Asking your husband to wear a condom
 

This might be my first thread here but I have spent quite some time here looking at pictures and reading some forum topics. Its nice to see im not the only one with these thoughts. To narrow my story down I am 26 and asian my husband is 33 white. We got into this lifestyle about 2 years ago or began to talk about it. I eventually found the guy I am with now and have been with him for 7-8 months. Hes older 45 but rough and experienced in these matters or certainly appears to be. I like the contrast versus the more gentle sex I have with my husband but also find it adds the same fire for us reliving what I do with my bull.

I see my bull once a week on the weekend. Part of the reason I like the sex is because this guy is so demanding and is it wrong of me to say but I secretly like the humiliation. I know my husband enjoys watching it happen he acts submissive but not in a sexual way.

This bull really gets off on comentating my fuckings. He rides me hard and nasty when talking dirty to me. I do love it and my husbands reactions. This last weekend we had the chance to spend some time alone because my husband was away. It was spent mostly in bed but he asked me something that made me incredibly horny. He wants me to ask my husband to start wearing condoms if we are together.

I am on the pill and havent really ever had any scares but I do go bareback with this guy. I am not about to come off the pill but I won't lie I do like the bareback sex with my bull. He says it is horny knowing that he would be the only one cumming inside me from now on. The whole submissive and other side of things do turn me on but as much as I know my husband is happy with things so far is this just too much to ask or expect?

I believe my husband would and it would make my bull and his 2 other older :) friends very happy. i really love bull cream inside me the most.

I am happy with things as they are the thought does turn me on but im unsure of what to do. Does anyone have any advice?

Communicate
 

I'm probably not the best person to comment on this because my Husband (Sir) and I approach my having sex with other men as another way of submitting to him. Since Sir is also my Dominant the idea of his having to wear a condom while another man gets to fuck me bareback just wouldn't work at all, even if I wanted it...and I don't. Still, I may have some insight from our D/s issues. He has shared me with a fair number of men over the years. Sometimes he has only required that I flirt. Other times he has let one or more men fuck me. And we have spent a fair amount of time with me submitting to things somewhere between those two extremes. What we found each time was that we really needed to talk things over afterward. No holding back, no saying what one of us thinks the other wants to hear or what we "ought" to say. Just the simple truth about what we both experienced before, during and after the fact. As a result, there have been some things and some people we've tried more than once and some we left off after, and even before, the first time. We decided years ago that in spite of all the things we do for fun, our marriage and family had to come first. We remain firm in the commitment we made to each other that we will allow nothing to come between us. If you and your husband can do that, I think you'll be good with whatever decision you make. Sorry if I rambled.

-slut

It's part of the game for us
 

I agree with Stealthy and we too decided at the very start of this journey that our marriage and our family was the most important thing and that we would only play and experiment so far as we were comfortable and that we wanted to do.

To date we have stuck with that ethos and we are having a bull (pun intended) - both of us.

However, we have gone down the road of only letting my bull cum inside me and hubby does wear a condom on the odd occasions when we have intercourse. It was something that my bull suggested initially but we too liked the idea as we felt it was part of the game.

For me, as other ladies have alluded to, there is nothing more erotic and satisfying than having my lover shoot his load of hot sticky seed deep inside my pussy.

I'm not totally sure what it does for Hubby as he finds it hard to describe. However he tells me gets off on knowing that his little condom covered willy is in a place where a big black cock has been and given his wife the fucking he can't, filling her with more cum than he could manage.

xxHelen

No Pills
 

Ever think about throwing away your pills?

You look lovely, but would look better with your Black Lover's baby in your belly.

We have done it both ways and I enjoy mixiing it up once in a while, just to make it unpredictable. Bringing home a used body is pretty erotic for my husband. He get's a kick out of getting inside of me when I'm full of my bulls cum. Once in a while I'll tell him that the onlly way he will get some is if he wears a condom

Stelathy and Hooked ty for the replies. I see my bull again this weekend and I like what I have been experiencing so far but think its probably just too much strain to put on the relationship with my husband. I guess its okay to fantacise on one hand but if the situation was reversed and I am honest I would be less than pleased myself. I do love my husband so for now I think I will save chastising him.

I feel a bit rushed in it also I don't know if it is the right step for me and for my husband and thru the week adding to our sex life has been a part of things too. I'm going to talk to my bull this weekend my husband and I always agreed the marriage would come first so after reading here he might find these posts tho i doubt it but it will remain a fantasy.

Roleplaying it privately and maybe playing up to it asking him to wear one on certain occasions might add a bit of spice but maybe I let my lust get the best of me last weekend *blush* I do like bareback sex with my bull for my husband he likes the fact hes older and handing over control because the trust is there in our relationship at the core and my husband knowsI led a sheltered life sexually before him because of my parents and culture.

