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[bongNJ]

i'd have see some pics and stats to be 100% sure but this should help any girl that classifies themselves as 'big'.
as a general rule of thumb: big girls look better with their clothes on; slim girls look better with their clothes off

that being said, same rules apply with you as with anyone when it comes to fashion: cover up weaknesses, emphasize strengths. high heels to make you taller and your weight more evenly distributed, low cut tops to show off tits, and belts to give the illusion of a waistline are good places to start.

oh, and if you're not comfortable with your weight, then change it. don't listen to people telling you 'real women have curves', 'every woman is beautiful', 'you're perfect', and the like because most of the time their projecting their own insecurities or just outright lying. fact is not everyone can pull off being big, just like not everyone can pull off being slim; anyone who's seen carmella bing after she blew up or oprah in her skinny days can tell you that
at the end of the day being confident in your looks will attract way more black men than anything you're wearing

TL;DR: confidence in your looks > actually being good looking > clothes