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[Mustang Alley]

Originally Posted by SteelRat39

I just assume that anyone NOT willing to be verified on cam is a fake. No exceptions, no excuses. Nearly all computers come with built in cams, if not, webcams are cheap. Want to protect your privacy somewhat, conceal your face a little, dark glasses, a hat etc. Again, anyone NOT willing to go on cam, or who makes some kind of lame excuse, is a fake. Possible exceptions for someone who uses skype etc., who makes the extra effort to be verified by Mustang or other well known members. Prove you really exist and are really who you say you are or get the hell out. Yes, for what it's worth, I have been on cam myself, several times.

Amen!!!!'!!

[Mustang Alley]

Originally Posted by mywayintermsofsex

Kitty, i think you`re hot (except from the wording mayb.?!)


Personally, i would say "No, it is not a good idea to get verified on cam but it is a good idea to give the opportunity for those who want to."

Plz explain why you feel it's a bad idea. Also you mention viewing same faces in chat, are you speaking of viewing cams?

[Mustang Alley]

And I was asking for your "personal" reasons as to why it's not a good idea.

Yes so many are stolen but that's not me. I've verified so many people here some are very VERY important people. I've never once snapped a pic or recorded anything!!! Not my style. As steel mentioned wear glasses or show from the chin down. It's not like you're required to suck a blk dildo on cam. Hell least with skype it's a normal setting. Just a hi and bye.

Originally Posted by mywayintermsofsex

i said PERSONALLY. It`s only my p.o.v.

i consider privacy to be an issue. Just looking around on web forums and social networks gives me the creeps. So many pics and videos actually stolen, altered, put in another context, etc. We have to be aware that the internet is a public place and data can be copied, changed, multiplied, etc. i just don`t want to see my face, statements, etc. misused or misplaced somewhere i didn`t consent to. Or even worse, not see it or have the knowledge of where others do.

But that`s only my personal decision. People are different and others may be less aware or give away more freely.

And for your second question... i`m not very interested in viewing cams, i prefer conversation (and that can also be done by texting). So the few times i am in the ILI chat i usually don`t click people`s cams although it happened a few times that i was invited.
My statement was rather meant as an idiom meaning the same (about 30) people who are actually repeatedly using the chat.

[moojo]

I'm all for web cam verification. I realize everyone enjoys the site in there own way. For some folks their involvement is purely fantasy, which is fine if your honest about who you are and what your looking for. I my self am not looking to hook up and enjoy erotic chat as a cuck wanna be. I know a lot of folks are looking to hook up and its unfortunate that they have to waste there time with those who aren't up front about who they are and there intensions. Is this "women " your chatting with really a women? Does this cuck really even have a wife? And if so does she know he's on this site? You get what I mean....bottom line, the fakes are harmless and there is room for everyone on this site, but it's nice to know who your rally relating to

[SteelRat39]

I STILL say: No cam = FAKE! Period

[Mustang Alley]

Great point. Bc I know for a fact there's fakes that's gonna prey on y'all. Especially those that are looking for a mistress/cucktress or whatever it is that y'all call it. lol. Even y'all have to worry about being taken advantage of.

But you're wrong about one thing. Not all "fakes are harmless" there's a deep dark side and as OBX said "fuckery" about it.

That's why it's important to know that you're actually speaking to the person you think you are!!!'

Originally Posted by moojo

I'm all for web cam verification. I realize everyone enjoys the site in there own way. For some folks their involvement is purely fantasy, which is fine if your honest about who you are and what your looking for. I my self am not looking to hook up and enjoy erotic chat as a cuck wanna be. I know a lot of folks are looking to hook up and its unfortunate that they have to waste there time with those who aren't up front about who they are and there intensions. Is this "women " your chatting with really a women? Does this cuck really even have a wife? And if so does she know he's on this site? You get what I mean....bottom line, the fakes are harmless and there is room for everyone on this site, but it's nice to know who your rally relating to

[dashinglad2010]

To the guy with the long, novelesque post it's clearly simple why we demand cam verification on this site. Everything you pointed out is the EXACT reason why. Meaning that it's NOT good enough. Anyone can use the ILI chat room and other accessories the site has; however, people like you can still conceal your true identity nonetheless. 1,000 pics and 1,000 videos and all, yet it still does no good. Catfishing is very commonplace these days and it's disgusting. It ruins the opportunity for the black man to accomplish his goal. I've had it happen to me and I didn't like it. Cam verification should be mandatory. If so, this site will have taken a major step towards gaining credibility.

[Helpgetherthere]

What about us guys who openly admit this is a turn on for us but our wives aren't interested. I'm not on here trying to fool anybody into thinking they are going to fuck my wife. Would it be nessesary for someone like me to be cam verified??

[Mustang Alley]

Originally Posted by Helpgetherthere

What about us guys who openly admit this is a turn on for us but our wives aren't interested. I'm not on here trying to fool anybody into thinking they are going to fuck my wife. Would it be nessesary for someone like me to be cam verified??

But ya know sooner or later I'm gonna see ya on cam. lol.

Love that you're so open and honest!!!

[Helpgetherthere]

Originally Posted by Mustang Alley

But ya know sooner or later I'm gonna see ya on cam. lol.

Love that you're so open and honest!!!

You right alley. Been wanting to send you a friend request but I know better than doing that without being verified!!

But I have been dieing to ask you about your avatar. Any kind of meaning to it or just something you like?