For us its just very naughty and for me the entire thing has been seually liberating.Thanks for the advice its appreciated and good food for thought. Hooked you have a very nice gallery ive seen some of your posts and like your candor. I can tell you enjoy yourself and many of the things ive seen you post draw similar paralells to my situation.

:)

throw the pill away
 

throw your birth pills away and get hub to watch you fucking your bull to pregnancy your tight tummy will look great with a black baby in it , you get to beg your bull to knock you up as hub watches

The only time I've experienced something like this is with a woman who wanted to get knocked up black. It was hot for both of them. If that's your cup of tea, go for it!

As I've mentioned hubby doesn't get to fuck me anymore, that is he doesn’t get to cum inside me as he has to wear a condom!

As I get to see my bull quite regularly I like to save my pussy for his cum.

Every once in a while though I remind my husband of what he is missing. .

I like to remind him what a good blow job feels like and I taunt him until he begs me to let him put his penis inside me. I tell him he can feel what it is like again without a condom.

I let him put it in and have a few strokes, but then I remind him that he is no longer allowed and that my pussy can only be seeded by my bull.

It's okay though, by this time he is usually about to lose his load and a quick hand job will finish him off.

xxHelen

Me and my wife love this lifestyle,,,,but it is for both of us. I love watching her take black cock but am by no means the "sissy cuckold " type..I myself get plenty of side action with friends of hers as well. This lifestyle is just something we enjoy. I would never ever wear a condom when fucking my wife. Bottom line I dont mind sharing her and she knows she has a green light to bang anyone she wants,,,but its still my pussy.

Ask him if he will. And if he does he does if not he won't. Thats all you can do.

When i had a girlfriend she didn't ask me to wear a rubber when we had sex she said it didn't matter has she was on the pill. And i had no problem with it sometimes i did just cause it was diffence. I also had no problems with her black bulls barebacking her.

I have an idea if you truly want to accomodate your bull and allow only bull seed inside you, tell your husband that b/c you have been having unprotected sex with your bull, just to be completely safe where he is concerned, you want him to start wearing condom's "for his protection."

We have just started this, Its based on sexual humiliation. He it told to cum in the
Trash if he is condom free. I notice how i seem to love it. He is put in his cage right after.

I like idea of protection
 

OK Im a cuck wannabe and have thought about this. One reason I am a cuck is I just dont fuck well and think the black man is best at it. With that said Id love to meet a white girl who fucked bareback with her bulls and if by chance she let me fuck her she made me wear a condom. Its the whole idea of another getting something I cant have with her. IMO very erotic

That is the most ultimate way to respect your master. He owns your body and if any little white dick has to enter, condom. NO OTHER WAY

Use condoms with bf, only time bare was with a black coworker.

Better than condom with the husband Is no sex with husband :)

Cuckold Humliation at it's very best!
 

Every one is different but we all do hold one common bond, our wives enjoy the interracial lifestyle and we the husbands can't be more happier being married to a slut for BBC. And it's partially for that very reason, our wives enjoy sex more with bigger cocks. The myth is true, black guys are much better equipped than us white guys. Black guys are much better lovers because of it. Yes "Size Matters"! So what's really in it for us, the husbands? Well in my humble opinion the longer couples play and experiment in this lifestyle, we the husbands do become a bit more submissive to our wives. Ladies, guys... you see it, you know the difference how big cock sex is with your black lovers compared to your husbands less fortunate equipment and vi-sa-versa! It's very intimidating seeing and knowing when we watch our wives having sex with bigger cocks often saying to our selves, we can't do that, or we can't do those big cock positions you ladies have found to be more satisfying. Where is this going your thinking? "Couples that play together, stay together" It's that simple. Appearance, exhaustion and all the communication we have with our wives soon after our wives lover leaves... everything about it turns us on. It's all part of what my wife calls "Mind Fucking Me"... (Us). Like it or not, wives that do take on other lovers does turn us husbands into; as the dictionary defines "Cuckolds" cheating wives! We not only allow it, we encourage it. Some husbands enjoy cleaning the creampies out of our wives during or after her sex. Others simply beg for sloppy seconds just to feel how stretched out our wives pussy gets after having sex with well endowed black lovers. Some wives choose their husbands to be in a chastity device as a form of punishment or humiliation because a small cock deserves such cruelty. Orgasm denial does have it's advantages as some of you ladies I'm sure have found out by now. It's all part of the game that gets us all off; wives and their lovers and us, the husbands (or should I say the victims) Adults at play, mind fucking at it's best. So ladies, if your bare backing your lovers and decide to have your husbands wear condoms when he gets some, when you allow him to get some, then go for it. Nothing wrong with that. As others here have said it's all part of the game we play. In other words, push every button and see what works for you or not. Eventually you'll find out and soon become the defining couple you are to one another. Call it what you want, just play the game! And above all enjoy it. It's what you do. It's a lifestyle you/we live so have fun doing so!:cool:

I like being told I have to wear a condom while her bull is filling here cunt with his baby seed. It is the ultimate in submission and she and I have more satisfying sex as a result. After fucking his larger penis my little thing really cannot get her off by itself. The act of my submission and her domination gets her off like nothing else. She cums like gangbusters as she realizes I am forced to wallow in her lovers semen while my cum ends up excluded completely in the condom. I cum better even though her pussy no longer squeezes me so tightly as I have been conditioned to squirt as I submit to her lovers cock and cum. There is not much other choice at this point.

