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cutecolin 03-03-2011 10:29 AM

my wife recently went to a gay club with a male friend of hers, there was a male stripper with a cock she says was at least 10" long. she says she cant imagine having something that big inside her, but it sounded like she was curious.

austerlitz1524 12-10-2011 11:31 PM

Movies
 
One thing that works is wathing interracial porn with your wife. It's good if she's tipsy, but get a movie that has both white on white and black on white, and during the IR make out with her while you watch it. Next time, go down on her while she watches the IR scene. You can talk about how hot it is, how she'd feel being in the movie with the guy. Eventually you can use a blk dildo while she watches the movie. Being tipsy helps a lot, but the key is to get them seeing other married women doing it,and feeling sexual pleasure while watching the IR scenes. she won't be able to hlep imagining herself in them and the blk dildo adds realism. AFtera few months of that she will want to go for it for real.

Sindubb 12-25-2011 06:24 AM

Hey man do not get her with wht guys BBC only right from the start. If u wanted to see her with wht u would not be here. Am I right. Any way I would say start with interracial porn And blk dildos. Not just one blk dildo get her a few all sizes. Then u incorporate BBC porn and blk dildos in ur sex life and real talk about BBC when u have sex with her. Then get her clothes like t shirt that says shit like I love BBC or BBC whore and sexy lingerie that might have slut or whore on it dog collar with whore or BBC whore or blk owned. And start calling her that playful at first and loving. Then u order her a blk stripper with BBC take pics of her with him or them with his/ their BBC's next to her face or maybe holding them. I would have her tipsy when ever possible so her walls r down. Start off slow but always find ways to incorporate BBC lifestyle and then just build from there and add more things and more things like that. I think u can do it get her on the site too Good luck let me know how it goes. Or if u want moral support or more ideas.

AZWizard 12-25-2011 02:21 PM

Wife and BBC
 
Its important to talk to her and let her know that you love her or you wouldn't even suggest such a thing ... Give her time to come around, don't push but mention it often and see what happens ... This can take some time, I know it did with my wife but she finally consented and the rest is history ... Invite some Black Friends over for a poker game or to watch a football game so she can get comfortable around them, then after they leave mention it somemore ... It takes time and patients but it can and usually will pay off big time ... If she likes it, you might be sorry you talked her into it in the first place ... Don't be surprised if she wants to be alone with her Stud from time to time so they can get it on without you being there ... Set the ground rules and adhere to them to the letter and make her do the same and it can work for both of you ...

Charlie Harris 01-02-2012 10:21 PM

What happened with us...
 
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Originally Posted by fantasysport_69 (Post 1647)
She's a hot little 40yo milf, 5', 105, looks like Tina Fey. After 2 kids, I can tell that my thin, 6.5" cock just doesn't do it for her anymore. She used to be horny a lot, always had a thing for athletic guys and said in the past she'd be open to being w/ a black guy. But she doesn't want to break her vows, dammit.

Thinking I need to get her in a place where some sexy black dude is hitting on her, opening her mind to the realities that could be there for her. I'm dying to watch her get railed by a black muscle stud w/ 9" or 10".... any ideas what to try??

