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BiBBWDivaGoddess 01-08-2015 02:07 AM

Why Do Black Men Assume That ALL White Women Are Submissive?!
 
Why do Black men assume that ALL white women are submissive?! I can't tell you how many Black men messaging me stating that they are Dominant and that they seek submissive women to obey them. Yeah ok whatever. Let me tell the group this Im a Domme/Mistress as I'm a VERY Dominant woman! I loathe going down on my knees and say: "Yes Master" "No Master". I only get on my knees to suck Black dick! I love sucking BBC! I can't tell you how many men ignore me and stop talking to me simply because I'm a Dominant take charge woman! They run away in fear! LMAO! Listen up little doggie keep your ass on the porch I need a Black man that can run with this woman! I won't submit nor will I ever submit. I need a VERY strong Black man to go toe to toe with me whether it's in the bedroom or the boardroom to even have a healthy debate on current events while we are eating dinner. I seek MY equal! I'm very intense very passionate and very raw. I'm also very sensual and very sexual! I'm very hard to control and to handle, just ask my 2 ex-fiancés they tried to and they failed miserably! By the way the were both white lol! Does anybody have any advice or comments on this subject?! All is very much appreciated! Thanks!

newblkman22 01-08-2015 02:12 AM

I can't speak for everyone but I have always liked more aggressive and dominant women. I like a woman who can take charge and be the boss, speak her mind never been into submissive women.

mrfit53 01-08-2015 03:24 AM

Question!
 
Why do all white American women assume that all African American men want them?:confused:

jimbrowski 01-08-2015 09:15 AM

2 reasons from my own experience: thats how they're mainly portayed in porn movies; when I was younger I never seen any African, asian, or hispanic females in porn; they were far and few between, so every movie back then had the white woman in extremely submissive roles.
The other reason is how white men talk about white women. Working around white men and having them explain or share their sexual escapades was often times shocking; granted, I don't normally hang around white men so these are working relationships and in passing, and I know that it may be some "chest thumping" & banter or making themeselves seem like they're better than what they actually are, but I've never heard a white man in my age group speak positively about his wife, or the women he's fucking on the side, or even the girlfriend.
Now, in terms of a "dominant" woman; in the bedroom I dont personally care if a female's dominant, submissive, or neutral because my aim is to have fun. If we're just in a sex relationship a females character doesn't really matter, but if we're in a monogamous reletionship in hopes of getting married then a dominant woman outsise of the bedroom presents a problem for me, and any man I would think. Not because of fear, but because of added stress in an already stressfull life!
E.g., let's say I come home from work and find out that we have a financial situation in our household, and I have more experience with financial matters; so I make the suggestion to go one way based on experience, and you decide to go another way just to exercise your "dominance", it would be a VERY short relationship! I'm not going to waste time in my life with someone who opposes me on every front for no good reason, and just because she's dominant. Life is TOOOOOOOO short, and there's TOOOO many woman that I wouldn't have to put up with that to choose from.

Rodh 01-08-2015 04:17 PM

All black men do NOT assume that all white women are submissive!

Mr Real 01-08-2015 08:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BiBBWDivaGoddess (Post 70154)
Why do Black men assume that ALL white women are submissive?! I can't tell you how many Black men messaging me stating that they are Dominant and that they seek submissive women to obey them. Yeah ok whatever. Let me tell the group this Im a Domme/Mistress as I'm a VERY Dominant woman! I loathe going down on my knees and say: "Yes Master" "No Master". I only get on my knees to suck Black dick! I love sucking BBC! I can't tell you how many men ignore me and stop talking to me simply because I'm a Dominant take charge woman! They run away in fear! LMAO! Listen up little doggie keep your ass on the porch I need a Black man that can run with this woman! I won't submit nor will I ever submit. I need a VERY strong Black man to go toe to toe with me whether it's in the bedroom or the boardroom to even have a healthy debate on current events while we are eating dinner. I seek MY equal! I'm very intense very passionate and very raw. I'm also very sensual and very sexual! I'm very hard to control and to handle, just ask my 2 ex-fiancés they tried to and they failed miserably! By the way the were both white lol! Does anybody have any advice or comments on this subject?! All is very much appreciated! Thanks!

