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AeroSei 11-26-2016 02:11 AM
Black men who are switches or submissive...
 
I'm curious to know if there are other black males on this site besides myself who are either a switch or submissive and how do you deal with it being in the IR lifestyle? I would love any comments from Dominant females as well.

For those of you who do not know what a switch is, a switch is someone who is both dominant and submissive depending on their personality, mood or the people they are around.

I'm a switch and proud of it. I love being dominant and the aggressor much as any other guy when it comes to sex but personally giving up control is what gets me off. I love being controlled, tied up, blindfolded, the works. Usually when it comes to the IR lifestyle though most women want the dominant guy instead of a partly dominant one which makes it hard to deal with being a switch sometimes.

Mustang Alley 11-28-2016 07:43 AM
Oh Aero
 




You're not alone. I've come across a few in my time.... okay prob more like helped develop a few. 😈 They loved it once they had those experiences, maybe baby steps at first but mama knows what she's after. 😈



newblkman22 11-28-2016 12:31 PM
I have always liked aggressive and more dominant women but I have never actually got the chance to be submissive though, but it feels like something I would like.

ThickNiggaDick 11-28-2016 03:59 PM
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Originally Posted by newblkman22 (Post 79456)
I have always liked aggressive and more dominant women but I have never actually got the chance to be submissive though, but it feels like something I would like.
HAAAAAAAAA newblkman STILL got the hots for that Miss Alley puzzie LOL :D!!!

Mustang Alley 11-28-2016 06:48 PM
Tnd!!!!
 
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Originally Posted by ThickNiggaDick (Post 79458)
HAAAAAAAAA newblkman STILL got the hots for that Miss Alley puzzie LOL :D!!!






Lol you being a meanie? Lol damn you have a great memory!! Not saying that what you said is correct just that you have a great memory. :p





ThickNiggaDick 11-29-2016 06:04 AM
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Originally Posted by Mustang Alley (Post 79462)





Lol you being a meanie? Lol damn you have a great memory!! Not saying that what you said is correct just that you have a great memory. :p




Yeah, well it ain't as good as it used to be. That's for damn sure! What were we talkin' about again :(?

AeroSei 11-29-2016 07:26 PM
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Originally Posted by Mustang Alley (Post 79452)




You're not alone. I've come across a few in my time.... okay prob more like helped develop a few. 😈 They loved it once they had those experiences, maybe baby steps at first but mama knows what she's after. 😈


Those poor guys haha. I hope you didn't bruise them too bad 😂.

Most guys usually end up enjoying themselves once they learn to let go of being in control but for me it just comes naturally with the right partner.

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ThickNiggaDick 11-30-2016 03:48 PM
Bite me!
 
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Originally Posted by AeroSei (Post 79469)
Most guys usually end up enjoying themselves once they learn to let go of being in control.
On one of the rare occasions when I did "let go", I enjoyed it. I was with somebody who liked to bite! She liked to bite my tits . . . it hurt . . . but it hurt so good! I liked it, but had never thought I would like something like that. So, I get where you're coming from on this.

Mustang Alley 12-01-2016 02:26 AM
Tnd!!!
 



I totally love that you shared that. 😊💕

ThickNiggaDick 12-01-2016 06:43 AM
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Originally Posted by Mustang Alley (Post 79491)



I totally love that you shared that. 😊💕
Wanna bite :)???

Mustang Alley 12-01-2016 08:32 AM
lol
 




I actually giggled. (And I never giggle BLOODY HELL) You caught me off guard. Lol. I'll bite you *crunch.




mikey100tv 12-05-2016 11:44 PM
In all honesty, I would guess there probably just as many guys in the black community who are 'switches' as there are in the white one. It's my belief, however, that, due to the 'stereotypical' image that society has of black guys in general (which many wish to perpetuate), it's something that they tend to keep a tighter 'lid' on.

Of course, any man who is comfortable with his sexuality doesn't generally feel the need to broadcast it.....and is, moreover, happy to discuss it, should the situation arise. I could, of course, be wrong.....but I don't think I'm SO far out.


Gina. xxxx Mwah!

goku714 03-18-2017 10:57 AM
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Originally Posted by Mustang Alley (Post 79452)




You're not alone. I've come across a few in my time.... okay prob more like helped develop a few. 😈 They loved it once they had those experiences, maybe baby steps at first but mama knows what she's after. 😈



Mmmmmm I love that kinky side of you mustang ;)

DatQuietGuy 03-20-2017 06:27 PM
I honestly didnt think it was a big deal to be a guy who lets the woman take control. I guess im in the category too. I've had sessions before I met a ex co worker at a hotel and she took control riding my face and grabbing at my head while I ate her out and it was totally a cool experience we tried a few more times until she started getting jealous that I was asking about another co worker and she cut me off lol


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