I'll tell you how I got Janet into it. I brought home interracial videos for her to watch and bought her some interesting sex toys including a Magic Wand, which she loved along with several dildos. One was an oversized black one, but there were others, too. I'd go work out several nights a week and tell her to watch the movies and experiment with her toys. Then, when I got home we made love. Next, I bought her all sorts of sexy revealing clubwear and we went out every weekend dancing. Since I didn't know how to dance and she is a dancing fool she danced with other men. One night a suave black dude hit on her and he was really good looking. Janet invited him over and things went from there. We have met several super black studssince Kevin and she was not interested initially, but over time she began to change her mind. I quit pushing her and we joined an off-premis swingers club for a while although we didn't swing. We did everything but though and she was with another girl and lovedit. Then she was with about ten other girls and we realized she was very bi. One night at INIQUITY she had sex with another guy while I was going down on his wife. I think this really was what changed her mind because she enjoyed it a lot. One night several months later we were out clubbing and we ran into a black friend we'd known previously and she invited him home with us. I made them drinks and came back to them. Janet had been showing him the house when he came on to her. They were engaged in some serious soul kissing and foreplay when I brought them their drinks. I backed off and let them make out uninterrupted and in an hour I watched as she undressed him. She was wearing a black cocktail dress and she was naked underneath it and she place his hands on her delicious tits and he really turned her on. Eventually they had sex and she loved it. As he was leaving early the next morning I invited him back that night. When he came back there was no kidding around. She was hungry for more and he wanted her. Then I met a super stud for her and he really pleased her more than anyone. It's not easy and many wives are impossible but you only need one time with the right man.
Google He Likes to Watch Me Dance by CWSandersII my pen name and you can read about Kevin and Janet

robin whitten 03-13-2012 05:16 PM

Wife to say yes!
 
All the above advice is good but you must love her into it!! Tell her what u want , and find out what she really wants. Have u ask her lately?????? Give her her's and u may get your's!!!

jim1 03-14-2012 03:35 PM

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Originally Posted by shark1 (Post 1679)
i am also in the same situation. i am happily married for 25yrs and i would love to see my beautiful 45yr old milf wife get off on a black bull. i have been trying to coax her for 10+ yrs. sometimes when she is worked up and horny she says that she might be willing to do a light skinned black bull. which is fine by me. but she always backs out. i too would even be willing to let her do a white guy, just to break the ice. i thought that if she got comfortable with some strange white cockthat then i could slowly introduce her into a black bull. but, no luck. i like brickers idea but, my wife is not much into dancing. i need any suggestions or ideas to help me make this happen.

Try a vacation in the Islands there are black guys walking on some of the nude beach's showing off their big black cocks to the white woman who love to check out their cocks. Worked for me in St Martin wife started sucking off a black guy we met from the beach for the first time and was so turned on that she only wanted to suck his cock.

maikell886 03-17-2012 06:14 AM

i love this
 
i love this

blackcockfan 04-07-2012 08:04 AM

I couldnt agere more
 
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Originally Posted by bricker (Post 1667)
Just schedule a dinner date with her at a place that serves alcohol and has a dance floor, and have a guy lined up to be there as a single guyto ask her to dance after she has had a couple drinks. Also, as married people, your bed is free from sin, period. This is what the bible says. Adultery is cheating, a threesome is loving,honoring and all that!

Wife continues to resist bbc even though we are close to splitting. I Worship blackTHug types and sucked bbc without her now

Gentle_Brotha 08-10-2012 11:25 PM

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Originally Posted by 123football (Post 18806)
I have a problem with her church upbringing she would be great in a gangbang when we go out she not much of a drinker if I could get her a little drunk it might work better but she usually stops at a couple of drinks and does not like anything but mainly sweet tasting drinks. Does anyone know any strong drinks that don't have that taste if the liquor?

I am not much of a drinker but you might want to get her to drink some Piña colada or try something with Vodka in it.

makele 08-13-2012 03:50 AM

Show her interracial porn videos or photos picturing pretty white ladies with hung black guys. She may be turned on fast. Or else, leave tracks in your PC you're watching this kinda stuff: she'll get curious and may get hooked soon (moreover if you fail in bed with her for some reasonable time). Next, take her to a convenient place to get started, like an interracial club or country where she can easily find suitable black guys willing to fuck her. That's just what I did! :cool:

kimjo 08-14-2012 11:32 PM

Can I just ask...... why????

blackstriper 01-28-2014 03:53 AM

I'd say why not? Life is short, and experiences like these aren't forever...

contrastcpl 01-28-2014 09:13 AM

Take it slow guys.
 
Trust me, I've waited a very long time to finally pursuade my wife in to this. It's tough, especially if she's been raised to think being with a black man is "wrong" as mine was.

