agreed
 

however we are not wasting time we are trying to gain more information about it...when you put a time limit on it, it makes us feel pressure to rush into it...pressure is not a good way to make someone feel but we will be considering it for sure.

If your on this sight reading the forums and asking a few questions, truly not out of the ball park questions, most people could care less if your verified. But if you start asking off the wall questions and talking about your husband servicing your bull master and turning him into a sissy or trying to act like you want to meet black men for sex, then yeah they gonna ask that you be verified.

I'm not verified but I'm seriously thinking about it just so I can request Miss Mustang to be my buddy. The curiosity of knowing what the voice of reason truly looks like is getting to me!!:)

How do you go about it? Pick a verified person and send a pm to meet you in chat or skype and when you do, how does everybody know your verified? Forgive me for being a dummy:/

A. get on cam in cam chat
B. PM Mustang(you could also try anyone that has been verified and have them tell Mustang) your skype info and a time to meet up on there

i believe there's a list of real people somewhere she's maintaining on these forums but i forgot where

personally i think its easier to just hop on cam in cam chat but to each his own

right
 

Use to cheat till we found out hubby likes. He has said the lieing hurt the most. Great to honest. Now.

bareback only for all men
 

As most of the previous posters have said. It's not cheating if both husband and wife agreed to enjoy sex with other people. Some hubby's like to watch or just hear the details. And some wives are the same. As for going bareback I prefer it but if the guy wants to ware a condom that is his choice. Hubby and I have had sex with many different couples and I have had sex with a lot more men black and white. And you always need to keep in mind that it's just sex and nothing more or less. The husband and wife are a couple and look out for each other and take care of each other. So the rest is just for fun and exciting entertainment.

I never considered thinking about other men was cheating because my husband always talked about me with another man when we had sex. He even told me if the other man wore a condom that it was just foreplay and not really sex. After years and years I had an affair with a young black man and it was always bareback-it just seemed right. The excitement is simply knowing his skin and my skin are together and maybe even the thought of having his baby enters into it. Everything just seems so wild and all your thoughts just go wild too

yes it is cheating-that should be obvious! You are with another man for sex! For me the excitement of bareback is just the thought of having a black baby. I can feel him better and I know he feels me a lot more. Plus dont overlook the arousal from the color contrast-black going into white was always taboo for me and to see it makes me crazy

No
 

If your husband like mine does not mind and uou are honest with him about what goes on then it's not cheating

As far as bareback if you can't feel the man's hot cum explode in you then what's the use of having sex. I tried a condom once and hated it, I felt like I was cheated and my orgasam was not as intense