By the sounds of it you only submit sexually only, these men looking at it from purely a sexual point of view for you to submit. You have to understand that blackmen don't have the economic structure for you women to submit to and this is why the average blackman find it hard getting a submissive woman in terms of relationship and whitewomen don't really want to downgrade to a man who not got a economic structure, blackmen are sex objects....its reverse psychology going on and this is why blackmen and whitewomen relationships minus the sex talk is not always norishing from how i see it.

ThickNiggaDick 01-08-2015 11:08 PM

Man please!
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Mr Real (Post 70174)
By the sounds of it you only submit sexually only, these men looking at it from purely a sexual point of view for you to submit. You have to understand that blackmen don't have the economic structure for you women to submit to and this is why the average blackman find it hard getting a submissive woman in terms of relationship and whitewomen don't really want to downgrade to a man who not got a economic structure, blackmen are sex objects....its reverse psychology going on and this is why blackmen and whitewomen relationships minus the sex talk is not always norishing from how i see it.

Ooohhhh here we go with this old, tired, played out bullshit that's used to try to stop white women from crossing the color line for good [and too many of them (white women) use it themselves to justify their decisons about relationship (or /non-relationships) with black men] . . . you need the white man for economic support and the black man for sexual satisfaction :rolleyes: This is the 21st century. Get with it! The reason why some black people might believe all white women are passive is the same reason why some white people hold to the adage that you need the white man for the money and the black man for the "honey" . . . IGNORANCE :mad: Now, I'm here to set the record straight. All white women are not passive. What ALL white women are is passive-aggressive ! Now that's what they are hahahahahaha :D!!!

ciber_depravado 01-09-2015 12:48 AM

Mine is not submissive in everyday life (just the opposite). It's true that when we fuck she expects a more "aggresive" attitude from me and I make my role, but I'm more submissive than her.

I suppose that the idea of white women being submissive to black people is part of the legend, and for many people is what they want to believe...

jedislut2k 01-12-2015 04:08 AM

Not all Black Men are like but a large number are. I think its the fantasy of the submissive white woman that came out of the history of oppression in this country.

I prefer sex to be aggressive, but switching back on forth who is on top and the aggressor

florida hubby 01-12-2015 04:50 PM

To each his own I guess. I really enjoy being submissive to dominant men during sex. I will do whatever I'm told to do when I'm told to do it. Or don't say a word and just take whatever you want. Either way I will luv it...Becky

Mustang Alley 01-12-2015 08:37 PM

Not all but a couple try me with that BS
 



Over the years it's been very very few, I just shut them down real fast and to be honest most are more than happy to switch up from the position/role that they've always been cast in But for the most part guys come at me as an equal and then we see where it goes from there.

No way a sub!! I'm more of a~ I'm gonna devour you and you devour me type person. A trade of energy of sorts. Giving/caring~ Switching back and forth to who's energy is in control but never dipping down into that WORSHIP ME submissive area..

Hugs GF I hope it all works out for you. There has to be someone out there that can handle your ass. lol



ThickNiggaDick 01-12-2015 09:17 PM

Aggressive Sex
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Mustang Alley (Post 70276)



No way a sub!! I'm more of a~ I'm gonna devour you and you devour me type person. A trade of energy of sorts. Giving/caring~ Switching back and forth to who's energy is in control but never dipping down into that WORSHIP ME submissive area..



