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Originally Posted by fantasysport_69 (Post 1647)

She's a hot little 40yo milf, 5', 105, looks like Tina Fey. After 2 kids, I can tell that my thin, 6.5" cock just doesn't do it for her anymore. She used to be horny a lot, always had a thing for athletic guys and said in the past she'd be open to being w/ a black guy. But she doesn't want to break her vows, dammit.

Thinking I need to get her in a place where some sexy black dude is hitting on her, opening her mind to the realities that could be there for her. I'm dying to watch her get railed by a black muscle stud w/ 9" or 10".... any ideas what to try??

try thumb rings, toe rings,
black chocker collars.first send the kids off some place,make friends with a stud [black of course].make sure he's a ladies man real flirty type.make an excuse to leave for beer are what ever.give it time to heat up.hopefully you will come home to a hot wife fucking

I started by bringing home IR movies. When I saw how hot it made her I started offering the real thing. Of course she always said no and then fucked me silly. Finally searched out some candidates and after meeting and being comfortable with one I set it up and got a room. When I told her it was on she didn't believe me. We were in a casino hotel. She in the room and me the casino. Called her and told her I was bringing a bull up for her and she laughed. Not sure, but wondering. When we walked in the door she about died, but did not kill me or anything. Started massaging her with 4 hands, as she relaxed we started stripping her. Things proceeded until she had 4 loads of cum inside of her from the largest cock she had ever touched. Now she loves it and I love to help provide it to her and thoroughly enjoy watching and helping.

Getting your wife into the interracial lifetsyle

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Originally Posted by fantasysport_69 (Post 1647)

I moderate several Yahoo interracial groups that I have used to help ease white wives into the interracial lifestyle by inviting them to the groups where they can explore, learn, and arouse their curiosity.

If anyone here wants, just send me your wife's email address and I will send them invites to my three main interracial groups. Then I follow up with a letter to them with articles about the lifestyle. This never fails to arouse their curiosity and interest.

Once they see the images and read the articles, they are on the way to embracing the interracial lifestyle.

I then coach their husbands on how to pique their interest and finally, how to offer them the chance to enjoy a black man for the first time.

Here are my groups:

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/friendsoftheblackexperience

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Bethanys_Choice

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/black_licorice_gallery

So if you are interested, drop me a line at: bclbm2003@yahoo.com and lets discuss the step needed to get your wife into the lifestyle.

Thanks,

George

how do i get my wife into this

i have a gorgeous russian wife and would love to see her get fucked with bbc, but it wont be easy. but she has said she would like to watch bbc fuck an asian girl (she never sen a hard bc) i have a few vids i want her to watch and try to get her wet watching them, so i was kinda thinking to get a well hung guys and get a prostitute and then hope while she is watching i could get her to try and touch his cock, she would be part drunk too , she a lot easier when bit merry. il have cameras ready just incase, you guys wil be first to se if it happens.

Let her go solo a few times

let her go solo a few times so she gets into it.
Then have her let u watch with a guy who has fucked her a few times...;)

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Originally Posted by Mrmicawoo (Post 1687)

I know I wold love to watch my wife fuck another cock! I got her hooked up with a friend who has 8 thick inches. They exchanged a few nude pictures, and we were to meet for drinks, and hook up again another time and I would watch them screw all day long.

We had it all set up, she took a day off of work, and he was ok with me taking action shots as long as there were no face shots! She was interested in the shots too like between her titties, in her mouth etc.

Well, he never showed up, a no show, no call nothing. He was a friend I met through another friend. It all came about because right after meeting him he ask if my wife was into threesome etc. I thought hey this could be fun, but it was a bunch of nothing. I would have loved to watch and hear him pound her sweet tight pussy. I told him she is as tight as a 18 year old girl, it's amazing! He said he wanted to pull out of her at the last second and blow is load all over her big 38d's
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let her go solo a few times so she gets into it.
Then have her let u watch with a guy who has fucked her a few times...