My advise is to take it slow, don't force her, that may just piss her off and make her think that you just want to use this as an opportunity to cheat on her. Oh yeah, mine thought that to!

Let her know that your motive is pure enjoyment in watching another man especially a "Black" man (it's so "taboo") seek out and sexually desire your wife. Explain to her that watching him seduce and please her would be such an erotic experience for you and her at so many levels.

It helps to have her get acquainted with black men who she would find not just physically attractive, but intellectually attractive as well. This worked for us, my wife wrote about it in our blog, check them out.

I'm understanding and very sympathetic to the cause, send me a message if you need more support.
CC

jonphil 01-31-2014 02:57 PM

want my wife to take a bbc
 
I have been trying to find a bbc friend to have my mature wife to experience a huge bbc we have role played during sex and she has never had another cock as we got married young I really think going for a few drinks maybe dance I have a friend prearranged it will work I just need to find that friend in pa or close by when we have sex I tell her she needs to fuck more and that she is a good fuck and she can take more cock I really need to take her to dinner and a place that is frequented by a lot of bbc I know it can work I just need to locate someone in pa or near pa that can help or have any ideas of where to take her porn movies won't work she won't watch plus mother in law leaves with us so we need to get away so I need your help jon still looking mother in law has since passed away now house to ourselves like to find a bbc handy man as she always has a list so hope to hear from some bbc friends contact me I don't think it will take much to loosen her up jon

jteam 02-03-2014 08:26 PM

Same Here
 
I would love to see my slutwife being owned by BBC, I have asked with not much luck. There has to be a good way, I do believe with a little beverage and a good plan it is possible

SquirtKing 02-06-2014 07:16 AM

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Originally Posted by jonphil (Post 61279)
I have been trying to find a bbc friend to have my mature wife to experience a huge bbc we have role played during sex and she has never had another cock as we got married young I really think going for a few drinks maybe dance I have a friend prearranged it will work I just need to find that friend in pa or close by

That's not the right approach. You better let your gf know you like it to see her having sex with a BBC. Talk about it, fantasise about it and talk about it during the sex.

When she is ready for it, search together for a BBC and let her make the choice!

zoowho69 02-06-2014 12:42 PM

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Originally Posted by blacklight (Post 1681)
sounds like Im not alone. a lot of people here have wives or gf's that are commited to thier husbands/bf's.

im in the same boat.


yeah we're all in the same boat...I have a BBW that I know wants to get fucked by anything big and I know she does because we have discussed before many times but I think she's afraid, like other wives/gf's, that we are going to leave them. I reassure her that I am no. takes some time I guess...

JandGinSD 02-07-2014 04:24 PM

Don't manipulate
 
The best and only approach is to discuss each others feelings and wants as honestly and completely as possible. This is not necessarily advice for the OP, but to many of the repliers and lurker wannabes. You really are not prepared for such play unless you have laid all of the cards out on the table: yours and hers. Now, for those who have not broken that ice yet, it is not easy to bring up out of the blue. But she is your wife and hiding something that strong within you from her isn't good for a marriage. She may be initially shocked and think through every potential alterior motivation, as most women are inclined to do, but give it time to sink in and make sure she understands how difficult it is for you and how honest you are being.

Now she might not want the same thing and might this might not lead down this path. If you talk more and more openly, you'll hit on things you both will dig to explore. All of the possibilities that might have gone totally unexploited will enrich your sex life. Maybe she'll give a hotwife date a try, out of her own curiosity too, not just to appease you. Also if cannot be underemphasized that you, regardless of how you truly think you feel, might not handle the reality of seeing a real other man doing your wife. To explore that, just imagine men you meet in real time, the cashier or the cobbie or the whatever, stripping down and doing your wife, while you are all present. Just a gedanken experiment to try and you might sense some repulsion when it is a real person. Just a harmless little exercise to test yourself. You might become reassured or question your fantasies. Whatever you learn and do, just have fun (all involved) and stay safe.