I like white women who know what they want and who can be a little aggressive about it like . . . like . . . like . . . like "fuck me motherfucker!!!" hahahaha :D

Mustang Alley 01-12-2015 09:26 PM

Yep that's me to the T.
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by ThickNiggaDick (Post 70279)
I like white women who know what they want and who can be a little aggressive about it like . . . like . . . like . . . like "fuck me motherfucker!!!" hahahaha :D




Yep. I said.... :D



ThickNiggaDick 01-12-2015 11:11 PM

I know you!
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Mustang Alley (Post 70280)



Yep. I said.... :D



I knew it wouldn't take you long to respond to that hehehehe :)

MilesNJ 01-12-2015 11:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by mrfit53 (Post 70156)
Why do all white American women assume that all African American men want them?:confused:

Because they do. Every brutha wants a piece of white pussy.

jimbrowski 01-13-2015 08:07 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by milesnj (Post 70285)
because they do. Every brutha wants a piece of white pussy.

llol…......

Mustang Alley 01-13-2015 08:48 AM

Like white on rice
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by ThickNiggaDick (Post 70283)
I knew it wouldn't take you long to respond to that hehehehe :)





Or In your case, long grain "brown" rice. ;)


Mustang Alley 01-13-2015 08:58 AM

LMAO @ "Every"
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by MilesNJ (Post 70285)
Because they do. Every brutha wants a piece of white pussy.




So not true. That's like saying every WW wants a blk man. Just isn't so. :rolleyes:


You're deep in fantasy land.


dirtygirl 01-13-2015 10:57 AM

Whaaaattt say it isnt so
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Mustang Alley (Post 70295)



So not true. That's like saying every WW wants a blk man. Just isn't so. :rolleyes:



Awwww and here i thought in order to get a blk man you gotta be begging, rolling over and playing dead - is that submissive enough 4 u lol

Tell me Sis that it isnt so or ill never score lol

Mr Real 01-15-2015 06:34 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mustang Alley (Post 70295)



So not true. That's like saying every WW wants a blk man. Just isn't so. :rolleyes:


You're deep in fantasy land.


That's very true

Mustang Alley 01-15-2015 09:36 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mr Real (Post 70341)
That's very true





Lol waitttt are you agreeing with me or disagreeing with me? :p don't make me come across this phone, bc I'll do it. :p


Mr Real 01-15-2015 02:11 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mustang Alley (Post 70347)




Lol waitttt are you agreeing with me or disagreeing with me? :p don't make me come across this phone, bc I'll do it. :p


Quickly hides under table* :p

Mustang Alley 01-16-2015 06:05 AM

*peek a boo, I see you.
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Mr Real (Post 70349)
Quickly hides under table* :p





Don't even try and hide from me. :mad: Besides I can see your backside sticking out the backside of the table. :D



BiBBWDivaGoddess 01-16-2015 07:38 AM

^^^^LMAO! My ass and my tits tend to stick out everywhere! It's no use in hiding them!^^^^:p

dirtygirl 01-16-2015 09:10 AM

Peek a boo
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Mustang Alley (Post 70368)




Don't even try and hide from me. :mad: Besides I can see your backside sticking out the backside of the table. :D



Are we playing hide n seek ?

Canadian Black Breeder 01-16-2015 10:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BiBBWDivaGoddess (Post 70371)
^^^^LMAO! My ass and my tits tend to stick out everywhere! It's no use in hiding them!^^^^:p


Mmmm hmmmm, and it looks so good sticking out everywhere

MilesNJ 01-18-2015 02:18 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mustang Alley (Post 70295)



So not true. That's like saying every WW wants a blk man. Just isn't so. :rolleyes:


You're deep in fantasy land.


No...you are. All through my life I've had that "white pussy" conversation (and I'm in my 60's now) with my friends, relatives, guys I served with in the military, guys I worked with and on and on. Heck...Louis Farrakhan may be the only one who doesn't but I don't know him personally..

jimbrowski 01-18-2015 10:10 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MilesNJ (Post 70410)
No...you are. All through my life I've had that "white pussy" conversation (and I'm in my 60's now) with my friends, relatives, guys I served with in the military, guys I worked with and on and on. Heck...Louis Farrakhan may be the only one who doesn't but I don't know him personally..

