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[AeroSei]

I'm curious to know if there are other black males on this site besides myself who are either a switch or submissive and how do you deal with it being in the IR lifestyle? I would love any comments from Dominant females as well.

For those of you who do not know what a switch is, a switch is someone who is both dominant and submissive depending on their personality, mood or the people they are around.

I'm a switch and proud of it. I love being dominant and the aggressor much as any other guy when it comes to sex but personally giving up control is what gets me off. I love being controlled, tied up, blindfolded, the works. Usually when it comes to the IR lifestyle though most women want the dominant guy instead of a partly dominant one which makes it hard to deal with being a switch sometimes.

[Mustang Alley]

You're not alone. I've come across a few in my time.... okay prob more like helped develop a few. 😈 They loved it once they had those experiences, maybe baby steps at first but mama knows what she's after. 😈

[newblkman22]

I have always liked aggressive and more dominant women but I have never actually got the chance to be submissive though, but it feels like something I would like.

[ThickNiggaDick]

Originally Posted by newblkman22

I have always liked aggressive and more dominant women but I have never actually got the chance to be submissive though, but it feels like something I would like.

HAAAAAAAAA newblkman STILL got the hots for that Miss Alley puzzie LOL !!!

[Mustang Alley]

Originally Posted by ThickNiggaDick

HAAAAAAAAA newblkman STILL got the hots for that Miss Alley puzzie LOL !!!

Lol you being a meanie? Lol damn you have a great memory!! Not saying that what you said is correct just that you have a great memory.

[ThickNiggaDick]

Originally Posted by Mustang Alley

Lol you being a meanie? Lol damn you have a great memory!! Not saying that what you said is correct just that you have a great memory.

Yeah, well it ain't as good as it used to be. That's for damn sure! What were we talkin' about again ?

[AeroSei]

Originally Posted by Mustang Alley

You're not alone. I've come across a few in my time.... okay prob more like helped develop a few. 😈 They loved it once they had those experiences, maybe baby steps at first but mama knows what she's after. 😈

Those poor guys haha. I hope you didn't bruise them too bad 😂.

Most guys usually end up enjoying themselves once they learn to let go of being in control but for me it just comes naturally with the right partner.

[nealsharesall]

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[ThickNiggaDick]

Originally Posted by AeroSei

Most guys usually end up enjoying themselves once they learn to let go of being in control.

On one of the rare occasions when I did "let go", I enjoyed it. I was with somebody who liked to bite! She liked to bite my tits . . . it hurt . . . but it hurt so good! I liked it, but had never thought I would like something like that. So, I get where you're coming from on this.

[Mustang Alley]

I totally love that you shared that. 😊💕