Does Your Family Know?
 

I just want to know how many of you have let your family know about your decision to live the lifestyle?

If you have children at home do you let them know?

Do you leave the doors open when you are with your bull?

Does you bull live with you?

How does this work?

Thanks

Our only child, a daughter, knows what we do. But we're discreet beyond that cause of high profile job my wife has. I'm a cuck to her and she has 2 bf's.

If the kids are old enough I think that it's Ok for them to know that mom has a black lover on the side and that dad accepts this. Yet I don't think that they should be able to watch the actual penetration of mom no matter how old they are, that's only for mom, dad and the black bull to enjoy.
As for other family and friends you would be surprised how many people find it is no big beal if mommy has a black boyfriend it seems to be quite popular in liberal open-minded circles. Especially if the wife is a little older and the kids are out of the house.

Unique situation
 

My kids are grown and am sure my daughter knows because she is married to a black man and the first black guy I ever did was at her apartment and was her now husband's younger brother. They were asleep in another room but sure she knows but doesn't directly mention it. My son on the other hand is a redneck and glad he lives a 1000 miles away because I know he couldn't handle it.

Hi Susu,
You might see your son as a redneck but believe me many white men can handel this situation nowadays. I mean his mother and sister are being fucked by black men and I'm certain you two are not the only white women that he knowns who have a black stud on the side.
Get in touch with him make him understand and think of the service you might be doing him if his wife or girlfriend comes home with a black lover one of these days.

No way does anyone in our family know, and it's gonna stay that way. We live a conservatve middle-class lifestyle - our kids are now in their early teens and look after themsleves when we go out to a 'party', which usually means dinner at a restaurant followed by some hotel room where a hung black guy gets to fuck my wife. To the outside world, we're just your average couple, long may it stay that way!

Family no,but some friends yes
 

My 25 yr old hotGF's parents and siblings are very Christian,and would die of shock if they knew their youngest 'baby' girl loves hot sex with black men,which I got her into. Also,my family would pretty much disown me if they found out too.. However,some of our friends know,although not the details,such as she has only very recently got a new black boyfriend that she dates,and that he sleeps over our place in our bed with her while I stay in the spare room. I truly admire those in the BBC lifestyle that have their parents and close family knowing the truth!

Does Your Family Know
 

We do not have children and our families know about our lifestyle. My mother who is the matriarch of our family dated and married her black bull last May. My sub husband's parents have passed, but his sister has stayed with us for a couple weeks last summer and did not have a problem with our open door policy. Finally, since my bull lives with us and is in complete charge, my husband, my parents (black step dad) and hubby's sister have accepted our wonderful relationship.

Hubby and his sis while here simply had to follow the rules my bull layed down.

no our family's don't know.,. because we live in a very small community we try to keep our lifestyle descreet for obvious reasons.,..we swap and sometimes group with a black couple so no my wife's bull don't live with us but he DOES have a key to our home and free access to my wife.,..much as i do to his.

hi my best friend Carol knows shes married to and once a every couple of months we go down to London supposedly to she shows but really to meet nice blackmen to see to us all weekend my hubby Brian knows but Carols hubby doesnt have a clue .

Love the fact that Mandy goes to London with her friend for naughty weekends. Wonder why her friend doesn't tell her hubby lol.

Neither of our families know that I am regularly fucked by a man other than my husband and certainly not that my husband is fully aware and positively encourages it.

I am pretty sure that none of hubbies friends suspect but I think that one of mine suspects that something is going on but doesn't quite know what it is.

We are definitely not going to broadcast the fact that we are living a cuckold lifestyle and that I love black cock, but if someone did find out we would have to deal with it at the time.

xxHelen

sis
 

did your Bull fuck your husbands sister while she was there visiting? or require her to suck his cock?

Does Your Family Know
 

Yes, my Bull did fuck my husbands sister while she was visiiting here. Also, she was required to suck his cock. The first time it was right here in the living room in front of my husband and me. Unfortunately, she thought my Bull was kididng and did not comply when and how told especially in front of us. That stunt earned her a tirp over his knee and a spanking I do not think she will forget. He asked her if she was ready to start behaving or needed to go over his knee again. With tears flowing she promised to behave and do as she was told. She learned fast that you don't telll our Bull no. When he told her that the no panties and no bra rules applied to her as well, she quickly tossed out her panties, bras and pantyhose.

What a wonderful bull you have, you lucky people!