We had another experience (different guy) where he did show up, but he was scared to get his cock out in front of me. She is kinda turned off by the idea now. I try to not give her much cock, so she will get horned up enough to want to fuck another guy again so I can watch all the hott action!! :D

She is 40 and always had a thing for older men, suit and tie kinda guy. She told me she didn't mind of he was married as long as he could play sometimes. I told her it would be nice if he was V/safe, as I know how she LOVES to feel that big gush of hot cum deep inside of her she said it is the best part.

So I am going to try to talk her into it again. She siad it was disappointing to get shot down twice.

IR Porn and go slow.

If you watch porn together try some IR porn but make it amateur porn because most women have a problem thinking they can't live up to waht the pros do or how they look. Lots of amateur IR porn here. Ask her to look at this site. If she refuses to look here or another site bring it up and tell her it is something you would like her to try and stress how much you love her and want her to be happy. If this turns out to be just an ego thiing for you or you are a really whimpy sub hubby be careful. Many wives don't want their husbands to be that way. She has to want to try it and don't freak her out by telling her you want to suck a black cock....LOL that could kill the whole thing. Again this has to be about you both as a couple not just YOU.
Go slow never manipulate if it's going to happen her interest will peek and it will happen naturally. The right guy, place and time can be very difficult though as we have found and many others here I'm sure. Just getting her to want to try it is only half the battle. Then you have to find a guy in your area or be willing to travel. She has to be attracted to him andtrust him. It's not easy for most here just being honest. Good luck!

Take Your Time !!!

It took me over 3 years to convince my wife. I introduced the idea when we having sex so that she started to feel comfortable with the "fantasy". It became apparent that she was becoming more turned on when we talked during sex. I also made sure that she knew I was not interested in having sex with another woman and was purely turned on by the taboo nature of watching. She became more involved with the "dirty talk" and evolved the fantasy towards what she found exciting. I also made sure that we had good sex without the need to talk to appear not to obsessed. After a while I started talking about the fantasy outside the bedroom (usually involving alcohol) and asked her if there were any circumstances where she would actually do anything. This gave me a good idea of her concerns and boundaries which I could work on. Eventually it reached a point where she was confident enough for us to look at how we could arrange it and cover all her worries. The initial experience involved someone she knew fancied her (unfortunately not black) and had no contact with work collegues or friends. I persueded her to make a pass at him to see how he would react. She arranged to go out for a drink with him and I waited at home with a major hardon wondering what happened. When she got home she was the horniest I have ever seen her and knew things must have gone well. She confessed to making out with hime in his car where he had fingered her pussy and she had wanked him off !!!
Things escalated quickly when I arranged to be away for the night while she invited the guy around. I installed a hidden camera in the spare room in an alarm sensor to record what happened. By this stage my wife was getting turned on by the idea of me seeing her lose her inhibitions. The results were amazing as I returned to find a well fucked wife and a video that I wanked myself stupid over.
It took a further six months to persuade and arrange the meeting with a big black guy. We joined adult friend finder and put up an honest profile as well as take our time looking at possible guys. It came down to finding someone who had the right attitude and trustworthy as much as having a big cock (this was a major feature of the fantasy). Eventually we found a guy from the midlands who fit all of our criteria and more importantly had a lot of positive comments from other couples and women on the site. We exhcanged e-mails for a short time and eventually agreed to meet. We met at a hotel in birmingham where we had a drink in the public bar first. The guy turned out to be genuine and good fun. It didn't take long before we went back up to our room where my 3 years of work paid off. I watched my wife get fucked by an athletic, good looking, assertive black guy with one of the biggest cocks I have ever seen (at least 11 inches and very very thick) Once my wife got used to the sheer size of the guy she lost all her inhibitions. They fucked 4 times during the evening and watched her get taken in every position!!! when he left and I eventually got to fuck her it was the best sex I have ever had. It was worth the wait and we continue to find new partners and variations to keep developing our fantasy. I have watched her fuck 2 guys at the same time and we are working up to a major gangbang in the future. The trick is to realise that your partner needs to be turned on by the idea and you need to find her reservations at every stage and come up with arguments as to why it will not effect your relationship. If they end up loving it as much as you they it can only get even better. Good luck to you all.