Wife4guys 03-07-2014 04:45 PM

Get her photoshopped into a BBC adventure
 
Helped us, her being able to visualize it

lindawannabbc 03-09-2014 10:40 PM

toys
 
can try black big toys.

judith4444 03-10-2014 01:04 AM

How does a wife get her husband introduced into interracial sex. I was raised around black families all my young life and had a lots of fun. Now I want more of it! Any suggestions??:(

alljack 03-10-2014 07:03 PM

look fot frist bbc
 
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Originally Posted by shark1 (Post 1679)
i am also in the same situation. i am happily married for 25yrs and i would love to see my beautiful 45yr old milf wife get off on a black bull. i have been trying to coax her for 10+ yrs. sometimes when she is worked up and horny she says that she might be willing to do a light skinned black bull. which is fine by me. but she always backs out. i too would even be willing to let her do a white guy, just to break the ice. i thought that if she got comfortable with some strange white cockthat then i could slowly introduce her into a black bull. but, no luck. i like brickers idea but, my wife is not much into dancing. i need any suggestions or ideas to help me make this happen.

hi,my name is roy,b married 30 years this aug, I like 2 see my tall slim wife with a bbc, one nite we was watch a move , lindsey meadows move, her frist bbc, this is what got me thank this, this black guy, ricky, he look 12", I thank 15", Lindsey is 5'2" & 98lbs, half way in the move wife just came out & said I want that, I was total surprise by this, she look me in the eyes & said, he got 4 time the dick u got, I said it big all right, I want it, I look at her & said what can I do about it,, she said fine me one that size,====NOW THE BIG {Q} sure I do this, we wife do it,

hoballoy 03-11-2014 01:25 PM

Hi I got my wife blacked two months after our wedding, but had been working on it for two yrs prior.
:D

Abrie 03-11-2014 03:21 PM

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Originally Posted by hoballoy (Post 62202)
Hi I got my wife blacked two months after our wedding, but had been working on it for two yrs prior.
:D

It would have been soooo much better if you could have had her blacked on your wedding night, or at least on your honeymoon

whitecuckmn 04-14-2014 06:44 AM

So why didn't you….
 
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Originally Posted by Mrmicawoo (Post 1702)
With the second guy he did give her oral for a while, and she was VERY wet, and she offered to give him oral, but he declined. He was really nervous about getting his cock out in front of me. I even told him how sweet her pussy is and how she will squeeze your cock and take your breath. He said he would do it if I left the room. We were in a hotel, and we both wanted me in the room to watch. I offered to go in the bathroom and wait till I heard them going at it and sneak out to watch, but he declined. She got her titties out hoping that would turn him on but that didn't work either.

He said he didn't think he could get a hard on with another man in the room. After he left she said she was disappointed, and really wanted to have sex with him. She told me having him finger fuck her and give her oral while I watched really turned her on.

So why didn't you leave the room? Remember it is all about HER, not you, especially at first to get her to do it….

I imagine you are kicking your ass that you just didn't leave the room after telling them you would be gone for say 3/4 hour…...

katlin 04-14-2014 10:10 PM

If were me want husband there to see his scock slide in me...

whitecuckmn 04-16-2014 06:09 AM

Yes, but...
 
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Originally Posted by katlin (Post 63137)
If were me want husband there to see his scock slide in me...

Yes, BUT she would have fucked the black man THAT night AND many other times. After she gets black fucked, she would not hesitate to do it and he will get to see her fucked frequently.

SquirtKing 04-18-2014 06:22 AM

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Originally Posted by whitecuckmn (Post 63113)
So why didn't you leave the room? Remember it is all about HER, not you, especially at first to get her to do it….

I imagine you are kicking your ass that you just didn't leave the room after telling them you would be gone for say 3/4 hour…...

