As far as my wife goes, she has one friend that knows and that's it.

Before I was with my wife I was in a long term relationship with a girl who got me into the cuckold lifestyle. She put pictures of herself making out with a black guy on myspace while we were together, so most of her friends (and a couple of mine) knew but it was much easier than I expected.

None of our family knows but my wife's best friend knows. My wife is four and a half months pregnant with a black baby so it will be pretty hard to hide it soon. Still have not quite figured out how to explain it...

Congratualtions hobnober! Let us know what happens..

I know this is cuck stuff but I wanna give this topic a different slant! It's not all about you White bois and wives sneaking around!!

When I was 15 I took a White girl home with me, my mother came home later and so we left! After when I got home, my mom gave me a bollocking & a lecture on White girls! My mom is a typical black old fashioned woman! She's very religious and I guess a little protective of her only child! I listened to her lecture of how possessive White girls are, how they dress, how there only after one thing, how there just using me! I gotta be honest her lecture just told me all I needed to know & how I knew I was made for White women!

Now a sons love for his mom is the ultimate, nothing could make me hurt her, but what mom doesn't know! Doesn't hurt her!!!!! So the moral of the story is don't rub there faces init!

My mom has met 2 of my girlfriends since, quite serious relationships and both times I got the LOOK from her! Now even tho I love a trophy girl and I love showing my girl off, dressed slutty hanging off my arm. But I couldn't introduce a girl to my mom dressed like julia Roberts out of pretty woman! My moms heart would shatter!!

My friends & family all know about my lifestyle and what I'm like! And I couldn't give a shit about "Joe public", maybe that's why I love showing off but around my mom I draw the line! So I guess you just have to choose your audience and think about the consequences!

Well said!

Never thought about the other side
 

Danny, thanks for chiming in with your story too. It is funny that being in the situation I am, I think about the dynamic between my wife and her lovers, our friends and our families all the time. I have never thought about her lovers having to hide what their doing from their families too. It humanizes the situation a little more for me to think about that side of it a little. I like reading your posts. You do a great job of articulating your feelings and desires and I applaud you for it. You have opened my eyes to the other side.

Families are what they are! Awkward, dysfunctional, loving, loyal, frustrating! But there's no such thing as normal. While my family know, I've also dated women who's family do not!

Now every family is different and I've been introduced to families many times in many different situations & circumstances. I've been caught, which is never good, exciting but not the best way to meet her dad or kids for that matter! I've been introduced, sometimes with a smile, sometimes with a stone faced look! The hardest is being introduced to kids! Dating older women this as happened to me twice, once not so bad, second time the kids thought I was replacing there dad! How do you tell a 7 year old boy & 10 year old girl I'm not trying to be your dad I just love fucking and dating your mom and pissing off your dad??

I'm not a shy guy, I don't as a rule get nervous nor embarrassed! I'm good in situations where some people crawl in a corner and give up! A few years ago I started dating a woman in her late 30's! So I'm not talking about a teenager full of angst! One night she was dressed to kill, to stun and turn heads, wearing a dress so short n tight it looked painted on, in her huge platform heels each sexi step revealed the tops of her stockings as her dress rode up! Yes I loved it and yes I was gunna fuck her to perfection all night and into the morning!

When she said we was going to a club I was expecting something different to what she took me to! Where she took me was a hired function room in a club for her parents 40th wedding anniversary, your typical family affair, shitty cheesy 80's music, old men in suits, people talking about memories! That was until we walked in and instantly changed everyone's thoughts conversations and heads. This is how I was introduced to the family, at first I didn't mind and I loved flirting and running my hand over her ass while her family had a look of disgust on there faces. But meeting her mom n dad changed my mind, a small conversation started and I instantly new they didn't get on! Especially when she said this is Danny, isn't he gorgeous, we've been dating 6months and I can't get enough of is huge black cock!

Now families are weird! Mine are to but it doesn't mean I don't love them, I was used that night to get back at her family! All she wanted to do was ruin her parents moment, & me thinking with my cock walked straight in and played my part!

Don't live your life unhappy but don't go out your way to make someone unhappy either

no except my wife told my brother she was having sex with a black man. Funny part is she probably married black , that is what she's attracted to black men, except she could never tell her family. LOL

yes
 

my daughter knows & hubby & i are on here together

Sooooo, when did the daughter go black?