Yes we do this
 

We do it more for the stimulation of it. I have always gone bareback and let the guys cum in me. So for game I will let hubby fuck me but he has to wear the condom and tell him I am reserving my pussy for black cum and thier dicks in me and do not want him messing it up for them.

We also do the no fucking for a week or so before I am to get fucked . Builds up the excitment and again it is to save it up sort of mental thing. But we do not do this always. Just a little game we like to play.

Condoms
 

My wife will now only stroke my cock, with a condom on... Sex hardly ever, with condom and instill need to pull out

It's Really Up To You
 

It's your body. Even if you are sub, you can decide who you are sub to. If you desire your Master to have exclusive bareback access you have every right to do so. Try this game on for size... Buy a large quantity of condoms, maybe 3 dozen for the condom jar. Tell hubby the rules have changed. He has to use a condom, but to make up for it, you will be available for him more often (as long as you are not with Master). I bet he will agree to that and start burning through the condoms. When the jar is 1/2 empty, tell him the rules have changed again. You (or he) won't be buying any more condoms ever. You agree to let him finish what's in the jar, but when the jar is empty, no more sex with him. I bet the condoms will last a long time. Then you add one or two to the jar if he behaves, but an empty jar means no sex. If he has a problem with that, the jar stays empty.

Exactly
 

when we were just swingers i knew i would get some of her pussy, now that we have went the cuck way, i know i do not get any of her pussy.
my job is to eat her pussy and get it wet and moist for him, then eat his cum out of her pussy and ass if she wants that done. also i am to suck him or others off if she wishes.

hell no
 

well said. my wife and i havent found a bbc to include yet but i am totally fine with her doing that but i ain't sucking anybodys dick or wearing a jimmy hat when i fuck MY WOMAN. I'm down with it but I'm not going to subject myself to humiliation. I'm comfortable with our sex life and its great but I'm definetly not the cuckold type.

I would love it if she made me wear a condom while trying to get knocked up black, that would be so sexy

I had a look at your picks, very nice!
I think you are wonderful: very sexy but also understanding to your boyfriends needs, I wish I could find a loving girl like you
W

sebastien is using condoms since 1 y, and we adore this lifestyle, so hot !

Many years have past. Did you ever make the hubby wear condoms making your bull the only one filling you with his seed? --- Just wanted to say I sure wouldn't have a problem with it. Only problem I would have is trying to make sure a condom didn't fall off of my little thin penis. They don't make one slim enough for us little guys. My wife's bull didn't want me cuming in her either if his cum was already inside her so I would either have to clean her up with my mouth first or pull out and cum on a towel, but never mix with his. Every time he got through fucking her I think he stretched her out a little more each time, and let me tell you, when I enter her after he has been inside her all I can feel is her wetness. I would have to stick 3 fingers plus my penis in her to fill her up like her thick bull does. So anything he said he wanted he gets! A bull like she landed doesn't come along every day! Got to keep him happy so he keeps the wife satisfied so she will not leave me!

Since your husband is involved and approving...
 

….most of the commentary you received has little to do with your situation. Your husband already enjoys a cuckold type place in your relationship, and likely would respond positively to anything that limits his interaction with you sexually and places your Bull in a preferred status.

Why not have a sexy fun playful conversation with him in bed and turned on and bring the subject of restricting his intercourse to ONLY with a condom so as to make you specific to your Lover/Bull sexually. If approached in the correct manner, that shows this situation would REALLY turn you on and be preferable to you also......its quite likely your husband would respond positively to this. YOUR excitement and desires in the relationship are of great importance to your husband or he would not be involved in the situation with you.

You may even find that he would enjoy NOT having intercourse with you at all so you could be exclusive with your Lover/Bull, and would be happy with just being jerked off occasionally, or restricted completely from orgasms. its not that unusual.

Really wondering how far you can be from considering NOT using your birth control any longer with your Lover/Bull also? He certainly has it on his mind....he's asking you to eliminate your husbands sperm from your body now, which is VERY exciting, and in our experience is not far from a discussion about a pregnancy risk situation or actually becoming pregnant intentionally by your Bull/Lover. This has happened numerous time during our marriage anyway when my wife is fully involved with her Lovers.

Love to hear more about how this progresses, and especially if you initiated a conversation with your husband about this and how it came out.

CW