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Serious Question For The Fellaz

So, if you're a single father, and you find a woman who is into you and is talking to you about being your queen, ring and all, and she wants you to put it on her finger.

You're into this woman, she's got that butt n gut, thick ass thighs, large breasts, and you're raising your daughter as a single father, you have morals, and then, you see a link that the woman that you're talking to is on, and you see this woman giving this dude head, how do you handle the situation?

A) Do you just walk away, and not look back

B) Do you forgive this woman for what she does, ( Remember, this woman is wanting to help you raise your daughter together, like she gave birth to her )

C) Do you ask this woman to stop doing porn, so that you two can work on getting past what she does?

D) Insert your own response here

Thats the question
and id choose option 3 - your no angel and u have a past

We all have pasts; ditto our partners!

Most married men and women try other temporary partners!
Accept the black man/woman temporarily enriching your partner's life!

Hugs

no brainer, fuck it.

If she is doing porn while the two of you were together and she didn't let you know in advance then she isn't trust worthy. If she did porn before you two got together then you can try and work it out.

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Originally Posted by jcol1056 (Post 69467)

She was doing low budget porn, and didn't tell me, we have not been together, we were very serious about getting together, and making it official, one night, I clicked on a link of hers, and I see her giving some dude head, which completely threw me off.

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Originally Posted by notrub42 (Post 69463)

We all have pasts; ditto our partners!

Most married men and women try other temporary partners!
Accept the black man/woman temporarily enriching your partner's life!

Hugs

The problem is, I wasn't going to make her my temporary partner, I was literally going to put a ring on her finger, and make her my queen.

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Originally Posted by mywayintermsofsex (Post 69472)

Unfortunately, i am not really sure about the situation you describe.

As notrub42 said, "we all have pasts".

So, is it something she did before you first met or your relationship got serious? Or is she going on with it still?

Also, is the picture you saw something you can get past, or is it too much for you to handle (even if it was some activity of her past, before you)?

If this is too tough for you to handle there are bad chances your relationship will ever turn out fine. Otherwise it is, like you said, something from her past, and there are chances for you to deal with it.

IMO the question is, did she purposely hide this away from you (that would raise doubt in her trustworth), or is it something she wanted to tell you at some point, but was not quite sure how to go about it?

How did you come across this link? Did she leave her notebook or mobile with that page open, so that you could easily find and access it? Maybe it was her intent that you find it because she had no other idea how to tell you.

And what was your (first) reaction? You didn`t say anything about this. :( Did you approach her about it (talk to her or get mad at her)?

Anyhow, adult entertainment is not immoral and doesn`t say anything about a person`s social or intellectual abilities! So this does not automatically mean in her private life she will have a bad influence on anyone.

BTW, IMHO it is a bad idea to choose a partner just because she will make a good parent for your child. First, your relationship with her shall be meaningful and you should have the feeling that there is a conjoint future possible with her. This provided, if your daughter gets along well with her, it`s even better.

Think about what seems best for the three of you both with your brain and with your heart.
Good luck with your dicision!

With this woman, she's a bbw, and she is a feeder, and she asked if I would be ok with her putting a little more weight on, which I told her that would be fine, as long as it doesn't begin to jeopardize her health.

I clicked on her profile page, which is on another site, and came across the link, and saw her in a video giving some dude dome.

She lives in florida, and i'm in Canada, but we've been talking for quite a long time, and we were both into each other, and I was into her brains, before her sexy phat booty, ( Just for the record )

She intentionally did not tell me about the video, and if i'm going to be with a woman, and put a ring on her finger, entrust my daughters well being, safety with this woman, doesn't that make me just as bad as the father of a young lady?

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Originally Posted by Canadian Black Breeder (Post 69478)

I guess you have had sex with her already and now the hard part is forming a relationship with her, you will want to check out a lil bit of her history and the first insecurity hurdle is erected already and anxiety follows it and she might be thinking the same thing about you. You now expect her to be wifey material. Her self respect and your self respect is a game of chess!

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Originally Posted by Mr Real (Post 69485)

I guess you have had sex with her already

NO, we have not even gotten together, we were at the point of taking that next step, and get together, and begin to bond, but when I came across the link of the video of her giving head to some dude, I had to walk away in thirty seconds.