African men like PUSSY from any kind of female just like any other man period. I would estimate over 50% of my squad doesn't talk about sex with white women because in the neighborhood theres enough
beautiful and voluptuous women to have sex with. Of course you have those that specifically like lighter hue women, but they're in the ULTRA minority. Do I need to have sex with white women? No. If I couldn't have sex another white woman for the rest of my life would I be okay? Absofuckinglutely! This isn't about need or to fill a void it's about pleasure.

ThickNiggaDick 01-18-2015 02:50 PM

Here, Here!
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by jimbrowski (Post 70416)
If I couldn't have sex with another white woman for the rest of my life would I be okay? Absofuckinglutely!

I'm the same 100%! Latina make a black man forget aaalllll about a white woman hahaha :)! But to be honest and keep it real, I've fucked so many white women (including anal) that I've had time to get my fill of them. So, I can't blame the young bloods who still GOT to have it LOL! Now it's their turn ;)

drknockbootzz 01-18-2015 06:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BiBBWDivaGoddess (Post 70154)
Why do Black men assume that ALL white women are submissive?! I can't tell you how many Black men messaging me stating that they are Dominant and that they seek submissive women to obey them. Yeah ok whatever. Let me tell the group this Im a Domme/Mistress as I'm a VERY Dominant woman! I loathe going down on my knees and say: "Yes Master" "No Master". I only get on my knees to suck Black dick! I love sucking BBC! I can't tell you how many men ignore me and stop talking to me simply because I'm a Dominant take charge woman! They run away in fear! LMAO! Listen up little doggie keep your ass on the porch I need a Black man that can run with this woman! I won't submit nor will I ever submit. I need a VERY strong Black man to go toe to toe with me whether it's in the bedroom or the boardroom to even have a healthy debate on current events while we are eating dinner. I seek MY equal! I'm very intense very passionate and very raw. I'm also very sensual and very sexual! I'm very hard to control and to handle, just ask my 2 ex-fiancés they tried to and they failed miserably! By the way the were both white lol! Does anybody have any advice or comments on this subject?! All is very much appreciated! Thanks!

heres what I think.... I think you people watch too much interracial porn lol..... in reality I think at the core dominate men do want a submissive woman (not just black men lol).... people say out loud they want there 'equal' but always end up chasing there polar opposite (opposites attract??).... now "yes master" "no master" type stuff is the extreme and rarely happens in real life (only in pornos lol).......always going toe--to-toe with your significant other many times is not healthy for a relationship.........now here's the kicker.... a lot of dominate women want both the benefits of being in a 'traditional' relationship and being the dominate person in that relationship while still having that traditional 'monogamous' aspect lol (want your cake and eat it too) .....now What I think is you want is a man that can bring as much to the table as you do?? am I correct?? if so... go find that man... go love that man.....go make him a sandwich... and be happy lol ;)

cheers,

hornycumondown 01-19-2015 01:36 AM

Me
 
I can handle you, I'm the one for you. Hit me up, I'm in Philly

jimbrowski 01-19-2015 10:05 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by drknockbootzz (Post 70419)
heres what i think.... I think you people watch too much interracial porn lol..... In reality i think at the core dominate men do want a submissive woman (not just black men lol).... People say out loud they want there 'equal' but always end up chasing there polar opposite (opposites attract??).... Now "yes master" "no master" type stuff is the extreme and rarely happens in real life (only in pornos lol).......always going toe--to-toe with your significant other many times is not healthy for a relationship.........now here's the kicker.... A lot of dominate women want both the benefits of being in a 'traditional' relationship and being the dominate person in that relationship while still having that traditional 'monogamous' aspect lol (want your cake and eat it too) .....now what i think is you want is a man that can bring as much to the table as you do?? Am i correct?? If so... Go find that man... Go love that man.....go make him a sandwich... And be happy lol ;)

cheers,

good reply!

dirtygirl 01-19-2015 10:57 AM

shepard or sheep
 
It seems to me that if your a latina your the flavour and if your white then your not - isnt that racism ????

SMDH - Just get over this obsession with colour, size , race or whatever it is and look at the person for who they truly are - you might suprise yourself with what u find.

