Wife gets a lot of compliments from black men
 

This has been going on for years. She gets compliments from black men at work, at social gatherings, restaurants, bars, even malls. This happens a lot when she is at work. She gets asked out for drinks or dinner etc. She doesn't hide this from me. Or maybe she does hide parts of what all happens. I don't know. The compliments come even if I am around. Always polite, never anything rude. So what triggers this? Why not other men? Any one else experience this?

Your wife is into us and when you and her are out walking together she sends out that message loud and clear. And so we hit on her and she likes it. Who knows as we're complimenting her telling how hot she is she's slipping us her number seen it. happen. And you 're right she's not telling you everything she's probably running into guys she's already fucked.

yup
 

agree with ironmike she's done black and likes it probly still doin black when a white girl likes black the black man somehow picks up on it i get compliments from black men all the time even when i'm with hubby but then i serve a black Dom and been doin black since i was 16 i love bbc and they somehow just know that i do and react to me i love it

I see your point. But it cant be magic right? So what is it? Its been happening for over 15 years. By the way we have both seen others and to the best of my knowledge she has only seen other white men. No secrets there. So why hide anything with black men? I have no issues one way or another. I meet all kinds of women myself. But I am fascinated by the the way she attracts black men and wonder what is that attraction or signal. Something she does , says, wears?

Interesting!! I am so curious about this. See my reply to ironmike.

Same with my wife
 

I always tell her she should give them her number. Goes the same with her too, she will see a good looking black man and tell me "there is my fantasy man."

I suggest you recommend to her to go for it.

I have jokingly told her. Only reason I have not said so seriously is because she hasn't shown the kind of interest she sometimes shows for some men. Its a confusing situation. Sure we have talked about similar situations but she is reserved on this one subject.

The signal or attraction is how she looks at us. You don't notice because you're standing next to her or you're not looking . Way she smiles . Where her eyes go to when she is looking at us.

Why doesn't she tell you ? Maybe she wants it to be a secret . Maybe she doesn't want to explain to you why she likes us so much. But trust me she has been with black men and will continue to be . When was the last time you know she was with a white guy

Last white guy I know of was about a year ago. Pre covid times. Just yesterday we decided to take advantage of the a warmer day and went for a run on the beach. I run faster and so when I turn around I see her nowhere and maybe 20 minutes later see her talking to a black guy. Not someone we know as we are visiting here on vacation. She was all smiles about "he was a nice guy telling her about all the good restaurants in the area etc". Just another example...

He is going to or maybe already has fucked her. You should let her go out on her own while you're there say you're sick or something. Next time you see her talking with a black guy just keep on running.

She's been with black guys now at least for a year now . Probably longer but she's probably been exclusively black for at least that long.

You don't seem to upset over which is good because you can't do anything to stop her. So what do you want to do . Watch her get fucked, have her tell you about it. The worse thing is what she's doing to you now getting fucked but telling you anything about it. And she knows you know which is like a cat playing with a mouse.

Already fucked her would have been an awful quickie. She was out of my sight for less than an hour but then anything is possible LOL. As I said, we have openly fucked others, so her fucking does not bother me. Its this attraction which I find curious but not bothersome. I have watched her with others too which can be fun but then I'd rather be fucking someone instead of watching :). Its all good. I even checked to see if she wears an anklet or a sign but nothing that I have noticed so far. If its a tease from her its a good one.

An hour is plenty of time for a good fuck . Even a good hard fuck.

Your wife is letting us know she likes us and wants us. Bracelets, QOS tattoos are nice but nothing beats a women looking at you smiling at you. Looking at your crotch thats what she's doing . hoping its not a tease . Bad things happen to women who just tease us. Trust me word gets around who are the sluts, who are the teases.

On vacation
 

My wife is always more open about it on vacation too.

Yeah often when I go for business dinners (out of town) she will wear a low back dress and be a tease and its interesting to see how many try to causally place their hand there ....

Iron Mike is right
Roxanna

That's awesome how she likes to show it off and enjoy. Age is just a number.

when im out a almost only get chatted up by black guys, ive been black only for 15 years and only black men hit on me, and i like it like that

NYE Parties
 

Well some of us will be going out for NYE and hit a few parties, clubs or casinos. This year, of course will be a bit subdued, but my wife and I will go to a local casino. She loves to dress hot on this night and gets hit on. Usually I like to walk around after I found her a seat at one of the bars and watch the guys come around her. Perhaps I'll hint for her to go black this time around...

