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First time arranged a meeting with BBC for my wife through online adult sites. We were supposed to meet at a local bar. My wife is conservative but I found out she was eager to meet him after reviewing his profile. We had a long discussion about limits as It was our first encounter. She txt him few photos and chatted with him online in my presence before the meeting

On that day, he did show up, but with additional two friends who were not invited. They sat down and started to flirt with her. It was really awkward. She looked at me and was very uncomfortable. That was a sign that we got to leave. Have you ever had such an encounter?

Don't let that experience discourage you. Take it as a learning experience not every meet and greet will be a smashing success it's 50/50 at best. There's no foolproof way to be absolutely sure who you are meeting here, there are some high quality Brothers that you can find that can be a gentleman and give her all the stiff black pipe she can handle. Good Luck

Just wondering ... your wife was uncomfortable but were you? Would you have liked it if your wife was into the idea of all three of them?

Perhaps next time you should have ground rules for the first meeting. It's not too much to ask that the potential BBC come alone along with any other expectations. I know she'll be hooked after the first time but you want it to be memorable.

[QUOTE=teewest;96954]Don't let that experience discourage you. Take it as a learning experience not every meet and greet will be a smashing success it's 50/50 at best. There's no foolproof way to be absolutely sure who you are meeting here, there are some high quality Brothers that you can find that can be a gentleman and give her all the stiff black pipe she can handle. Good Luck[





I agree, but to learn form that encounter, I need to know what they were looking for. Were they playing games? or basically looking for other activities.

Just wondering ... your wife was uncomfortable but were you? Would you have liked it if your wife was into the idea of all three of them?




This was first encounter. For me, I wasn't even comfortable with one person, however, I know she would enjoy the experience and for that I went a long.

That was our expectation. I am not sure why he brought other guys with him. in the future, what happens if we are in a room with one man and someone knocked and all of a sudden we have two or more people show up. I never thought of that but i now, i do.

[QUOTE=generic3;96959]That was our expectation. I am not sure why he brought other guys with him. in the future, what happens if we are in a room with one man and someone knocked and all of a sudden we have two or more people show up. I never thought of that but i now, i do.[/QUOTE
Good question. Once you set ground rules and he agrees prior to meeting, then it's a chance you will have to take. Also, some websites are better then others for that sort of thing. Ashley Madison worked well for me.
Do either of you have black friends or co workers who might be willing to help? Or do you prefer someone you don;t know for this?
You said you weren't comfortable with any of this but going along for her. How do you think you'll feel after it happens? How will it affect your relationship moving forward? What if she wants a weekly meet with a black guy? A long term lover or different guys? If she wants a 3some? How much of a part are you going to play?

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To answer your questions, We prefer someone that we don't know
I have mixed feelings. Although I would enjoy seeing her reaching new sexual intensity, I may regret that it wasn't with me but we have talked about it and we are both looking for the new experience. I am a STAG rather than Cuckold, so we would love to participate in threesome with a black man

I had a situation like that happen when I was in high school. I was in the NJ Pine Barrens with my girlfriend. We noticed three older men watching us, then they each wanted a turn with her. She took them all on but it did make our ride home a bit awkward.