If she isn't up for it after several years of trying she may never be. I tried with three different long term relationships over a 15 year period and never got any to go for it. Then I met my current wife and she loves it and don't think I'm weird. As far as the vows though "If my hubby is watching, it ain't cheatin".

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I have been fantasizing about my wife sleeping with black men since we first started dating over 10 years ago. And actually I blame her for starting the fantasy in the first place.

This isn't cheating

Yes the breaking the vows thing can be tough. Here is some input....thee is a quote in the bible that says "your marriage cannot be defiled" which means what a man and a woman do together with consent is between both of you. A lot of characters in the bible had multiple lovers and somewhat of a paradox. The only reason swinging (in my opinion) wasn't mentioned by any teacher or philosopher including Jesus was that it didn't exist openly. Men and women were getting it on the side and they both knew about it. The 6th and 9th commandment don't say there is anything wrong with consesual sex with multiple partners IF BOTH ARE IN AGREEMENT. I think the cheating aspect if you follow judeao- christian beliefs cannot be justified but this isn't cheating. Its a whole different dynamic.

How do I get my wife into this??

Guys, I'm a married woman of 15yrs and I enjoy both white and black lovers. My husband is now a cuckold, but I was never interested in going outside my marriage for pleasure. I like most of your wives and girlfriends were afraid of the experience or the idea of sleeping with a stranger. It's easier to say "NO" and move on then to deal with the emotion or topic. My husband slowly introduced me to the idea of a three_way with a black co-worker while we watching some porn together, we like the "screw my wife" series of xxx videos because of the whole cuckolding idea, it was a huge turn on for him and there are some sexy black porn stars in these movies banging some pretty hot white wives. While watching these movies my hubby would tell me how incredibly hot it would be to see me fucking another man in front of him and the larger his cock was the more excited he got. After some role playing and talking it out, we decided to give it a try and I'm not sorry we did. You can't force your wife or girlfriend into something, but make it pleasurable for her and tell her that this is what you want as well. Make her feel safe about this topic and sex. I'm sure she will think about it even if she gives that knee jerk reaction of "No" all the time. Good Luck!:D

Tonight I was watching on the erotic TV channel on our TV to a movie. A black and a white man were sharing a white girl. I said to my wife that I like that bbc inside the pussy. She asked me why and I told her why. She didn't ignor this and she kept on looking to the movie. I think there is a chance that she will get in to IR lifestyle. She now knows I like it.

roger did the same as someone else has mentioned, he started bringing porno movies home and i thought it was disguising but started watching them with him, then he started bringing home IR porn and it drove me crazy. he started talking to me about taking a bbc and finally i agreed. that month we went out of town and roger had arranged for me to meet reggie. i loved it and now i am exclusive bbc, except roger

have you told her? get her to watch some IR porn with you first, and that will get her thinking about it.

Even if she is interested, do you know how hard it is to get one to show up and work his charm on her...damn near impossible...lots of offers, no one shows! ( and she is cute!)

As it is new for us both, I am glad that I found out this forum.

Of course I told her in cryptic words that I liked that. It need some time for both but I am sure that she is in for a IR sex. Looking tot the movie I said to her that I liked it at the moment the bbc got in the pussy of the giirl in the movie. She stayed watching the movie and was wet. So I think, that step by step we will get further.

same here i have a 19 year old cuzin that in trying to get black bulled , not sure how to go about it any help , we live in a mostly white area but when she was younger she would say to me when we would go to the mall how there hot and all that.

