09-23-2016, 08:34 AM
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Join Date: Sep 2016
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"Your heart drops because
you know your spouse is most likely having sex with someone inside"
The question actually doesn't just ask what you'd do - assuming the person reading is a husband (fair enough - it's a forum about cuckolding afterall) - it states that your "HEART DROPS". The question assumed that hubbie is not particularly happy about it. Not true for many though as there are lots of great answers that imply that hubbie is great (or quickly became great) with wifey having a beautiful black lover. Their hearts didn't drop, their (various) cocks rose...
That's brilliant for many
Fantasy for some
But. If hubbie's heart DOES drop then perhaps it's because wifey has betrayed hubby's trust? That can be tricky. Someone here said that they would allow his wife an opportunity to tell him the truth then reassure her that he was OK with it and tell her she can therefore take a lover without cheating.
Another said it was his fantasy - that he wished his conservative wife would do something like that.
Someone - not a fan of cuckolding - was brilliantly and brutally honest about walking in on their wife ..... "oh hell naw....! I don't share pussy... If it was my Wife, somebody heading to the hospital. Just saying!"
Many respondents though said that they'd join in - well most... It's kind of hard to know if that's truth or bravado or somewhere in the middle. Obviously those participating in a cuckolding forum are likely to be open to their spouse fucking outside the primary relationship though ... Lol.
Another possibility that hubby's "heart dropped" when he realises his wife is fucking another man (whether black or white or green) could be that his wife is operating outside an agreement or understanding. So, maybe she can have lovers but he wants to know first, or .... she can have lovers but don't fuck in the marital bed. So, maybe his heart is dropping because she has not respected him. Or there's a misunderstanding over the agreement. Or whatever.
Maybe she has not betrayed hubby's trust at all - as the first two reasons imply - as they have an agreement that she can play and she is operating within their agreement. Maybe his heart dropped because he's just not as cool with it all as he thought he was.
If there are no hearts dropping - and it seems from the majority of answers here that few were (whether in reality or in fantasy land) - then joining in, in one way or another (watching, participating, videoing, serving or any combination), sounds like the consensus. For some there's a submissiveness to the way they join in, for others it's a "my house, my rules if you don't like it fuck off" approach. Whatever it is, that's incredibly great.
But if my hubbie's heart dropped it would be because of the last reason not the first or second. I wouldn't cheat. I also wouldn't operate outside a 'contract' we had with each other. We love each other and we talk. We can have what we want - within certain parameters agreed to by both of us. These boundaries can be re-negotiated when necessary. If my husband's heart dropped because he THOUGHT he was cool but he actually wasn't then he would feel free to talk with me right there and then. Fuck the lover, my hubbie is THE man. HE'S my priority. That's why he's my husband. I honour him. And respect him. And he honours & respects me. So. If - for whatever reason - he didn't like what he saw or felt then I wouldn't want to continue.
But that's us. At our place hubby's feelings about me fucking other men trumps whatever sex I'm having.
Bottom line. Whatever works. Whatever rocks.
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