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[BruceWayne7988]

Originally Posted by jimbrowski

There's ALMOST nothing better than the female anatomy but I find as I'm getting older my tolerances for the bullshit are lowering. Ive been through some dumb stuff over the last 2 years that has left me confused.
Since I can't seem to find a compatible mate I have different females for different aspects. I guess the problem is I keep adding more females to fray, so to speak, but they keep turning out to be disappointing mentally; then I have to find someone else; its almost like what's the point. Now its getting less adventurous and more like a 9-5.
Do you guys keep your circle small and filter out or do you keep adding until it becomes overwhelming?

I understand completely, as I've found myself in this same situation. It's not exactly work just yet for me, but coming out of crappy relationships the past couple yrs has left me exausted emotionally, and I end up with several "friends" before I know it. And most I'm not fucking, half are long distance but the understanding is quite clear: when we get together we're tearing each other and the bedroom apart lol. But I am the type guy who has a genuine heart and doesn't like hurting anyone especially women who obviously has an attachment of some sort to me even if its just physical, so if several see a post or a convo of me and one of my friends on another social site, the like posts pile up, but the phone gets very silent smh. Ive learned it doesn't matter how small or large the circle is, be up front as possible with them because they will catch feelings and it will turn into work. Its helped me out soo much letting them know my intentions.