Today I send her a picture from this (http://www.iloveinterracial.com/displayimage.php?pos=-130605) forum by email. I asked her if she liked it... It looks likes she was getting a little shy :)

I am in the same situation too. We talked about our fantasies and i told my wife that i wanted to see her get pounded by a well hung black man. Ever since that when she is horny she talks about big black cocks fucking her while i watch. She tells me how she wants to sit on top of a big cock and slide it in and out of her tight little pussy while she cums on his shaft. It drives me mad and she is really into it now, thinking of going somewhere for a dirty weekend and have a black man set up for the occasion. Get her to wear something fancy ,go out on the town for a few drinks and ask her to take of her panties ,bump into this well hung black guy and get her up to dance with him.Have him dance sexy with her and her pussy will get wet.then back to the room and i dont see whos gonna stop that black man fucking her like never before

could you please talk to me a little more private please, I have questions.

I would like help please but she does not really like my brother too much, she has done it before w/him but she says she doesn't like him, but she readily admits his dick is bigger than mine, and it stretched her plus we have a child and it really seems to not be happening. Any help?

if at all possible post something, I know I haven't posted anything but I Will shortly change it, I promise, even if she is sleeping I will post pics of her ass and pussy for comment and then maybe show her later, so post nice juicy comments and J/O pics w/ semen on the pic she has never seen that before. She craves attention but she doesn't want to do it in front of me, I think it is bC we have a baby together, I think she is hot and I wish she would work it more often. I LIKE TO SEE REAL EVERYDAY WOMEN DOING THE THINGS YOU DON'T THINK THEY DO.

your wife has a phat ass i will eat her pussy like a champ

23 years huh do you ever just think of giving up

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Originally Posted by kian369 (Post 6322)

Sounds good :) We never lived near black people or iwe don't have black friends. That's making it a little bit more difficult for us.

How do you gonna plan this?

My idea for the next step is buying a big black dildo (around 9 inch) and put this between her other vibrators and dildo's. Then I am gonna wait what happends then :D

Yes i need some help to .
Have been with my partner for twenty years and she went out with a black guy who i know before me. he bragged about it once about her sitting on his face playing with her tits .
so i asked her and she said he had oral sex on her and they went to bed and he tried to enter her from behind but she said it was to big and could only fit the tip in so she didnt go any further.
This mental picture has always turned me on and have always looked at interracial pics or sites ,see knows what i look at and sometimes will look but comments on why are they all black .
I started buying porn with black guys in fucking white women she'll watch sometimes or untill horny then want it turned off, we been out to clubs and pubs and shes commented on a good looking black doormen before and i asked her if theres anyone she fancies in the club and she said she had her eye on a black guy so i know shes likes them .
But whats the next step i would love to see her take a big black cock doggy position and watch her tities bouncing while hes fucks her hard.

Get talking about it right away and both of you will probably get turned on by that ,i did. My hubby brought it up once when we were talking dirty and when he mentioned a big black cock fucking me it got me so wet ,now im out looking for my first big cock with my hubby behind me all the way

My husband wants me to have sex with a black man in front of him. I have a fantasy of being seduced by a black stud, but not in front of my husband.

I had wanted to watch my fiancee with a black guy and mentioned it, she was a maybe, if the circumstances were right.
We honeymooned in Cuba and we met the masseur on the Beach he was a tall, muscular black bull and that afternoon he gave her a massage and I asked him to give her a private massage in our suite that evening.
He did, and I watched him,seduce, lick, and fuck my bride with his monster cock, it was incredible.
After that she had him almost every day, he also told some other staff at the resort and they were hitting her up daily.
She finally agreed to have the masseur and a waiter she liked, together.
Watching her getting shared by two big, black cocks was heaven.

My advice..try a vacation in the Caribbean..she will be in the sun..having a couple of drinks and looking hot in her bikini..you can drop a hint to a bull..believe me they are willing and you wont be the first !!!

Good idea. I will suggest a trip to jamaica to my girl :)

forget my wife!! I'd luv that!!!!!!

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Originally Posted by fantasysport_69 (Post 1647)

Here are some of the things I have tried so far:

Slow and steady...

