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[AeroSei]

I'm curious to know if there are other black males on this site besides myself who are either a switch or submissive and how do you deal with it being in the IR lifestyle? I would love any comments from Dominant females as well.

For those of you who do not know what a switch is, a switch is someone who is both dominant and submissive depending on their personality, mood or the people they are around.

I'm a switch and proud of it. I love being dominant and the aggressor much as any other guy when it comes to sex but personally giving up control is what gets me off. I love being controlled, tied up, blindfolded, the works. Usually when it comes to the IR lifestyle though most women want the dominant guy instead of a partly dominant one which makes it hard to deal with being a switch sometimes.