Do black guys have a good idea who is available?

fundownsouth69 · #1 (**permalink**) 12-21-2014, 07:53 PM

So my wife and I have been experimenting with fantasies the last year. We have both agreed to open our relationship and have really been having a great experience. We have talked about our fantasies and understand what the other wants. That is part of our plan. We help each other with what we are looking for and enjoy the learning process. That is what brings me to this site. My wife loves all men. She is very attractive and takes care of herself. She is not looking for any particular race of man, however black men definitely interest her. Since our beginning on this journey, she has been flirted with by many guys, all black. Don't get me wrong, she loves it but that is it. When we are at a club black guys are talking to her. We even went to Disney and she said she made eye contact with a black guy and they just locked on. She is having a hard time figuring this out. She would be just as open to the relationship with white guys but there have been none. Is there something she is doing? It's not that she wants it to stop, she just doesn't understand getting hit on 100% by black guys.

tongueuboth · #2 (**permalink**) 12-23-2014, 09:47 PM

We are avid swingers, and my wife is Available to date and go to swingclubs with them.
She loves a nice thick BBC to bred her. Just send her home full for me to clean up.
Tampa area.

BBCkyvonic · #3 (**permalink**) 02-06-2016, 07:55 AM

I am a good looking hung BBC male who lives in Abilene Texas. I have always desired a ordinary bbw full figured walk talk ,and the whole nine. Mature white woman. But it is very difficult to hard because of the stigma and the taboo of it still in this area. But from what I can see now it would nice to right to reach out to some in a forum such as this

vango · #4 (**permalink**) 02-12-2016, 09:50 AM

I don't know what the heck it is? me and my wife have basically given up.. I recently hinted to a neighbor dude thats taken care of his mom down the hill, he's told me he doesn't have a girlfriend and he wouldn't mind finding something... I'm away from the house and me and my wife hardly see one another except on the weekends, so I told him it would be cool if you wanted to come and keep my wife company watching a movie or something and so far nothing, I think he's scared are nervous...

whitecuckmn · #5 (**permalink**) 03-02-2016, 07:26 AM

Ha, ha…. yes, I agree. I love your comment…

but Yes, in my opinion and from comments others have made, the "taboo" of a white woman having sex with a black man is a turn on for some women, their husbands, and others involved. I imagine the "taboo" aspect is heightened for a married woman, because of the taboo on "cheating", at least of her acquaintances, and possibly of her husband..

Sorry for getting off topic.

Mustang Alley · #6 (**permalink**) 12-21-2014, 09:19 PM

Is it the above ^ or the below quote? Is she looking, is she not looking??

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Originally Posted by fundownsouth69

My wife and I are in somewhat of an open relationship. Well I guess it could be called a soft open relationship. We enjoy playing around but never have intercourse. I have had a more serious relationship, and lately my wife has become interested in the same. Here is the deal.

She is interested in finding a black male an hour or so from our home that she can just go spend the weekend with. She wants a friend with benefits who she can hang out with and get away for a few days a month. I am fine with whatever she wants, it's just how we are. However, she is shy about pursuing it because of the no intercourse rule. She loves playing, giving and receiving oral, but just no intercourse. At least at this time. She is afraid this would be a deal breaker. What are your true thoughts. Is this an odd request or something she could have luck with. Just looking for advise before testing the water. Thanks

fundownsouth69 · #7 (**permalink**) 12-21-2014, 10:37 PM

Well, it is both! We are still new and testing the water. We have begun visiting swinger clubs, and anything else we find appealing. Sorry 2 posts months apart confused you. We're just living and learning. I suppose our current question does boil down to eye contact. I'm sure it does at times, other times I'm not sure.

Mustang Alley · #8 (**permalink**) 12-22-2014, 12:15 AM

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Originally Posted by fundownsouth69

She is not looking for any particular race of man.
*****
Two months ago.
She is interested in finding a black male an hour or so from our home that she can just go spend the weekend with.

lol that's not confusing at all. You're the one that posted she was looking for a blk man and now your saying that she's not looking for a certain race. Stories change as fantasies do I guess.

To answer your question. YES
Blk men have special mind powers that's how they know she's been fantasizing about them.