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[jimbrowski]

Over this thanksgiving holiday I was acosted by some of my female friends and was asked when
am I going to settle down, and perhaps get married? They know I'm not in a serious relationship.
I never really gave it that much
thought, and I am getting older. One issue I've always had was that I can't seem to find a woman that thinks like me or at least close to how I think; the main reason is I don't really trust women; why? Well, ever since I've been about 15 years old I've been having sex with married women, even in my teenage yearsthe girls I would have sex with had boyfriends. I want to stress that I wasn't the aggressor in pursuing these women; it was on them or it was mutual.
Statiscally, women cheat almost as much as men, so what's to stop my spouse from cheating on me?
I know every relationship isn't perfect, but if you're doing everything humanly possible to please your spouse, whats really to prevent them from sleeping with another man??? I mean, I've been in other mens homes; I've been in hotels with wives; I've had wives in my home. I do realize that I can't fuck around for the rest of my life, but getting married nowadays just seems like a waste of paper; it seems like people get married just so they can say "I'm married", like a status symbol of some sort.
What are your thoughts? I'm know I'm not the only one.