Noone in our family has any idea. We have no children, and live in a different town from my brother and sister, and from my wifes sister. None of my friends know, but one of my wifes friends is into the same kind of lifestyle and they share stories.

They way my wife dresses and the fact that most of the callers at the house are black, no one could mistake what she is! We many years ago lived in a normal white community and she got terrific abuse from the neighbours, because her openly promiscous attitude. We were forced to move to an area on the edge of what you call a "Project".

She fitted in easily and within a few weeks she became well known in our new area. I was away for a couple of weeks at a time and my wife never turned down an opportunity to date other guys. She now has pierced nipples, a tramp stamp and 5 years ago, one of her current boyfriends persuaded her to get him name tattoed above her right breast, he dumped her a few weeks later. The tattoo is not discrete and can clearly be seen every time she wears a low cut or transparent top. Over the years various boyfriends have changed her appearance to that of a typical white slut.

Her gorgeous long brown hair is now a cheap looking straw coloured bottle blonde, She does not possess any skirts that are not tight and longer than 4" above her knee's, when she used to go out to clubs with her lovers, they insisted she always wore a transparent top without her bra, clearly whats on offer.
Years ago she was 34C 28 36, now she is 42D 38 44, and whilst she may be 5' 6" her ass and breasts have got considerably lower. Yet she is always getting hit on by black guys. Her current boyfriend went with six of his friends and her to New Orleans for Mardi Gras., they arrived on the 5th and is not returning until Monday night.

i have no kids and my husband does not realize that he is being cuckold. he does not i do other men and have him eat their cum from my pussy. been doing it to him since our first time. so he has never had me without another man's cum already in me. but my mother and sister do know of what i do.

Damn, sounds like she's wonderful.

I think anyone that says some family members knows is a complete lie. There's no way you would tell your kids or your parents. And if you do then you are very irresponsible about the whole thing. Not to mention that no one knowing its a HUGE part of the turn on. Thats one of the things that make it such a huge turn on to began with. Thanks John and Chris

By the way you can always tell who the people on here telling lie's by how many post they have most of the time. If you want a true answer only believe the people on here with a few more post than 1-5. The profile's with more than are the most likelythe one that are going to give you a true answer. We are the ones that really live the life style.

But us personal we dont tell anyone. And i dont go to the extreme as some of the guys on here. So i guess i really wouldn't be included in the cuck part. I only enjoy watching and not joining in. And i dont not clean up...lol. Later!

Not saying you! But there are way to many people that lie on this site. John and Chris:)

Not quite sure what you are getting at. I know that there are plenty of wannabes here as well as people posing as something that they are not, but I did not understand your earlier message about the amount of posts someone has put up.

Please clarify.

xxHelen

I was just trying to make the point that people with one or two post are just on here making random comments about some of the issue's we talk about. I dont think they really live this life stlye, but like to pretend they do. Hope this helps!

Thanks - I'm afraid I wasn't really tuned in to the point you were making, but all clear now.

xxHelen

No one has any idea!! friends or family.

This is just something that me and hubby do. Never had a guy back to our house but that might change soon, what will the neighbours say? LOL

No way
 

I think thats a very sensible thing to do the way you handle it. If my wife was into it thats how id want it too, keep personal family life away and seperate from what we do privately to spike our sex life!

Besides I would find the transformation of my wife from being regular mom and housewife to the world to secretly changing into a woman who is dressed like a slut in some bar while i keep a watch on her she is flirting with another man enjoying another mans sexual attention infront of me.... thats one sexy hell of a transformation for me. and shed know she would get a good hard fucking that night from her husband as a reward... :)

It's probably not a good idea for the discerning white mom who goes black to flaunt her sexual preferences in front of her children, but if handled properly, it's should be OK if her children (and perhaps also her trusting friends) to know she has taken a black lover. Often, trying to hide the fact that the wife has gone black does more harm than good.

son
 

if you think, your daughter knows, you should siscuss it with her. it might worked out to be more fun. my question is, how many times, have you fucked him since

what a sub
 

you want to tell me, that you are married, but it is your bull who is in charge, i am just currious, can hubby still fuck you

Does your family know ..
 

Yes, bob and I are married and our black bull is in complete charge. He is very dominant and out spoken and has the ego to match. Once our black bull moved in, he simply layed down the rules, his expectations and mandated obedience. No, hubby is not allowed to fuck me and needs to obtain our black bulls permission to even masturbate. Linda

As far as my wife goes, she has one friend that knows and that's it.

