Can I just ask...... why????

I'd say why not? Life is short, and experiences like these aren't forever...

Take it slow guys.
 

Trust me, I've waited a very long time to finally pursuade my wife in to this. It's tough, especially if she's been raised to think being with a black man is "wrong" as mine was.

My advise is to take it slow, don't force her, that may just piss her off and make her think that you just want to use this as an opportunity to cheat on her. Oh yeah, mine thought that to!

Let her know that your motive is pure enjoyment in watching another man especially a "Black" man (it's so "taboo") seek out and sexually desire your wife. Explain to her that watching him seduce and please her would be such an erotic experience for you and her at so many levels.

It helps to have her get acquainted with black men who she would find not just physically attractive, but intellectually attractive as well. This worked for us, my wife wrote about it in our blog, check them out.

I'm understanding and very sympathetic to the cause, send me a message if you need more support.
CC

want my wife to take a bbc
 

I have been trying to find a bbc friend to have my mature wife to experience a huge bbc we have role played during sex and she has never had another cock as we got married young I really think going for a few drinks maybe dance I have a friend prearranged it will work I just need to find that friend in pa or close by when we have sex I tell her she needs to fuck more and that she is a good fuck and she can take more cock I really need to take her to dinner and a place that is frequented by a lot of bbc I know it can work I just need to locate someone in pa or near pa that can help or have any ideas of where to take her porn movies won't work she won't watch plus mother in law leaves with us so we need to get away so I need your help jon still looking mother in law has since passed away now house to ourselves like to find a bbc handy man as she always has a list so hope to hear from some bbc friends contact me I don't think it will take much to loosen her up jon

Same Here
 

I would love to see my slutwife being owned by BBC, I have asked with not much luck. There has to be a good way, I do believe with a little beverage and a good plan it is possible

That's not the right approach. You better let your gf know you like it to see her having sex with a BBC. Talk about it, fantasise about it and talk about it during the sex.

When she is ready for it, search together for a BBC and let her make the choice!

yeah we're all in the same boat...I have a BBW that I know wants to get fucked by anything big and I know she does because we have discussed before many times but I think she's afraid, like other wives/gf's, that we are going to leave them. I reassure her that I am no. takes some time I guess...

Don't manipulate
 

The best and only approach is to discuss each others feelings and wants as honestly and completely as possible. This is not necessarily advice for the OP, but to many of the repliers and lurker wannabes. You really are not prepared for such play unless you have laid all of the cards out on the table: yours and hers. Now, for those who have not broken that ice yet, it is not easy to bring up out of the blue. But she is your wife and hiding something that strong within you from her isn't good for a marriage. She may be initially shocked and think through every potential alterior motivation, as most women are inclined to do, but give it time to sink in and make sure she understands how difficult it is for you and how honest you are being.

Now she might not want the same thing and might this might not lead down this path. If you talk more and more openly, you'll hit on things you both will dig to explore. All of the possibilities that might have gone totally unexploited will enrich your sex life. Maybe she'll give a hotwife date a try, out of her own curiosity too, not just to appease you. Also if cannot be underemphasized that you, regardless of how you truly think you feel, might not handle the reality of seeing a real other man doing your wife. To explore that, just imagine men you meet in real time, the cashier or the cobbie or the whatever, stripping down and doing your wife, while you are all present. Just a gedanken experiment to try and you might sense some repulsion when it is a real person. Just a harmless little exercise to test yourself. You might become reassured or question your fantasies. Whatever you learn and do, just have fun (all involved) and stay safe.

Get her photoshopped into a BBC adventure
 

Helped us, her being able to visualize it