to damage the marriage after several times. Most that went down this route with me enjoyed the thought of having another male come over at his leisure during the day night or weekend and staying over a night or weekend. Imagery
Show her pics of pretty white girls who could fuck anywhite guy but instead fucking black studds and loving it.
That helps show them how much those pretty women are enjoying getting fucked and finally let her read blogs and stories written by women for woman.
It helps her realize her needs, desires, possiblities and over come fears she may have.

We r in South Africa n i always wanted my lady 2 do 3some with bbc and it split us up for 9 months then when we got back together she told me i pushed her 2 hard 2 do something she was not ready 4 but whilst we were apart she met Simon,a bbc guy from USA and they became lovers. Now she is happy 2 fuck bbc and we have. She just can't find i bbc she wants 2 fuck regularly but who knows. So don't push things they will happen when she is ready pal.

Great story Charlie, shows how you brought her along slowly bit by bit. I think if you can get your wife to swing, you can get her to cuckold you. Once you have broached the subject of threesomes or swapping successfully, integrate it into your fantasy life. If you don't fantasize during sex or get a bit kinky already, it is time to start. I have her watch interracial porn while I eat her pussy. Once she starts to imagine their big black cocks filling her pussy, fuck her and cum deep inside as she thinks about his black cum shooting into her womb. She will cum harder than usual and will welcome repeating the experience. Eventually she will want to try making it real. So you have two choices. Join a swing club and introduce her to women just like her who have taken the plunge. Many of them are size queens and love black cock too. Or join an internet forum such as this one or a dating site. Learn to incorporate your membership into your real sex life and if you are in the right place at the right time Mr. Rightnow will come along. Make sure that you let her have the most fun. Practice denial of your own urges. Do not cum before they are finished fucking. If you come before it is over you will not find it as much fun anymore. I never cum until I have cleaned up her pussy after they are satisfied. Eat her creamfilled pussy and she will cum like nothing else and love you for it. She will be hooked for life.