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[dirtbag2272]

I was going to put on one of her panties last night before sex, but I chickened out...
I did joke about wearing her nightgown and it seemed to get a positive reaction.

[whitecuckmn]

She seems to be quite open to it, and I think that she is letting you know she would LIKE you to wear them and other intimate apparel.

Since you want to be feminized somewhat, ASK her if it is OK to wear her panties to bed...

YOu might even say that you feel like wearing panties, etc, because you don;t have a cock, but only a "clitty"....
and you know that you cannot satisfy her and that SHE needs to feel a "real man's cock" etc......

[whitecuckmn]

When you are (alone at first) in places where black men are, you might want to make sure your panties are pulled up out of your pants so they can see them. You might get some of them aroused or perhaps they will talk to you.

Tell your wife that they "accidentally" were visible and tell her the reaction you got. If she gets excited then you KNOW she will cuckold you soon.

Also let the panties be visible when you are out with her in places where you are likely to see black men...

(Getting ahead of myself here, but down the road you can asks her to take her panties off and give them to you because you want to wear them.......Make sure she is wearing a short skirt....)

[jessicasubcd]

It was dressing up for halloween that allowed me to travel further down the path.

[smolder]

I liked the suggestion above, ask her to go out wearing a short skirt with no panties. You can tell her if she does you will wear a pair of panties out also. Take her someplace where another man might notice she is panty-less, like dancing. If she thinks someone notices, she is allowed to tell them you are wearing her panties. A Halloween dress up is also a good opportunity. Hope things are progressing positively.

[dirtbag2272]

great suggestions.
I joked about buying high-heels when I was out the other day and she joked that she would like to see that...
I just need to get over the hump an do it.
I like the Halloween idea

[smolder]

Maybe suggest the old pimp & ho couple costumes, but with a twist. Tell her you will go as the ho & she can go as the pimp. You have an excuse to dress up in her sluttiest undergarments and she gets to playact as a dom black male.You may get some insights on how she imagines black men should handle submissive women (or femboys)

[dirtbag2272]

We were joking that I needed to get in touch with my feminine side yesterday so I decided to go for it and surprise her and wear her panties to bed. I put on a black thong and got under the covers.

When she came to bed I said I was getting in touch with my feminine side. First, she jokingly offered to give me a dollar bill like I was a stripper, but then she said that it looked disturbing. I could tell she was pretty surprised by it and not really turned on by it. She said there are grey areas and there is over the line. She said this is over the line and not to wear her panties any more. She said it in a somewhat joking manner.

She did give me a BJ afterwards so all was not lost.

I would like to get to a place where she is comfortable with it, even if I wear them sometimes. I am thinking she was caught by surprise and needs some time to process it.

What should I do next?