Over the past ten years, I have gotten my lovely conservative wife to (just a list of various things that grows every couple of months...):

- measure my dick
- make me kiss/lick her ass
- tell me my dick doesn't make her cum (I have to use my mouth or fingers)
- tell my my balls feel like marbles
- sit on my face after doing her
- watch some porn
- watch a DVD I made with just pictures of big cocks while I just licked her (she came twice)
- let me put my fingers in her, with my little one, while we are doing it so she can feel me
- watch interracial porn with me, and when I am not there!!!

- Any ideas on what I can push for next? I am currently (and have been) pushing ideas for a penis extension and/or dildo (have since bought the Lexington Steel life-like).

- I did her, well she was on top and when she asked me to rub her, so she can cum (my dick won't make her cum) I pulled her up on to my face - it wasn't a creampie, but very very wet... Then she came on my face. Now she does it a lot!!!

- The other morning when she got out of the shower, I called her over and told her I wanted to kiss her ass. She came over and I kissed her ass, then she sat on my face (didn't touch my dick). After she came on my face, she jumps off and started getting dressed for work. I asked her to write something on my dick, and she did: "TINY." Then I told her I want to kiss her ass every morning. So far, so good; she is jumping up on the bed and making me kiss her ass - haven't been to orgasm again - yet, because she is usually running late for work. but that is more progress. ..

- Last night was great... My wife asked me to rub her ass, which I did. Then she rolled onto her side and reached around and felt my little soft dick, she yanked it (in and attempt to make it bigger) till it got hard, then she rubbed my dick on her pussy for a minute. Then she asked me to to fuck her with my fingers. I did. After she came she asked me if I wanted to see her ass (which is how I normally cum by my own hand). I said no, it is alright as long as you came. Then I asked her to write something on my dick, she wrote, "NOT big." Then I told her I really liked that she teased my dick on her pussy then asked for my fingers. I also told her I wanted her to control when I cum and that she should make me earn an orgasm, like I have to make her cum 5 times first or something . She said, if I am good she will let me cum tomorrow. About 5 minutes later she stroked my very hard dick a couple of times and I told her, see how hard what you did made my dick, she said yes and stopped stroking. -- It was a great night and I would say some serious progress was made...

Ok, the other night more progress was made. We started our normal pre-sex fondling, then I said if she would like a new job as a sports reporter. This was right after the Cavs/Celtics game by the way. She said why. Then I said so she could do locker room interview s after the game. She played along the whole night. At one point I said some of the big dicks would hit her shoulder as she sat on the bench; then I hit her shoulder with my finger and she immediate ly turned her head and began to suck my fingers (she has never done that). Through out the night she said she wanted to fuck a big dick. The word "black" never was expressed, but she asked if "they" would like her; and I said "yes, a pretty little white girl like you." I think I will explode when she finally admits she would like a BBC. Then towards the end, she said I would be waiting outside the locker room, and she would make me eat her pussy when she came out, because my dick is too small - that is when I came!! In the morning we went at it again - I mentioned she had a busy night getting fucked twice, she said yes. Then I said, what am I supposed to do after you get fucked. She said, eat my pussy, then she pushed me down!!! --- This is going to be a great couple weeks of NBA playoffs!!! --- This one worked!! Any other 'story lines' that work?

My latest 'accomplis hment' happened a couple weeks ago. I found a CFNM locker room reporter scene, to bring back out locker room reporter fantasy from the NBA play-offs, and I got her to watch it. I licked her while she watched - she liked it! Both athletes were much bigger than I (me hard them flaccid). After she watched the clips, she asked me if I wanted her to search the web for more porn, I said yes. She searched for group sex!!! Interesti ng, I know. She was disappoin ted when the movie sites kept redirecti ng, etc. So she shut the computer off (I made her a page with link to 'good' sites and movie clips, so she will not be disappoin ted again). At any rate, after she came about three times, I convinced her to not let me cum. She said, "ok, I've decided, you don't get to cum tonight." I was strokin, and she told me to stop. Then she made me give her a massage, for about 1 hour (my back hurt afterward s). The next morning, I prompted her, I asked her if I could play with my little dick. She said yes. About five minuted into it, she said, "remember, you don't get to cum." Five minutes after that, she said that's enough, stop. Later that day, I asked her if she wanted me to clean the shower - I did. The next day I had to clean the toilets and do laundry. It was a great couple of days. Then it went away... No more "games" since that couple of days, I am hoping to recreate the same couple days again soon. As always, I am looking for subtle approache s.?.?.? --- That is where I am now - I really need some new approache s. Any ideas???