Funny you mention this, my wife also would come to me and ask, “Is there a sign on my head or something that says “I like Black guys”?! Every time I go out to the store, the mall or anywhere Black guys are always talking to me or hitting up on me!”
I have to lean with IronMike, my wife’s enjoyed great sex and good times with Black guys and it probably shows when she’s out there by herself or even with me. I personally have always enjoyed hearing her tell me of these experiences and assured her that since she’s begun enjoying them, her actions emit a signal, maybe the way she looks at them or initiates a conversation.
One time in Kauai she was there for a week with one of her younger white female agents, while my wife was at the bar getting a drink, a Black guy was sitting next to her, the two began talking and getting very close, her female white agent later said, “That guy was so hitting on you!” My wife told me, “Damn, if she wasn’t there with me, I would’ve gone back to his room!”
So, yeah women, especially white wives who have enjoyed Black men before, do seem to emit a certain appeal that must show when Black men are around.

It must be because this is almost a daily occurrence be it at the grocery store, mall, bar, vacation spots etc.

I think it comes from when a wife shows the confidence and liberation of being with Black men, for mine, she never shy’s away from Black men like most white wives do. I always enjoy hearing her tails of what happened at this store or who hit up on her when she was out somewhere.
Since moving to Hawaii it’s been a dry spell as on some of these islands, you eventually know everyone. Hopefully as we’ve been enjoying our newfound love of fine Scotch whiskey’s she’s had an, “Awakening” of wanting to experience Black men again, even gone as far as naming the bottles after the men she’d been fond of as the the flavors and smoothness remind her of each one’s qualities.
If you find the right guy or guys, this is quite an enjoyable lifestyle.

A couple of years ago, I took my wife and two daughters to a Phila. 76ers game. We sat in front of four black men who were there together. They spent a lot of time talking to each other about my wife and daughters and what they wanted to do with them.

How did that make you feel? More important how did that make your wife feel?

I enjoyed hearing it and imagined watching them do what they were talking about. My wife and daughters never mentioned it at all.

FYI .. my daughters are 26 and 23 and the 23 year old has only dated black guys for the past three years or so. There have been times when two or three black men have come to pick her up so I have thought she is probably being shared.

I've been out shopping or to bars and I must admit I do flirt with black guys,even when my hubs with me, but he does know my sexual preference for black over white. They are more forceful they know what they want, and doesn't seem to bother them if my hubs around,which I find a real turn on. I love the comments they make about my ass and tits.

Yeah she must be flirting in ways I have no clue about

Because of everything that's happened recently with all the protests and support for BLM it just stands to reason that black men would be more open to showing interest in white women in public. The number of interracial relationships are at an all time high and more white women are curious about black men. White men are less likely to take offence to black men hitting on their women because they don't want to appear racist. I expect this to continue to incease in the future.

Possible. She has been to some of the protests. She has plenty of pics of her surrounded with black men. All peaceful...

Not when we get her alone :)

No Mystery!
 

No Sir, it's really not a strange phenomenon. There are scores of Black Men with a chronic case of White Girl Fever! We see them and the reaction begins it compels us to show interest sometimes with a look, a smile or if she's extra gorgeous she gets conversation.

Compliments
 

Even at my age I still get compliments from black men....Becky :p

I can imagine you do
 

So does my wife at 68, I hate that she teases and doesn't go through with it. With my knowledge anyway??:cool:

some girls have all the luck they must be all hot as hell and fashion modals its hard being a average looking housewife

I'll be honest, when I'm out with my husband, I still sneak peeks at black men we come across. It's a real turn on for me when I can make out his bulge! I get a little caught up and sometimes I linker too long. These black guys catch me more often than not, smiling at me and winking when my husband looks away. I've taken advantage of our different schedules in having a little fun, but I have been known get a quickie in, even with my husband not far way, usually using my mouth.

We live on Maui
 

My wife is the same
 

Only she usually tells me when she thinks a guy is hot. I always ask her why she doesn't give him her #?

Your wife is very attractive....Becky:p