But wait thats breaking away from the herd - can u do it ?

ThickNiggaDick 01-19-2015 01:19 PM

Lead The Way
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by dirtygirl (Post 70433)
It seems to me that if your a latina your the flavour and if your white then your not - isnt that racism ????

SMDH - Just get over this obsession with colour, size , race or whatever it is and look at the person for who they truly are - you might suprise yourself with what u find.

But wait thats breaking away from the herd - can u do it ?

OK, so you lead the way then "Miss Sheep Herder" by closing down your account on this site that's devoted to INTERRACIAL SEX and never posting here again . . . if you're not into thinking about "colour, race, or whatever" when it comes to sex, then why are you even here :o? Because surprise, surprise that's what INTERRACIAL SEX (which you seem to like) is all about :rolleyes: It's not the only thing, but "colour, race, or whatever" is an integral part of INTERRACIAL SEX ;) Some believe a big dick is too, but that's a whole other discussion for a different thread. So I pose your own question back to you. Can YOU do it :cool:??? Or, is it do as I say and not as I do? And by the way, no it's not "racism". It's a very intimate and personal choice is what it is. You can go so far as to call it prejudice, but prejudice and racism aren't exactly the same thing.

If somebody prefers to have sex with a Latina over you a white female, then yes that is in part a race-based decision. But, that has no negative unlawful or immoral consequence upon you economically, physically, emotionally etc. because of your race. Other than maybe your feelings might get a little hurt. Consenting adults are rightfully free to fuck whoever they want to. That's a very personal decision. And if they choose one race over another and you're not of that race, then unless you commit a crime you won't be fucking that person LOL! In order for it to be classified as "racism", it would have to have some unacceptable, damaging impact upon you just because you're white. Just like a white woman refusing to sleep with me because I'm black isn't racism, so too is a man choosing to sleep with a Latina (or whoever) instead of you a white woman not indicative of racism. It may be prejudiced, and we may not like it. But, it doesn't rise to the level of racism. In order for it to be classified as "racism", there has to be far more harm done than just somebody's feelings getting hurt over somebody else's very personal choice about who they want to sleep with.

By calling this "racism", it seems to me that you're doing exactly what I've seen you accuse some black people of doing! Somebody of a different color makes a decision that you don't like, and then automatically you start out by alleging racism?! Even if it's something as personal as who you choose to sleep with??? So, let me get this straight. It's racism if you think it may have some undesirable outcome for you (black man choosing Latinas over white women), but if it's some outcome that a black person doesn't like (regarding whatever) and they allege racism because it was somebody of another race who contributed to said outcome, well then they should just "quit their bitching" because you've been discriminated against too, so stop calling everything racism??? LOLOLOL!!! You can't have it both ways.

newblkman22 01-19-2015 05:19 PM

Not to stray off topic but I am attracted to a woman because of her personality, not her skin colour or how big her assets are.

ThickNiggaDick 01-19-2015 05:46 PM

She's Got Personality!
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by newblkman22 (Post 70438)
Not to stray off topic but I am attracted to a woman because of her personality, not her skin colour or how big her assets are.

Well, that should be a given right? After all, we're dealing with human emotions and feeling here. But people obviously do take race and color into consideration too when it comes to sex and mating right? Hence, I Love INTERRACIAL.com. Hahaha :)! I mean, it's not I Love PERSONALITY.com! LOLOLOL :D!!! You're on an interracial sex site dude! So don't try tell me that you don't care about skin color! You do, and you're here because you want some white pussy (and maybe some other "colors" too)! That's why you're here!