Before I was with my wife I was in a long term relationship with a girl who got me into the cuckold lifestyle. She put pictures of herself making out with a black guy on myspace while we were together, so most of her friends (and a couple of mine) knew but it was much easier than I expected.

None of our family knows but my wife's best friend knows. My wife is four and a half months pregnant with a black baby so it will be pretty hard to hide it soon. Still have not quite figured out how to explain it...

Congratualtions hobnober! Let us know what happens..

I know this is cuck stuff but I wanna give this topic a different slant! It's not all about you White bois and wives sneaking around!!

When I was 15 I took a White girl home with me, my mother came home later and so we left! After when I got home, my mom gave me a bollocking & a lecture on White girls! My mom is a typical black old fashioned woman! She's very religious and I guess a little protective of her only child! I listened to her lecture of how possessive White girls are, how they dress, how there only after one thing, how there just using me! I gotta be honest her lecture just told me all I needed to know & how I knew I was made for White women!

Now a sons love for his mom is the ultimate, nothing could make me hurt her, but what mom doesn't know! Doesn't hurt her!!!!! So the moral of the story is don't rub there faces init!

My mom has met 2 of my girlfriends since, quite serious relationships and both times I got the LOOK from her! Now even tho I love a trophy girl and I love showing my girl off, dressed slutty hanging off my arm. But I couldn't introduce a girl to my mom dressed like julia Roberts out of pretty woman! My moms heart would shatter!!

My friends & family all know about my lifestyle and what I'm like! And I couldn't give a shit about "Joe public", maybe that's why I love showing off but around my mom I draw the line! So I guess you just have to choose your audience and think about the consequences!

Well said!

Never thought about the other side
 

Danny, thanks for chiming in with your story too. It is funny that being in the situation I am, I think about the dynamic between my wife and her lovers, our friends and our families all the time. I have never thought about her lovers having to hide what their doing from their families too. It humanizes the situation a little more for me to think about that side of it a little. I like reading your posts. You do a great job of articulating your feelings and desires and I applaud you for it. You have opened my eyes to the other side.

Families are what they are! Awkward, dysfunctional, loving, loyal, frustrating! But there's no such thing as normal. While my family know, I've also dated women who's family do not!

Now every family is different and I've been introduced to families many times in many different situations & circumstances. I've been caught, which is never good, exciting but not the best way to meet her dad or kids for that matter! I've been introduced, sometimes with a smile, sometimes with a stone faced look! The hardest is being introduced to kids! Dating older women this as happened to me twice, once not so bad, second time the kids thought I was replacing there dad! How do you tell a 7 year old boy & 10 year old girl I'm not trying to be your dad I just love fucking and dating your mom and pissing off your dad??

I'm not a shy guy, I don't as a rule get nervous nor embarrassed! I'm good in situations where some people crawl in a corner and give up! A few years ago I started dating a woman in her late 30's! So I'm not talking about a teenager full of angst! One night she was dressed to kill, to stun and turn heads, wearing a dress so short n tight it looked painted on, in her huge platform heels each sexi step revealed the tops of her stockings as her dress rode up! Yes I loved it and yes I was gunna fuck her to perfection all night and into the morning!

When she said we was going to a club I was expecting something different to what she took me to! Where she took me was a hired function room in a club for her parents 40th wedding anniversary, your typical family affair, shitty cheesy 80's music, old men in suits, people talking about memories! That was until we walked in and instantly changed everyone's thoughts conversations and heads. This is how I was introduced to the family, at first I didn't mind and I loved flirting and running my hand over her ass while her family had a look of disgust on there faces. But meeting her mom n dad changed my mind, a small conversation started and I instantly new they didn't get on! Especially when she said this is Danny, isn't he gorgeous, we've been dating 6months and I can't get enough of is huge black cock!

Now families are weird! Mine are to but it doesn't mean I don't love them, I was used that night to get back at her family! All she wanted to do was ruin her parents moment, & me thinking with my cock walked straight in and played my part!

Don't live your life unhappy but don't go out your way to make someone unhappy either

no except my wife told my brother she was having sex with a black man. Funny part is she probably married black , that is what she's attracted to black men, except she could never tell her family. LOL

yes
 

my daughter knows & hubby & i are on here together

Sooooo, when did the daughter go black?