I can't speak for him but I can imagine that you make some agreements with your partner before you go on date.

jpeepers340 04-28-2014 01:36 PM

Crave seeing my wife with black
 
I am a 52 year old white man, married to a 50 year old white woman and I am about to burst of desire to make my home an interracial cuckold playground. We have been married 26 years and she have not been with another man all that time. We have an active sex life, I am a low-average 6 inches but I make her orgasm everytime. She constantly tells me that she desires nothing besides me and we deeply love each other.
So, why in the hell do I desire this so much? Deep inside, I know this lifestyle would, at the very least, strain our loving marriage. To teach her its ok to expose her body and give her love to other men, To allow her to quckly learn that other men have bigger units and can perform tricks and electrify her body in ways that I am not capable of. And, to allow her to quickly fall in love with black cock. Afterwards, sex with me, her husband, would be less exciting.
I admit that I am addicted to porn. Earlier in my life, I had seen interracial porn but really didn't think much of it. Then, two years ago, I accidently discovered a "how to" video on cuckolding. Totally naive, not even knowing what the word cuckold meant, I watched it. I was immediately consumed. Now I absolutely can't beleive HOW MANY amateur home-made, real life married wives videod while fucking big black men, all while her husband watches! Long sexual acts, no condoms, full insemination, all while the camera catches her sparkling wedding ring! Not just a few videos, but hundreds if not thousands or ordinary couples performing these dirty sexual acts in their own bedroom! This type of porn teaches us men just how desirable it is to let black men fuck our wives.
For the past two years, I have been talking to my wife and asking her to allow me to bring home black men for her to meet. Much to my disappointment, she has declined. I know the problem is that I am expecting her to approach sex as a man does, which is as a form of pure physical gratification. Instead, she feels she needs to be in love with a man before performing sexual acts. And she can not love another man because she is married to me. So, I continue to watch IR cuckold porn every day, grow more frustrated, but I continue to work on breaking down barriers with my wife.
Please share any comments.

Helpgetherthere 04-29-2014 09:34 AM

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Originally Posted by jpeepers340 (Post 63647)
I am a 52 year old white man, married to a 50 year old white woman and I am about to burst of desire to make my home an interracial cuckold playground. We have been married 26 years and she have not been with another man all that time. We have an active sex life, I am a low-average 6 inches but I make her orgasm everytime. She constantly tells me that she desires nothing besides me and we deeply love each other.
So, why in the hell do I desire this so much? Deep inside, I know this lifestyle would, at the very least, strain our loving marriage. To teach her its ok to expose her body and give her love to other men, To allow her to quckly learn that other men have bigger units and can perform tricks and electrify her body in ways that I am not capable of. And, to allow her to quickly fall in love with black cock. Afterwards, sex with me, her husband, would be less exciting.
I admit that I am addicted to porn. Earlier in my life, I had seen interracial porn but really didn't think much of it. Then, two years ago, I accidently discovered a "how to" video on cuckolding. Totally naive, not even knowing what the word cuckold meant, I watched it. I was immediately consumed. Now I absolutely can't beleive HOW MANY amateur home-made, real life married wives videod while fucking big black men, all while her husband watches! Long sexual acts, no condoms, full insemination, all while the camera catches her sparkling wedding ring! Not just a few videos, but hundreds if not thousands or ordinary couples performing these dirty sexual acts in their own bedroom! This type of porn teaches us men just how desirable it is to let black men fuck our wives.
For the past two years, I have been talking to my wife and asking her to allow me to bring home black men for her to meet. Much to my disappointment, she has declined. I know the problem is that I am expecting her to approach sex as a man does, which is as a form of pure physical gratification. Instead, she feels she needs to be in love with a man before performing sexual acts. And she can not love another man because she is married to me. So, I continue to watch IR cuckold porn every day, grow more frustrated, but I continue to work on breaking down barriers with my wife.
Please share any comments.

