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[Helpgetherthere]

Originally Posted by jpeepers340

I am a 52 year old white man, married to a 50 year old white woman and I am about to burst of desire to make my home an interracial cuckold playground. We have been married 26 years and she have not been with another man all that time. We have an active sex life, I am a low-average 6 inches but I make her orgasm everytime. She constantly tells me that she desires nothing besides me and we deeply love each other.
So, why in the hell do I desire this so much? Deep inside, I know this lifestyle would, at the very least, strain our loving marriage. To teach her its ok to expose her body and give her love to other men, To allow her to quckly learn that other men have bigger units and can perform tricks and electrify her body in ways that I am not capable of. And, to allow her to quickly fall in love with black cock. Afterwards, sex with me, her husband, would be less exciting.
I admit that I am addicted to porn. Earlier in my life, I had seen interracial porn but really didn't think much of it. Then, two years ago, I accidently discovered a "how to" video on cuckolding. Totally naive, not even knowing what the word cuckold meant, I watched it. I was immediately consumed. Now I absolutely can't beleive HOW MANY amateur home-made, real life married wives videod while fucking big black men, all while her husband watches! Long sexual acts, no condoms, full insemination, all while the camera catches her sparkling wedding ring! Not just a few videos, but hundreds if not thousands or ordinary couples performing these dirty sexual acts in their own bedroom! This type of porn teaches us men just how desirable it is to let black men fuck our wives.
For the past two years, I have been talking to my wife and asking her to allow me to bring home black men for her to meet. Much to my disappointment, she has declined. I know the problem is that I am expecting her to approach sex as a man does, which is as a form of pure physical gratification. Instead, she feels she needs to be in love with a man before performing sexual acts. And she can not love another man because she is married to me. So, I continue to watch IR cuckold porn every day, grow more frustrated, but I continue to work on breaking down barriers with my wife.
Please share any comments.

I hate to burst your bubble, but I read somewhere that most(not all) but most of the amateur interracial cuckold pornos are actually call girls/hookers paid to act like they are married white women fucking a black man. I don't know how true it is but I imagine at least some part of that is true. I mean how many couples who are really into the lifestyle are going to film themselves face and all to be plastered all over the internet. I'm sure some would but not all.

[SquirtKing]

There will be always fake porn on the internet, also in this scene.

[Helpgetherthere]

Yeah that's what I'm saying. I believe most of the real people in this lifestyle, and this is just what I think. Most of the real couples aren't going to be posting videos all over the internet. I'm talking about your average joe couple are usually going to keep this from friends and family because it's not really an accepted lifestyle......yet!

[Mylkmade]

That's true. This is not something commonly accepted in most circles. So a lot of couples will keep this kind of extra curricular activity to themselves and keep to themselves. I think a lot of white women have thought about being with a black guy at one time or another though!

[Helpgetherthere]

Originally Posted by Mylkmade

That's true. This is not something commonly accepted in most circles. So a lot of couples will keep this kind of extra curricular activity to themselves and keep to themselves. I think a lot of white women have thought about being with a black guy at one time or another though!

I see more and more not nessesarily in the swing type interracial lifestyle but interracial dating or marriage that a lot more white women are open to dating black guys. It's getting to where people aren't even seeing race at all. To these people it's about being with the one that you love and that's real!! Not a fetish like most of us on here enjoy. I know this one white girl that has always dated black and has 2 biracial boys. Now she's dating a white guy and I can't believe the grief she gets because of it. And it's from blacks and whites. She's really into the guy so it's ok with me as long as she's happy. And once you go black you never go back is not always true. Lol

[roxanna105]

A good way is to go out and let your wife dance with black men over time it will happen for you It was my start
Roxanna

[SquirtKing]

Originally Posted by Helpgetherthere

Yeah that's what I'm saying. I believe most of the real people in this lifestyle, and this is just what I think. Most of the real couples aren't going to be posting videos all over the internet. I'm talking about your average joe couple are usually going to keep this from friends and family because it's not really an accepted lifestyle......yet!

We use watermarks in our vids. In photo's too but with a bit of photoshop-skills you can erase them. We never show our faces, only by Skype to verify both.

