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We do not have a live-in arrangement but I do have a long term black boyfriend who regularly visits our home and sometimes joins us on vacation. I think a live-in situation might pose a few problems socially if friends and family decide to visit at short notice, or where there is a need to be discreet regarding lifestyle choices.

Notice your tag lines mentions poly but yet you use the term "lover" in question and poll. So my question to you is why does the blk man have to be a just a lover, why can't he be an equal within the whole relationship?

I actually love poly relationships.

Thanks for the bump Phil as I had totally missed MyWay comment to me, thanks again.

Live in lovers (Poly)

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Originally Posted by Mustang Alley (Post 63667)

Think you're hit on something Mustang that could lead to an interesting post. Especially if a woman has two lovers, maybe one of them she's married to. How does everyone set the ground rules and what is expected from everyone.
Hopefully you'll add something about your situation as well. Looking forward this.

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Originally Posted by Mustang Alley (Post 63667)

I think you are dead on. Why not???? It makes life simpler for everyone involved. So again, why not??????

Actually the correct answer for my wife was that we did have a live-in lover (we said that he was her co-husband with me). Heywood lived with us for almost 3 years and we split the bills and we all slept in a king size bed with my wife in the middle. We would take vacations together, he would take her out to dinner, movie or night-clubbing and then take her to bed like any other husband at the end of the evening. Sometimes I would join in and some times I would just wait for my turn and sometimes I would just watch, and Heywood would do the same if I took her out for the evening.

Heywood was definitely in the BBC group- slightly over 11" long and as thick as her wrist, with tremendous staying power. She did become pregnant by him once, but she miscarried at about 3 months and we had the baby tested and he was the father. Everyone was disappointed but those things happen and before long she was ready to go again.

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Originally Posted by gatorrdw (Post 67913)

She did become pregnant by him once, but she miscarried at about 3 months and we had the baby tested and he was the father. .

Okay okay this is the 4th miscarriage I've read that your wife has had. The rest of your reply was fitting to the thread but then you go and add in 4th miscarriage (that I know of) and had the dead fetus tested to see if the blk man was the father.. WHO the FCK DOES THAT???? Not to mention the cost of DNA X 3 .. Now this was years ago (as you remind us often) so DNA testing was so costly!! Plz don't even try and tell me that the doctors just decided to run the test at no charge to help find the reason for the miscarriage.

I was really enjoying your post up until that point sorry but I can't just say awe how sweet and skip right over that. Sigh. :rolleyes:

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Originally Posted by gatorrdw (Post 60166)

My wife got pregnant by her other men 3 different times and 1 was by her black boss in the office she worked at. Unfortunately she miscarried all 3 times before she had gone even 3 months,

Now that post was posted in 2013. Wonders why poor Heywood, the live in lover/baby daddy wasn't mentioned in the post a year ago? When clearly the only BLK man that was mentioned was the boss man.