I hate to burst your bubble, but I read somewhere that most(not all) but most of the amateur interracial cuckold pornos are actually call girls/hookers paid to act like they are married white women fucking a black man. I don't know how true it is but I imagine at least some part of that is true. I mean how many couples who are really into the lifestyle are going to film themselves face and all to be plastered all over the internet. I'm sure some would but not all.

SquirtKing 04-30-2014 06:35 AM

There will be always fake porn on the internet, also in this scene.

Helpgetherthere 04-30-2014 10:38 AM

Yeah that's what I'm saying. I believe most of the real people in this lifestyle, and this is just what I think. Most of the real couples aren't going to be posting videos all over the internet. I'm talking about your average joe couple are usually going to keep this from friends and family because it's not really an accepted lifestyle......yet!

Mylkmade 05-02-2014 03:10 PM

That's true. This is not something commonly accepted in most circles. So a lot of couples will keep this kind of extra curricular activity to themselves and keep to themselves. I think a lot of white women have thought about being with a black guy at one time or another though!

Helpgetherthere 05-04-2014 07:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Mylkmade (Post 63852)
That's true. This is not something commonly accepted in most circles. So a lot of couples will keep this kind of extra curricular activity to themselves and keep to themselves. I think a lot of white women have thought about being with a black guy at one time or another though!

I see more and more not nessesarily in the swing type interracial lifestyle but interracial dating or marriage that a lot more white women are open to dating black guys. It's getting to where people aren't even seeing race at all. To these people it's about being with the one that you love and that's real!! Not a fetish like most of us on here enjoy. I know this one white girl that has always dated black and has 2 biracial boys. Now she's dating a white guy and I can't believe the grief she gets because of it. And it's from blacks and whites. She's really into the guy so it's ok with me as long as she's happy. And once you go black you never go back is not always true. Lol

roxanna105 05-05-2014 10:17 PM

A good way is to go out and let your wife dance with black men over time it will happen for you It was my start
Roxanna

SquirtKing 05-06-2014 06:26 AM

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Originally Posted by Helpgetherthere (Post 63749)
Yeah that's what I'm saying. I believe most of the real people in this lifestyle, and this is just what I think. Most of the real couples aren't going to be posting videos all over the internet. I'm talking about your average joe couple are usually going to keep this from friends and family because it's not really an accepted lifestyle......yet!

We use watermarks in our vids. In photo's too but with a bit of photoshop-skills you can erase them. We never show our faces, only by Skype to verify both.

lezorro69 06-17-2014 04:45 PM

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Originally Posted by dgorman (Post 5050)
It took me over 3 years to convince my wife. I introduced the idea when we having sex so that she started to feel comfortable with the "fantasy". It became apparent that she was becoming more turned on when we talked during sex. I also made sure that she knew I was not interested in having sex with another woman and was purely turned on by the taboo nature of watching. She became more involved with the "dirty talk" and evolved the fantasy towards what she found exciting. I also made sure that we had good sex without the need to talk to appear not to obsessed. After a while I started talking about the fantasy outside the bedroom (usually involving alcohol) and asked her if there were any circumstances where she would actually do anything. This gave me a good idea of her concerns and boundaries which I could work on. Eventually it reached a point where she was confident enough for us to look at how we could arrange it and cover all her worries. The initial experience involved someone she knew fancied her (unfortunately not black) and had no contact with work collegues or friends. I persueded her to make a pass at him to see how he would react. She arranged to go out for a drink with him and I waited at home with a major hardon wondering what happened. When she got home she was the horniest I have ever seen her and knew things must have gone well. She confessed to making out with hime in his car where he had fingered her pussy and she had wanked him off !!!
Things escalated quickly when I arranged to be away for the night while she invited the guy around. I installed a hidden camera in the spare room in an alarm sensor to record what happened. By this stage my wife was getting turned on by the idea of me seeing her lose her inhibitions. The results were amazing as I returned to find a well fucked wife and a video that I wanked myself stupid over.
It took a further six months to persuade and arrange the meeting with a big black guy. We joined adult friend finder and put up an honest profile as well as take our time looking at possible guys. It came down to finding someone who had the right attitude and trustworthy as much as having a big cock (this was a major feature of the fantasy). Eventually we found a guy from the midlands who fit all of our criteria and more importantly had a lot of positive comments from other couples and women on the site. We exhcanged e-mails for a short time and eventually agreed to meet. We met at a hotel in birmingham where we had a drink in the public bar first. The guy turned out to be genuine and good fun. It didn't take long before we went back up to our room where my 3 years of work paid off. I watched my wife get fucked by an athletic, good looking, assertive black guy with one of the biggest cocks I have ever seen (at least 11 inches and very very thick) Once my wife got used to the sheer size of the guy she lost all her inhibitions. They fucked 4 times during the evening and watched her get taken in every position!!! when he left and I eventually got to fuck her it was the best sex I have ever had. It was worth the wait and we continue to find new partners and variations to keep developing our fantasy. I have watched her fuck 2 guys at the same time and we are working up to a major gangbang in the future. The trick is to realise that your partner needs to be turned on by the idea and you need to find her reservations at every stage and come up with arguments as to why it will not effect your relationship. If they end up loving it as much as you they it can only get even better. Good luck to you all.

