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[ddpa]

Hi, Im 24yo good looking guy with a 20yo super hott wife. Were newly weds and for some reason I've been having these turn ons daily for the past year. I want to watch my wife get fucked by another guy with a huge cock and thats basically it. I tried to get over it because I feel bad but whenever we have sex I have mentioned it to her and she gets really wet and cums fast but after I get off then I get insecure. I ask her if thats really what she wants when she talks dirty back to me about it and then she says no that shed never do that but it does turn her on and she wishes that there were 3 of me to gangbang her instead. I really dont know what to do because 1/2 the time I want it and nothing else turns me on but then whenever I get off I feel like Id really regret it and itd destroy our marriage because she had sex with another man and you cant take it back. I think Id feel more comfortable with a black guy than a white guy for many reasons. But Im here to ask if theres anyone in PA who is a cuckold and that would invite me over to watch, nothing more jsut to see what its like and maybe be friends and teach me from there point of view. I think I could get my wife to do it but I change keep changing my mind because then she will never do it. Any help would be nice....also a BBC to be friends with and get to know me and my wife would be good too.

[jenks678]

Not so sure a couple will be inviting you over soon to watch them as many of us that do this keep it rather a private thing, but good luck anyway. On the other issue you mention, I too used to fantasise about it when in my 20s but always felt awful about it after I'd cum. As the years passed, that awful feeling kind of died away somehow, maybe I became more confident in who I was. Anyway, by my mid-30s I found the thought of another guy fucking my wife was a hot thought even after cumming, and at that point I knew I had to try and make it a reality, which I did. If there's anything I can say to you, it's that the desire to see your wife with another guy may never go away, and it actually might get stronger. Only you'll know when the time is right for this, and that day will surely come. The first time another guy fucks your wife is a psychological watershed, because if you both enjoyed what happened, you'll be looking to repeat the experience often. Good luck.

[atomicdawg]

I dont think anyone will just invite you over to take notes either. It sounds like she likes the fantasy but may be willing in time. DONT RUSH HER! Let her tell you when and if she is ready. Took me 7 years from mentioning it to actually doing it. She told me that was something she wanted to do, I was already ok with it. We use to watch porn where women had 2 or more men at once. We took our time and found exactly what she was looking for and she loved it. I enjoyed watching and getting in on the fun, it never affected us and she became even more sexual. We even did a threesome with a female because of it. Good luck but all I can say is take your time and dont rush her, its all about her desire, she has to be comfortable

[MacNfries]

ddpa, sounds like all you really want your wife to do is screw a man in front of you, for your own mental pleasures. That's not cuckolding. Simply inviting a 3rd party to join you and your wife will probably surfice. That way its purely SEX; no emotions, no egos.
As far as regretting it later, test the waters first ... make the 3rd party use a condom, that way if you regret it and wish to stop it later, you can honestly say his cock hasn't actually touched the inside of her pussy, and its over.
Be sure you know what cuckolding is all about, ddpa, before you start it. There are basically 2 types of cuckolding; one is fantasy play cuckolding, and the other, real cuckolding. What you see on here, for the most part, is fantasy play. The difference in the two is "who maintains control".
Fantasy play cuckolding is really no more than one-way swinging; a married guy wishes to watch his wife have sex with other men. Another name for it is WITTOL ... look it up! There are bunches of fetish spin-offs to it ... creampie, bbc, humiliation, bondage, sissyfying, milking, should we mention pregnancy? ... etc ... but the primary thing to keep in mind is, that the husband can pull the plug on it at any time. Once he bores with it, he stops it.
True cuckolding is a whole different story ... the wife is cheating with other men (infidelity) and the husband may or may not know it, but the wife is the one who controls the situation. What she does is none of her husband's business; he can either tolerate it, try to enjoy it, or leave ... it will make no difference to her. For the cuck, there's usually depression, anger, even violence in some cases.
Lastly, you say you would prefer a black guy to a white guy ... now that's funny, 'cause I can almost assure you if you start with a black guy first ... he's gonna own that pussy before the end of the month, and you'll be sitting and jerking off as she gets more and more addicted to black cock. So, if I were you, I'd start off really simple ... getting into a 3-way with you, your wife and another guy, first ... with condoms. If it works out, move to the next step. Or, you can do as most people here would tell you to do ... find you a Black Bull and get it over with ... lol Keep us posted ... Mac

[prpl4wf]

I can tell you from my situation that the desire to watch my wife take a bbc in her pussy has gotten stronger over the years. I've wanted it for 15+ years and can't quit thinking about it. My wife knows all of my fantasies and desires, it even turns her on. But she's afraid it will destroy us. I think you will find as time goes by you will want this more than anything. I do.