[lezorro69]

Originally Posted by dgorman

It took me over 3 years to convince my wife. I introduced the idea when we having sex so that she started to feel comfortable with the "fantasy". It became apparent that she was becoming more turned on when we talked during sex. I also made sure that she knew I was not interested in having sex with another woman and was purely turned on by the taboo nature of watching. She became more involved with the "dirty talk" and evolved the fantasy towards what she found exciting. I also made sure that we had good sex without the need to talk to appear not to obsessed. After a while I started talking about the fantasy outside the bedroom (usually involving alcohol) and asked her if there were any circumstances where she would actually do anything. This gave me a good idea of her concerns and boundaries which I could work on. Eventually it reached a point where she was confident enough for us to look at how we could arrange it and cover all her worries. The initial experience involved someone she knew fancied her (unfortunately not black) and had no contact with work collegues or friends. I persueded her to make a pass at him to see how he would react. She arranged to go out for a drink with him and I waited at home with a major hardon wondering what happened. When she got home she was the horniest I have ever seen her and knew things must have gone well. She confessed to making out with hime in his car where he had fingered her pussy and she had wanked him off !!!
Things escalated quickly when I arranged to be away for the night while she invited the guy around. I installed a hidden camera in the spare room in an alarm sensor to record what happened. By this stage my wife was getting turned on by the idea of me seeing her lose her inhibitions. The results were amazing as I returned to find a well fucked wife and a video that I wanked myself stupid over.
It took a further six months to persuade and arrange the meeting with a big black guy. We joined adult friend finder and put up an honest profile as well as take our time looking at possible guys. It came down to finding someone who had the right attitude and trustworthy as much as having a big cock (this was a major feature of the fantasy). Eventually we found a guy from the midlands who fit all of our criteria and more importantly had a lot of positive comments from other couples and women on the site. We exhcanged e-mails for a short time and eventually agreed to meet. We met at a hotel in birmingham where we had a drink in the public bar first. The guy turned out to be genuine and good fun. It didn't take long before we went back up to our room where my 3 years of work paid off. I watched my wife get fucked by an athletic, good looking, assertive black guy with one of the biggest cocks I have ever seen (at least 11 inches and very very thick) Once my wife got used to the sheer size of the guy she lost all her inhibitions. They fucked 4 times during the evening and watched her get taken in every position!!! when he left and I eventually got to fuck her it was the best sex I have ever had. It was worth the wait and we continue to find new partners and variations to keep developing our fantasy. I have watched her fuck 2 guys at the same time and we are working up to a major gangbang in the future. The trick is to realise that your partner needs to be turned on by the idea and you need to find her reservations at every stage and come up with arguments as to why it will not effect your relationship. If they end up loving it as much as you they it can only get even better. Good luck to you all.

Very good advise and thank you!

[Helpgetherthere]

All I can add is everybody likes to act like all white women have an uncontrollable urge to fuck a black man. On e they see a big black cock that they'll just have to have it. In reality it's just not the case. Some women just have no desire to be with a black man. Call it racism if you want to but I call it choice. Add in the fact that she's a married woman, you could be playing with fire. It's fine if this is a fantasy for you but don't automatically think your wife will be up for it. Don't obsess over it.

I'd love to see my wife get with another man. It's a fantasy of mine and IR throws an even hotter aspect to it but I've mentioned it to her while watching porn and she said she will never do something like that so I dropped it.

I'd rather keep my happy marriage than keep bringing up the IR lifestyle. Just my opinion.

[bankerpres]

After the birth of our 3rd child, I kind of lost interest in sex. Don't get me wrong. Husband, Bob, is a great lover. I just had a very difficult pregnancy and I was not eager to put my self in that situation again. Additionally, I was 42, we had been married 21 years, and our sex life had began to get stale and routine. I just was not interested. Bob tried everything, romantic dinners, weekend getaways, etc. I was content to cuddle and be celibate. After about a year without sex, Bob approached me with the idea of swinging. He told me that I maybe content to live like a monk but he had many good fucks left in him. He was offering to share his adventures with me. As he said, I had a choice, stay married and fuck around with him or get a divorce. Either way he was going to have sex. If he couldn't have sex with me (his first choice) then he would have sex with other women. Reluctantly, I agreed. We started watching some swinging videos and joined some swing sites. We hooked up with a swingers club and attended some of their parties. Initially, we just watched. At the third party, Bob said that he was tired of watching and he took his clothes off. As I watched him pound this ravishing young brunette, her husband started fondling my breast. Before I knew it this Nebraska 20 something farmboy was drilling me with his fat 13 inch cock and I had rediscovered my love for fucking. However, I never really liked the club seen. It is just not me. I am not into quantity of fucks but the quality of a fuck. I like it one on one not the group seen of a swing club. So, we set up some rules. If anyone wanted to fuck me they needed to supply a swap fuck for hubby. And we advertised on craiglist. I had several people apply. We approached it like a job interview. It came down to 3 men and only one was black. The final interview was a weekend together. It really was not planned. Originally, I had no intention of getting into an interracial relationship. But the three of us, Bob, Jon (my bull) and I just seemed to click more than the other two white guys. Jon supplied Bob with the cutest 30 something white lady on Friday night and then a hot, HOT black chick for Saturday and IR was on. We met regularly for 5 years.