Very good advise and thank you!

Helpgetherthere 06-18-2014 04:52 PM

All I can add is everybody likes to act like all white women have an uncontrollable urge to fuck a black man. On e they see a big black cock that they'll just have to have it. In reality it's just not the case. Some women just have no desire to be with a black man. Call it racism if you want to but I call it choice. Add in the fact that she's a married woman, you could be playing with fire. It's fine if this is a fantasy for you but don't automatically think your wife will be up for it. Don't obsess over it.

I'd love to see my wife get with another man. It's a fantasy of mine and IR throws an even hotter aspect to it but I've mentioned it to her while watching porn and she said she will never do something like that so I dropped it.

I'd rather keep my happy marriage than keep bringing up the IR lifestyle. Just my opinion.

bankerpres 01-27-2015 09:01 PM

Bob's idea
 
After the birth of our 3rd child, I kind of lost interest in sex. Don't get me wrong. Husband, Bob, is a great lover. I just had a very difficult pregnancy and I was not eager to put my self in that situation again. Additionally, I was 42, we had been married 21 years, and our sex life had began to get stale and routine. I just was not interested. Bob tried everything, romantic dinners, weekend getaways, etc. I was content to cuddle and be celibate. After about a year without sex, Bob approached me with the idea of swinging. He told me that I maybe content to live like a monk but he had many good fucks left in him. He was offering to share his adventures with me. As he said, I had a choice, stay married and fuck around with him or get a divorce. Either way he was going to have sex. If he couldn't have sex with me (his first choice) then he would have sex with other women. Reluctantly, I agreed. We started watching some swinging videos and joined some swing sites. We hooked up with a swingers club and attended some of their parties. Initially, we just watched. At the third party, Bob said that he was tired of watching and he took his clothes off. As I watched him pound this ravishing young brunette, her husband started fondling my breast. Before I knew it this Nebraska 20 something farmboy was drilling me with his fat 13 inch cock and I had rediscovered my love for fucking. However, I never really liked the club seen. It is just not me. I am not into quantity of fucks but the quality of a fuck. I like it one on one not the group seen of a swing club. So, we set up some rules. If anyone wanted to fuck me they needed to supply a swap fuck for hubby. And we advertised on craiglist. I had several people apply. We approached it like a job interview. It came down to 3 men and only one was black. The final interview was a weekend together. It really was not planned. Originally, I had no intention of getting into an interracial relationship. But the three of us, Bob, Jon (my bull) and I just seemed to click more than the other two white guys. Jon supplied Bob with the cutest 30 something white lady on Friday night and then a hot, HOT black chick for Saturday and IR was on. We met regularly for 5 years.


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