I'm not saying it's wrong. Go for what you like. I want some multiple colors of pussy too! I'm just saying keep it real! If you didn't care about color, you wouldn't be here posting on this site! You're obviously smart and mature enough to not be like some of these dumb, lust-filled brothas who will go for anything white because then they think they "got something". But, you are here because you're attracted to other races. And that means that color means something to you (as it does to me)! And how can it not given the realities of the world that we live in??? Again, I'm not saying it's wrong. I'm just saying keep it real! Yeah, you want her to have a nice personality . . . but you want that red hair, that white skin, and them freckles too ;)

newblkman22 01-19-2015 05:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ThickNiggaDick (Post 70439)
Well, that should be a given right? After all, we're dealing with human emotions and feeling here. But people obviously do take race and color into consideration too when it comes to sex and mating right? Hence, I Love INTERRACIAL.com. Hahaha :)! I mean, it's not I Love PERSONALITY.com! LOLOLOL :D!!! You're on an interracial sex site dude! So don't try tell me that you don't care about skin color! You do, and you're here because you want some white pussy (and maybe some other "colors" too)! That's why you're here!

I'm not saying it's wrong. Go for what you like. I want some multiple colors of pussy too! I'm just saying keep it real! If you didn't care about color, you wouldn't be here posting on this site! You're obviously smart and mature enough to not be like some of these dumb, lust-filled brothas who will go for anything white because then they think they "got something". But, you are here because you're attracted to other races. And that means that color means something to you (as it does to me)! And how can it not given the realities of the world that we live in??? Again, I'm not saying it's wrong. I'm just saying keep it real! Yeah, you want her to have a nice personality . . . but you want that red hair, that white skin, and them freckles too ;)

Good point, not going to lie I am attracted to white women just like I am other women, i was just saying for me it isn't just about skin colour I mean beauty is beauty but if I don't like the personality then there isn't a connection. And yes I do want that red hair, white skin and freckles lol.

ThickNiggaDick 01-19-2015 06:22 PM

OMG Funny!
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by newblkman22 (Post 70440)
Good point, not going to lie I am attracted to white women just like I am other women, i was just saying for me it isn't just about skin colour I mean beauty is beauty but if I don't like the personality then there isn't a connection. And yes I do want that red hair, white skin and freckles lol.

HAHAHAHAHAHA :D! LMFBAO!!!! You just made my day with that post! That's right, don't fight it brotha, don't fight it! We gots to acknowledge the word to get ahead in life hahaha! I want it too dawg! I WANT it :p! Thanks for keeping it real though and not trying to "snow" another brotha. You see, I have been a black male for all my life LOLOLOL! And the one thing I understand well is the black American male psyche. I won't say the black American female (even though I do understand a lot about them too). But I know what motivates the black American male. I know how he thinks ! Because . . . I am him :) So, no black man can come up in here in a place like this and tell me that he only cares about "personality". Riiiiiiiiiiight :rolleyes: No! He wants that blonde hair and them blue eyes and that plump, round, milk white boo boo (_I_) LOLOLOL!!! Now, he can be like me and "jimbrowski" who have banged so many white chicks that if we didn't have another one we wouldn't care. But even then, what's wrong with a 'lil taste every now and then hahahaha?! But serious though, I appreciate and respect what you're saying. I'm the same way. If I don't like her personality, then she can gets ta steppin'! And I don't care what race or color she is, or how fine she is either. My boy say he want that white woman LOLOLOL!!!!

julie0778 01-19-2015 09:55 PM

Submission
 
The very sex act is really an act of submission from a woman's perspective. The man thrusts at his pace and you LET him. Personally, I find that part of sex very sexy and I know that I'm giving up control that way, but that's just how are bodies are made.

Giving up control to a black man adds a special twist. Even if you take precautions, there's always the risk that you are making a black baby with him and leaving that up to him.

ThickNiggaDick 01-19-2015 11:25 PM

Sometimes
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by julie0778 (Post 70446)
The very sex act is really an act of submission from a woman's perspective. The man thrusts at his pace and you LET him. Personally, I find that part of sex very sexy and I know that I'm giving up control that way, but that's just how are bodies are made.

Sometimes I like it when a woman actively hunches her butt up off of the bed when I'm on top of her thrusting down. Especially when I nut, and then she hunches that butt up off he bed to make sure she catches all of that cum!


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