- For her birthday this year she got a black dildo... I love it - although she is just starting to warm up to it. For instance, while sitting on me she will say, "I know what you want to do - Fuck me with the dildo." She is right, everytime she asks me what I want, I say I want to use the dildo on her - I never say I want to have sex with her, I just want her to cum and used the dildo on her...

Ideas???

- We are to the point now, when we start sex, I just grab the dildo. She cums in like a minute on the dildo. For me to make her cum without the dildo, I have to rub her clit. I was rubbing her the other night and she said stop, I don't want to cum yet, she wanted to cum with the dildo in her... That my friends is great progress. ..

Still seeking subtle ideas of persuasion???

- Recently I have compiled a large number on porn movie clips in a folder on the computer - about 90% interracial. Whenever we watch some of the clips, I lick her ass and/or do her with the Lex dildo. I even created a folder called "dildo model" and that folder only has clips of Lexinton Steel in action - those are her favorite clips so far. I occassionally travel for work, and when I travel she watches the porn and masturbates to it - she tells me when I get and and shows me the clips she liked best - her favorite clips have always been interracial.

- My wife surprised me one day by completely shaving her bush - bald!!! I have always asked her to do that (for over ten years), and she has finally done it. I think the porn is starting to be effective.

We still use the dildo, but it is not an every time we have sex thing anymore. I am at a dry spell...

Do you have any subtle ideas to help persuade my wife to experience a BBC???

What more hints do u need?
She really is ready to be SUPER FUCKED BY BLACK MEN!
Set something up in a locker room.... or
tell her a black man or men is cuming over 2 ur place and that she needs to "interview" or "inspect" them in the bedroom!
U can make it a trial run FANTASY the first time or
set it up as her FIRST BLACK FUCK!
SHE IS READY!

Greggy whitecuckmn

ps let us know & leave a message 4 me pls.

i joined several black dating sites..chatted with a lot of studs...then met and well if she is rreally hot for him she will fuck for the brother... problem solved.. for her..problem 4u may not want u again

I just returned to this site after some time off. I basically gave up for the past year but have made some progress recently. I've used a dildo on her a few times and told her my fantasy, but she says "it'll never happen". But just her knowing makes me want to pursue it again. I drop a lot of hints to her, so she knows it's on my mind. I bought a bigger black dildo but haven't used it on her yet. Now trying to find a guy to meet us at a bar as a setup and have him work on seducing her.

yes I think beginning a chat or conversation is a good start. that way it's behind closed doors and she will feel comfortable talking from home in her own environment. I had someone chat me to talk to his wife and within a week she gave in and met a stud in their town...lol glad I could help - you know who you are.

my yahoo is tjd0719 if any of ya want someone to talk to her. Best way i think to break the ice if yall thinking about it.

Peace

TJ

I would love to get my wife into this my problem not a big drinker we been married for 25 years she claims to be to conservative could use some help.

I have a problem with her church upbringing she would be great in a gangbang when we go out she not much of a drinker if I could get her a little drunk it might work better but she usually stops at a couple of drinks and does not like anything but mainly sweet tasting drinks. Does anyone know any strong drinks that don't have that taste if the liquor?

What about those of us that aren't married but have a gf. She won't even consider it. I would love to find a white girl that will. At this point I want to chat, meet up with like minded. I can yahoo if anyone wants to