my wife recently went to a gay club with a male friend of hers, there was a male stripper with a cock she says was at least 10" long. she says she cant imagine having something that big inside her, but it sounded like she was curious.

Movies
 

One thing that works is wathing interracial porn with your wife. It's good if she's tipsy, but get a movie that has both white on white and black on white, and during the IR make out with her while you watch it. Next time, go down on her while she watches the IR scene. You can talk about how hot it is, how she'd feel being in the movie with the guy. Eventually you can use a blk dildo while she watches the movie. Being tipsy helps a lot, but the key is to get them seeing other married women doing it,and feeling sexual pleasure while watching the IR scenes. she won't be able to hlep imagining herself in them and the blk dildo adds realism. AFtera few months of that she will want to go for it for real.

Hey man do not get her with wht guys BBC only right from the start. If u wanted to see her with wht u would not be here. Am I right. Any way I would say start with interracial porn And blk dildos. Not just one blk dildo get her a few all sizes. Then u incorporate BBC porn and blk dildos in ur sex life and real talk about BBC when u have sex with her. Then get her clothes like t shirt that says shit like I love BBC or BBC whore and sexy lingerie that might have slut or whore on it dog collar with whore or BBC whore or blk owned. And start calling her that playful at first and loving. Then u order her a blk stripper with BBC take pics of her with him or them with his/ their BBC's next to her face or maybe holding them. I would have her tipsy when ever possible so her walls r down. Start off slow but always find ways to incorporate BBC lifestyle and then just build from there and add more things and more things like that. I think u can do it get her on the site too Good luck let me know how it goes. Or if u want moral support or more ideas.

Wife and BBC
 

Its important to talk to her and let her know that you love her or you wouldn't even suggest such a thing ... Give her time to come around, don't push but mention it often and see what happens ... This can take some time, I know it did with my wife but she finally consented and the rest is history ... Invite some Black Friends over for a poker game or to watch a football game so she can get comfortable around them, then after they leave mention it somemore ... It takes time and patients but it can and usually will pay off big time ... If she likes it, you might be sorry you talked her into it in the first place ... Don't be surprised if she wants to be alone with her Stud from time to time so they can get it on without you being there ... Set the ground rules and adhere to them to the letter and make her do the same and it can work for both of you ...

What happened with us...
 

I'll tell you how I got Janet into it. I brought home interracial videos for her to watch and bought her some interesting sex toys including a Magic Wand, which she loved along with several dildos. One was an oversized black one, but there were others, too. I'd go work out several nights a week and tell her to watch the movies and experiment with her toys. Then, when I got home we made love. Next, I bought her all sorts of sexy revealing clubwear and we went out every weekend dancing. Since I didn't know how to dance and she is a dancing fool she danced with other men. One night a suave black dude hit on her and he was really good looking. Janet invited him over and things went from there. We have met several super black studssince Kevin and she was not interested initially, but over time she began to change her mind. I quit pushing her and we joined an off-premis swingers club for a while although we didn't swing. We did everything but though and she was with another girl and lovedit. Then she was with about ten other girls and we realized she was very bi. One night at INIQUITY she had sex with another guy while I was going down on his wife. I think this really was what changed her mind because she enjoyed it a lot. One night several months later we were out clubbing and we ran into a black friend we'd known previously and she invited him home with us. I made them drinks and came back to them. Janet had been showing him the house when he came on to her. They were engaged in some serious soul kissing and foreplay when I brought them their drinks. I backed off and let them make out uninterrupted and in an hour I watched as she undressed him. She was wearing a black cocktail dress and she was naked underneath it and she place his hands on her delicious tits and he really turned her on. Eventually they had sex and she loved it. As he was leaving early the next morning I invited him back that night. When he came back there was no kidding around. She was hungry for more and he wanted her. Then I met a super stud for her and he really pleased her more than anyone. It's not easy and many wives are impossible but you only need one time with the right man.
Google He Likes to Watch Me Dance by CWSandersII my pen name and you can read about Kevin and Janet

Wife to say yes!
 

All the above advice is good but you must love her into it!! Tell her what u want , and find out what she really wants. Have u ask her lately?????? Give her her's and u may get your's!!!

Try a vacation in the Islands there are black guys walking on some of the nude beach's showing off their big black cocks to the white woman who love to check out their cocks. Worked for me in St Martin wife started sucking off a black guy we met from the beach for the first time and was so turned on that she only wanted to suck his cock.

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Wife continues to resist bbc even though we are close to splitting. I Worship blackTHug types and sucked bbc without her now

I am not much of a drinker but you might want to get her to drink some Piña colada or try something with Vodka in it.