Related
 

And just a related question I had which I actually asked many white women several years ago . . . do you respect your husbands/boyfriends for letting you fuck other men right in front of their faces?

The answers were interesting and contradictory. On a general level, the answer tended to be that they did not respect a man who would let other men fuck his girl, and sit there and watch it and jack off to it at that LOL!

But then, these same women would turn right around in the next breath and say that they did respect their husbands though. When I would point out there was some faulty logic in that, well then they would say stuff like, "Yeah but my husband is a good man. He takes care of me and the kids, etc,, etc."

So go figure :confused: Who ever said people were always logical. We're talking human beings here, and not Vulcans.

Yeah, I don't think any SANE women would respect a man that wants another man to penetrate his wife; then to use the lunatic response of "he takes care of me" is absolutely weak.

A question right back to you. What made you ask yourself that question more and more?

Love and respect
 

How many years have you known me now and you know where my head and heart is!! So, I think you already know the answer to this question ;)

Cmon, you havent seen "get out" yet. LOL. I liked it.
The reason I asked the question is because for the most part I have sex for recreational purposes, plus the majority of the women I have sex with are married and are cheating on their husbands. So it's not a lot of respect and care beyond the sex for me. They'll come in complaining about what their husband is doing or isnt doing and whlile they're talking I'm taking their clothes off and caressing and kissing their body and when they're finished venting and complaining I'll say something like "damn, thats fucked up" or "that's what you have to go through everyday" or "baby I'm sorry you have to go through that" or "I wish there was something I could do"- now come put my dick in your mouth and let me bend you over. Thats about the extent of it.

To me it's all about the sexual satisfaction - love doesn't feature at all. 😛

I have had several black boyfriends in the past that I did care about but for the most part it has been about getting the dick. I luv to have fun and what's more fun than sex. And I luv to gangbang. I'm there to get what I want and the guys banging me get what they want. Simple and straightforward. Becky

Becky, I love how you cut thru the bull shit, lol.

I just luv to fuck and it just so happens that I prefer black men over any other race. To me they are just better luvers. And fucking black men is so much more erotic and exciting. Becky:p

Yeah, keepin' it simple is best. But, I want to point out that we have more choices than just two . . . love or no feelings at all . . . there's all that space in between. Meaning, that it's quite possible to just want the pussy or the dick, but still like the person too! As a matter of fact, that should be preferable. Who wants to be fuckin' somebody who you don't like? People often tend to think and pose questions in the extreme with only stark choices to be had. So, just remember that there's all that space in the middle between love and no feelings at all that you might/probably should want to occupy some of if you're having sex with somebody, especially if on a repeated and frequent basis.

Transformation
 

What I have witnessed in my experiences with my wife, and other women, many times there has been a transformation. My wife always insisted she was not attracted to Black men. But, when she had her first experience with a Black man, with me watching, I could see her change. She became very turned on and sucked his thick black cock like a wild animal. When he fucked her she came almost instantly, and they way she talked to him after ward was different. I think she had some racist opinions prior to this. Another married white woman, who is a friend and customer of mine and very attractive, is very racist and redneck. She always insisted she was only attracted to white men, and would never fuck a black man. Well, I kept asking her to do it. I had a Black friend who saw her picture and was chomping at the bit to have her. She is very petite and cute. She finally agreed to just give him a handjob, in front of me. We all three got together, and sipped a couple beers, and I could see her transforming. After a bit, I looked at her and said, "are you ready?" She said she was and we all went into the bathroom so she could jack him off over the toilet. My Black friend immediately took off his sweat pants, and was wearing no underwear. He has a very big cock, over 8 inches and very fat just below the head. I had told her he wanted her to be naked, so as soon as we closed the door she stood in front of him and put her hand on his cock. She looked up at him, kind of staring. He bent down and the y started kissing while she started stroking his cock. They kissed long and deep for awhile, then she just dropped to her knees and started sucking him off. She took as much of his cock as she could, furiously pumping her mouth up and down for several minutes until he emptied his balls down her throat. There was no doubt I witnessed another transformation take place. She has since been hesitant to do it again, but I am sure she will. So my point is I think that many women who may not think they like Black men will change once they experience there primal sexual powers.

The $64,000 (Rhetorical) Question
 

Black men! My bruthas . . . should we respect ourselves . . . for fuckin' these white women in front of their husbands and boyfriends :eek:??? Yeah, I'm goin' there . . . just askin' . . . no need to answer :)

Now, I'm sure there's some ignorant racist out there saying I'm not black because I used the word "rhetorical" in my title. No black man uses words like that! I actually had some ignorant white chick who called herself educated say something to me like that once during an introductory telephone call. I was a "fake" because I used a word black men don't use . . . and there she was bragging about her "education" :rolleyes: Sorry for the tangent . . . just in a "mood" :D

Thats the other thing that I was thinking. I don't personally care if a woman, of any race, respects me or not. I have respect for myself and that's all that matters.

I think the best way to earn a wife's respect is to break her in
Fuck her harder than she's ever had before. Or eat her pussy then pound her till she comes.

I don't really feel I need her to respect me as much as respect my sexual prowess.

I admire ladies for not being too terrified to try this lifestyle. Their fearlessness interests me. Many ladies these days are boring.. and sex with them is also boring. It's nice to have a lover who wants you there.

They just need us for sex... that's fine with me. As long as they don't kids me off and their husband stays out of the way.. I'm fine by that.

I'll be honest with you. I'm just in it for the dick. And black men are just in it for the sex. Why else would they fuck a transvestite like me?

I date black guys for sex nothing more husband likes that I do makes us both happy...

Variety of things
 

Over the years my wife enjoyed being fucked by some men strictly because she wanted fucked. Some of the men she truly enjoyed their company and would "date" them like she was a single mom on the prowl. A few wanted her to move in with them and there was Haywood that lived with us and I know that she truly "loved" him. Willie her first dated and fucked her for about 6 months before he moved away and he wanted her to leave with him. So my point is that some of the men she truly cared for and some were because she wanted some hot, black cock at the moment and she had some married, white pussy available if they wanted some. GTTR

I've been a whore ever since my 8th grade English teacher seduced me. Then when I met my present husband many years ago he introduced me to the swinging lifestyle I was in whore heaven. When he set me up with my first black luver I went black cock crazy. He was ok with me getting all the black dick I wanted. He even went along and took photos and videos of many of my sexual activities with black men. Then all of the sudden he gets religion and decides that WE are through with the lifestyle. NOT! As long as black men want it I'm going to give it to them.... Becky:p

OF COURSE I do respect black men!

- Lisa

I can not agree more. Once you go black you will allways want it so what's all this getting "holy" suddenly. I love black cock and will allways be available.

Great Question
 

I am one of those husbands who enjoyed sharing the wife. Weird or not we were together 12 years. She had over 100 cocks, her fav was the BBC. And yes she did care. It was not anyone's
fault or idea. Anyone who dosent care after having sex is strange to me. It starts with sex, but if it dosent turn into making love, your not doing it right.

nice and to the point!

i admire you for the way you give a look at us
 

And of course the way you do us!