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im fine... (hubby) but she can do whatever....

she always has had me in the room, but I'm 100% open to doing whatever.. not sure how I would feel about her meeting someone by herself at a hotel or something .. from a safety point of view, not a jealousy thing. But I'm happy to leave the room or drop her off and wait in the lobby / bar .. whatever. So far, she has always preferred I be in the room - so far we have playing 99% of the time in our own home - very few times have we gone to a hotel and so far never to his place. I actually asked her to try it once to see if it made her more comfortable.. I can certainly understand how that could be a thing.

I prefer the first few meeting to be without cucky there. That way I can get to know my new man without the distraction of hubby looking and both of us having the feeling that we need to 'perform'.
After we are comfortable then hubby can watch. Because we have a family that isn't always possible anyway and I guess cucky only gets to see about a quarter of the time.
With the men I've been seeing for a long time, the dates are often without hubby and I do stay over night reasonably regularly which means that hubby has to be at home.
Always send texts and sometimes pics and on occasion I've phoned cucky while I've been with a lover.

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Originally Posted by Funinvegas9999 (Post 77576)

What a very common-sense post from Fun...9999. I can certainly agree from the safety standpoint, which is one of the strongest considerations any white couple should factor in when they're trying to consummate the wife's natural urges for black cock.

The biggest impediment to a successful blacking is finding the suitable bull...and one you both can trust. However, once you do,,,the wife (as well as her understanding hubby) can be free to enjoy the thrills she so much deserves, and for which she's been so long denied.

Alone is same room

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Originally Posted by aleciaj37 (Post 77563)

My husband wanted me to fulfill his fantasy of being with a black man but I refused, at first, because I thought it was just to justify him going with other women, but I realised that was not it.. Eventually I did and my eyes were opened and now I cannot stop, and don't want to. I know my husband wants to watch but I cannot let myself go when he is in the room, so I am going with black men alone and I tell him he started this and I am not stopping, so I do let him watch if I go with the first guy he set me up with, but I have moved on from him and find that I get SO turned on by really black guys. I sometimes orgasm before he penetrates me. My husband never ever made me orgasm. I have had different guys since we started and never had one that did not leave me sore and satisfied. I am 38 and horny all the time now. I think about it constantly. Alecia

Although I'm not married any more, I'm like you Alicia. I'd never be able to let myself go if I knew anyone was watching. I'm just not the exhibitionist type of person. I have been watched before but that's only happened a few times when our other friends an us couldn't get separate rooms and had to share a hotel room. One time when I didn't know they were actually watching, she later commented on how sexy I was while my black boyfriend and I was getting it on and she especially noticed the number of orgasms she thought I had. I was somewhat embarrassed when she told me this but after we talked about it, I felt more comfortable about it and told her I was going to get even with her and watch her next time, in which it was exciting for my black boyfriend and I to play the voyeur part. Other than her and her black boyfriend, they are the only ones who have ever watched us and sometimes lead us into swapping partners,.. which is a totally different story..

My husband used to like to watch and take pics and videos. Now he doesn't participate at all and there are times he's not even in the same state let alone the same room....Becky

Not bashful any more

When we were first married I wasn't wild about having the lights on during sex. But that ended while I was pregnant with our second child because I was so horny I slipped into our family room one night and suprised him and took out his cock and started sucking him off. But the suprise was on me because four of his buddy's were sitting in the room. I know my face was red but I could they all had hardons . So from that time on I've not been bashful about who's in the room and how many people are watching.

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Originally Posted by Username1974 (Post 76554)

I have a question for the ladies. We've had a few experiences and they have been great. But I can't help but wonder if she may enjoy it more if I wasn't in the room? I'll talk to her about it too but wanted to ask other women? So please let me know what you think.

my husband knows nothing about it

Bc I want to see if the wife knows about it. :rolleyes:

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Originally Posted by _beauty_pageant_mom (Post 79486)

my husband knows nothing about it

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Originally Posted by Username1974 (Post 76554)

I say stay in the room. The whole focus is on her and in order to convey with words that can only be moaned and groaned-screamed or weaned-it is done in front of the husband-the cuchold. The black man must take her in front of him-that starts the decentralization process in him-then when she is ravaged and given back with a pussy that he knows truly does not belong to him anymore-the final string is cut which once belonged to the white man-it is also very symbolic in many different ways.