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[jimbrowski]

This white woman from my job that I've been fucking is entering a stage of separation with her husband with the intent on getting a divorce, and she wants to stay with me until she can sort things out. I don't want to be rude, but I also don't want her staying with me. Going by her words, he wasn't a good husband; he would cheat on her, and verbally abuse her amongst other things, so my thing is she shouldn't have held onto him this long. My one concern is I don't want us getting too close or closer than we are already because she has mentioned being with me in the past, jokingly; I've also noticed the sex is getting comfortable, which are indications. The other thing is I won't be able to bring over my other lady friends. I havent given her an answer as yet, and I noticed she's a little distant and short with me.
Now, I do consider her a friend; I don't feel responsible for her marriage because like most average women, she was using this dude for his money, and this dude is like 11-12 years older than her.
Personally, I was hoping she would find somewhere else to stay so I wouldn't have to give her an answer, but coworkers keep saying that she hasn't found a place to crash as of yet.
As a dude what would you do?

[Stud4MILFs]

I would let her stay at my place, but only for so long.

[iaful1]

As a friend I'd let her stay but with a very strict or stern deadline.

[breed80]

Run like hell. You don't need her baggage.

[kaliforniaKid]

Is this related to your millionaire wife thread?
If it is, ride that shit out until the alimony kicks in.
If not, give her two weeks but no more than three unless she starts paying bills.

[jimbrowski]

Originally Posted by kaliforniaKid

Is this related to your millionaire wife thread?
If it is, ride that shit out until the alimony kicks in.
If not, give her two weeks but no more than three unless she starts paying bills.

Not necessarily, I do have a reason fo the post, but the women aren't commenting on it.

[Mustang Alley]

http://www.iloveinterracial.com/foru...html#post66963 <--if so. Yea I think you confused us when you separated the dics from the meows. What's wrong with you Jim, you know we like to mingle together . Damn sexual segregation.

[jimbrowski]

Originally Posted by Mustang Alley

http://www.iloveinterracial.com/foru...html#post66963 <--if so. Yea I think you confused us when you separated the dics from the meows. What's wrong with you Jim, you know we like to mingle together . Damn sexual segregation.

LOL…no segregation meant, but theres certain aspects of life that confuse me about women, even at my age; especially when they say one thing and do something else that goes directly against what they said.

[jimbrowski]

Originally Posted by Kalflcik

Bro.. I wouldn't allow her to stay with me. I don't mean to think too far into it, but from what you mentioned, she sounds like she uses men.. She may try to manipulate you into a relationship that you clearly don't want.. Therefore letting her stay at your place is indirectly giving her the green light to pursue her plans for you. I haven't allowed a married/newly divorced woman to stay with me before, however have plenty experience letting other females into my home... It can be an unimaginable disaster to say the least. Things can go wrong in SO many ways with someone that you do not know well enough. It may become very difficult to get her out once she's in. Regardless, you don't owe her anything, and she has baggage that is unfair to burden your life with.. As a man it is not your job to rescue her, especially being that you aren't even looking to be her man. Sounds like she wants something serious with you, but she is cheating on her husband, and now looking for another man to save her... THIS IS HER PATTERN, probably not what you expect from a potential girlfriend or spouse.. I would stop fucking her asap... least not in my home.

Yeah, she's slick-very slick; so much so I can't gauge her motives. Theres a lot of shit that I didn't put on here, but it always starts out good, and then it goes down hill; I have to find a better crop of females, lol.