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Having said that.
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Old 07-29-2014, 07:37 PM
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for a real conversation!!! Breath of fresh air around here!!! Thanks y'all.

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Question? The no intercourse rule is that her personal rule or a mutual rule?


@ ancientone~ you're so right about feeling safe and secure.


Having said that, MA, your question represents what most couples fail to realize. That within a relationship, the answer is the mutual rule. Communicate and grow together.
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Remembering The Intimate Wife's blog.
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Old 07-29-2014, 08:17 PM
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Thanks for the replies! The no intercourse rule is ours. Well I guess she came up with it originally, but I totally live by it in my relationships, as does she! No, it's not easy at times, but I do understand it. She says she just really wants that to be ours. However, as she said. If she finds a true friend that she enjoys spending time with and trusts, then we may have decisions to make. She can't see that right now because she has never been close enough to another to want that. Her times have just been fun, quick hookups. I have told her to feel free to look and find what she wants. The right person is surely out there, it may just take time finding them, but that's half the fun!😜
One sexually active woman's blog showed her disgust with a man she met at a convention and got him in bed only to find out that he could not have intercourse with her because he was married. She kicked him out of her room. One has to wonder, ask what this man was thinking. Had he just cheated on his wife? Had this man just cheated his wife and this woman at the convention? In my book, he deceived both.

My wife has asked herself if a married man takes her and his wife does not, would not approve of his extra-marital sex, should she (my wife) excuse herself? My wife always wears her wedding ring.
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I enjoy oral, giving and receiving, as much or more as anybody but weekends with a FWB and no intercourse would be impossible for me or just about anyone else for that matter. Good luck with this one....Becky
Good point. How could it not happen.
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