I've never fucked in front of someone's hubby (don’t know that I’ve ever fucked someone’s wife truth be told). I'm not really an exhibitionist and I'm not sure I ever will be. Maybe if he's hidden/sneaking watching us, that might be exciting. I think 1 on 1 is better because you're 100% free to do whatever you want and really enjoy it to the fullest. Let loose! I can imagine that in some cases hubby might have "rules". Maybe no kissing or maybe it's wear a condom or maybe he doesn't want you sucking the guy's dick, etc. Or if you're looking like you're in ecstasy he may get jealous. Screw that, if you're going to do it, do it 100%.You're the one doing it, it's your fantasy. Take a MA pill, stick your tongue down his throat, wrap your lips around that thing. If that's what you want to do. Enjoy the entire experience. If you want to be this uninhibited then hubby can't be there. But that's just my opinion lol

Action!
 

I was with a couple one time a long time ago, and the husband was like he was directing a damn porno flick. Fuck that :mad:!!! Then with another where the husband only liked to sneak and peek, but not actually be right in the room looking. Over all those years, I met only a few (less than a handful) one-on-one. Was surprised when they did it because I could have been an axe murderer or something. But of course . . . I'm not . . . I just "murdered" that white pussy is what ;)

Lol yeah you’re definitely gonna want to be sure of who you’re meeting

See, I think thats a cop out and on some levels racist too-the whole "I need to be there for her security"-GTFOH! What happens when a man meets a women and they go out an then they fuck or not? There's no SECURITY. I know that rape isn't about beauty but I know you've seen some of these dudes wives-nobody wants to rape them at all.

I don't know man . . . there are a lot of mean and/or mentally disturbed people in this world doing a lot of cruel things . . . I don't think that a focus on security is a "racist cop out" at all. You have to take care to know who you're dealing with. And that goes for all the parties involved.

I remember reading about a story years ago where this guy got together with a couple he really didn't know very well at all for a threesome. They ended up slicing his penis into halves like a frankfurter! I also recall the time when I met this couple for the first time at the designated spot. Walked over to their car where they were sitting in the front. They asked me if I wanted to sit in the back while we talked. I declined stating that I preferred to remain standing outside. I didn't know those people! Wasn't about to get in their car! They seemed a little put off at first. Well, I ended up fuckin' the cute 'lil blonde wifey bareback back at my place later that night (nutted in her too) . . . but that's another story ;)!

Then there was the time I went to meet this white chick, again in the parking lot of a designated place. I get there and see a black guy sittin' in the car with her . . . now who the hell is this! She get's out of her car and walks over to mine and explains that the guy is supposed to be her "brother" . . . what the hell :confused: She asks if I want to follow them back to her place? I'd already made up my mind quickly HELL NO, but I said yes just to start the process of getting rid of them. So, we set off with me following . . . until I make a quick right turn and head back to my place across town LOLOL! I get back and find that she's left a nasty message on my phone cussing me out and calling me a this, that, and the other HAHAHA :p! But, I didn't give a got damn! I'm not stupid. Both "size" and SECURITY . . . including MY OWN . . . matter LOLOLOL :D!!!

Hmm 8-4 so far with “hubby watching” in the lead. I am somewhat surprised...

I'm not . . . fits right in with the reality that I know . . . I would be surprised if it were the other way around! By the way, as of this writing it's 9-4 in favor of hubby watching.

OK I'll admit something. I originally joined here because I wanted to find a white girl or some white girls that liked black guys. The one's that like to fuck long and often. Maybe we get serious, maybe we don't. Looking at all the pics and names and stories I thought to myself "jackpot, there's some freaks on here." Lol, seriously though. I pictured this huge group of white girls and black guys who all intermingled and it would be easy because we are all here for the same thing. Now after being here for years I see the different "tasks" that are expected of the black guy and it's not exactly what I thought I was getting into. I've chatted up a few people, only couples and I've always chickened out half-way through the "getting to know" process. It's weird for me. I just wanted to have good sex with a white woman.

I Believe this is one of the reasons why Odide wrote his post. As stated before I've never done the "cuck" thing and I do find it a little weird lol. I don't really know the motivation behind a couple wanting it. I kinda think the wife just wants some black dick and is getting it however she can but hubby, idk. It very well could be just as Odide pointed out. I mean, what is the motivation for a hubby to let a black guy fuck his wife, video it and "brag" about how much she came, or how big the load was from the guy etc. as if it's something he did himself? . I'm all for being someone's boy toy (well, man toy) used only for sex, but if I ever thought or found out that the real feeling for the woman/couple was one of ownership and not special friend, boy friend or the like I'd be embarrassed and angry and probably would end the friendship. This also makes me wonder what's the protocol to make sure I/we are comfortable with the couple? The "choosing" process seems to be traditional as far as the woman or more often these days the side with the woman (the couple) does the "screening" and wants to feel comfortable but what about the guy you want to put on display?

Strange as it may sound some women prefer to be blindfolded or wear masks so they can overcome this shyness.

Feel free to try sex with your husband while "hidden in such a manner. Who knows it might make you feel less inhibited and wild.

One wife I know feels her mask and her lingerie are like a superhero costume. It turns her from being an everyday mom into a hot little fuck machine that is a legendary lover. While she's wearing her sex costume she's invincible.

For some women heels do the same thing... go figure!

I hope this helps. You should enjoy sex.. make it fun.

The Lifestyle and The Why
 

Well, as you discovered. This kind of lifestyle is not for meeting white women for one-on-one sexual encounters. Many newcomers to the scene make the same mistaken assumption to the contrary. Virtually all of the women involved in it come attached to a man. I did some thinking back, and I may be missing somebody, but I can recall only one white woman I ever met through the lifestyle who was completely single and not attached to another man in some way. She was a marine, so maybe that had something to do with her "bravado". And BOY did she get wet LOLOLOL!!!

But staying serious though, and to focus on the cuck lifestyle and why people do it. There was a white guy on another site I used to frequent who I thought put it the absolute best. He said that typically, the person in the room who's being the most honest about why he's there is the black guy. He wants to get that "off limits" white pussy. It's the white people who aren't being totally honest. Now, I have my own strong beliefs about why the white people are in the room, and I've expressed those beliefs before right here on this very site. But, rather than going there again and speaking for white folk, this time I'm going to leave it right here.