[newatthis17]

i am not sure if i can give advice..as we have not done it yet....i have had fantasies for a while and wife knows about it also. She has played and done some videos, pictures...some exhib...it has helped enhanced our sex life...will she do it for real? well yes i think that after all these years she will...i think that you will find out that yourwife says know but her pussy says yes. If you combine the right conditions, like vacations, a bit of alcohol, great time during the day like snorkeling, nice dinner, a few more drinks, somedancing...and some black guys inviting her to dance, strating to feel her tits, ass....bringing her in a quiet place...something WILL happen...

are you ready? it is normal that once you have jerked off, the envy disappear..it happens to all guys....but if your wife does it, will you be jealous? will you still have some control? i have wild fantasies that my wife will do bbcs...unprotected and risk getting some permanent brown souvenirs!!!! ...

in my case, i would prefer that my wife does strangers and not friends. I would prefer that the wife does it for physical sex but not loving the guys...not sure if wifes can do that!!!

so if you think that you are ready, setup the right conditions and be prepared to see it happen...but be sure that it is what you want...and if it is, the nmake that your wife knows that bareback is what you want to see....

[Radscan]

It seems the way to know of she might be ready is to let her know for sure she has your approval and desire for her to go for it. Then find the guy on your own (secretly) that is right for the job and establish a plan where she "runs into him" on several occasions. After he establishes his desire for her and she starts to think about him then the opportunity will arise when she will either see him or not. If she is on control and has manageability over the situAtion, then it will be her program and that could make all the difference with some women. Mine wife included. I will let you know if it works. I am currently looking for the right stud! Any hung young black studs in MidMichigan? Wife is awesome and always wet! She fantasizes about thick uncut black men! Drives me crazy for 12+ years but she is very loyal to me and very afraid. Patience will earn the right stud a real treat!

[belmontbrit]

Once my wife agreed it would be fun to try a black bull and we agreed the rules..we decided the best plan was to select a black stud while on a Carribean vacation..for me to make a casual introduction ..allow them some beach pool time alone..where she would flirt with him.. I then reappeared to say I had to go into town for some reason..leaving them alone..she then invited him back to our suite for a drink which led to sex.

In the evening we would run into the bull and I would tell him I knew all about it, that it was cool and if he wanted more I would have to watch..by then he wanted more pussy so bad he would agree to anything.
On our honeymoon she had a huge young black bull who was the Masseur and word spread she was hit up by every bull working the resort it was fantastic !

[belmontbrit]

Originally Posted by belmontbrit

Once my wife agreed it would be fun to try a black bull and we agreed the rules..we decided the best plan was to select a black stud while on a Carribean vacation..for me to make a casual introduction ..allow them some beach pool time alone..where she would flirt with him.. I then reappeared to say I had to go into town for some reason..leaving them alone..she then invited him back to our suite for a drink which led to sex.

In the evening we would run into the bull and I would tell him I knew all about it, that it was cool and if he wanted more I would have to watch..by then he wanted more pussy so bad he would agree to anything.
On our honeymoon she had a huge young black bull who was the Masseur and word spread she was hit up by every bull working the resort it was fantastic !

Take your time encourage her and be present at least at first.

[mikewhitey]

Dont know if youve seen it on the general thread but I think it may pay you dividends on getting her interested by taking a look on the general discussion board

http://www.iloveinterracial.com/forum/general-interracial-discussion/2142-sub-concious-stimulation.html

THIS IS WORKING FOR ME AND MY WIFEY so what you got to lose