Married, but want to have sex with a black man
 

I am 30 years old, no kids. Married my high school sweetheart 5 years ago, and have only ever been with him. We have a good sex life. He is good in bed, attentive... but he's not well endowed.

He goes away a lot for work for days at a time, and when he does, I get lonely.
For the past 2 or three years I have been watching a lot of interracial porn when he's away, and I love watching a black guys (or guys) have sex with a white women. I secretly wish I was one of them! My husband doesn't know about my fetish.

We know lots of people, and some are black, but he doesn’t spend a lot of time with them. I tease him all the time that because he doesn't hang out with any of the black people we know, people might think he is a bit of a racist. One time we were having an argument about this, and I called him a closet racist, and suggested he would be jealous of a black dildo. He laughed, and then a few days later he bought me one and said that it proves that it doesn't bother him at all! (I use it all the time!! )

But years later, he still doesn’t hang out with black guys, just white ones.
So about a year ago, we were arguing again, and I jokingly said to my husband that maybe the only way to prove he isn't racist is to let me have sex with a black guy, in our bed while he is in the house, and for him to not do anything to stop it. He quickly answered "Yeah, that's not going to happen", and I just laughed it off. But last weekend I joked about it again, and he just stared at me and said "whatever makes you happy". I just laughed and let it go at the time, but I can't stop thinking about it. Did he imply that he's now OK with this? Like did me bringing it up all the time get him used to the idea? Did I wear him down? Or was he just tired of the joke?

Now that wonder if maybe he has given me the go ahead, I really really want to do it... Like sooo bad. But a small part of me is kind of worried that he's not OK with it. I kind of don't want to come out and actually ask him if I can, because what if he was not giving me approval? And then I look like a bit of a tramp. At least now I can say i was just joking.:p

A black guy I work with flirts with me all the time. He is tall, muscular, and I bet he is hung! I think he likes me enough that I could get him into bed... I want to see a black cock in real life. I want to do all sorts of things with him.:eek:

I'm also kind of worried that if I do go ahead with it this one time, that I might want to do it again. I don't want to ruin my marriage.

Stupid Pornhub interracial porn!

What should I do?

Come to Greece
 

my greek thing will let you enjoy nice summer time situations!

Regards,

Yannis

Definitely just go for it, take the bbc and enjoy it.

LOL! MMMMM yes!
That's kind of the direction I was leaning!

I am afraid if I ask him what he meant that he'll say he wasn't serious.

But if I just do it... I get what I want, and maybe if he was serious, I might get to do it again.

If he wasn't serious about me going ahead with it- I can always just say I misunderstood what he meant if he gets mad at me. I can blame it on him.

I have kind of convinced myself that he wants this for me. That if he really loves me, he would want me to be happy.

I just want this SOOOOOO bad!

I'm hooked
 

As a black I have been in this position, the woman gave in aw fucked for years. She wished she had done it sooner.

Exactly, if he cares about your happiness he’ll let you get what you need. Just make sure to take photos when you do it! 🥂

so if I were to want to keep doing it behind his back, I can expect my black lover to keep it secret?

I have thought about that! If it never happens again- I want to be able to look at the pics when I'm older! :eek:

MMMMMM!!!!!::D

see above!

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Shelly

If you you suspect he is a closet racist
 

You probably shouldn't tell him. My wife had a years long affair with a younger black co-worker he was also married to a black woman his own age and I knew he was know threat to our marriage. I told her I suspected it and had no problem with it because like your husband I am not well endowed. We had been living together 6 years at the time and the night before we got married he confessed to me he had been fucking her while I was working nights. He told me he thought I should know before I married her. I told him the same thing that I was alright with it because I realized she needed more cock than I could provide. I never told her he told me because I actually didn't want her to stop seeing him. I wish she would find someone like that again here in Florida.

Have no regrets!
 

I would watch porn with him and have some interracial sex in it and see how his body reacts. Sometimes we don't want to admit what turns us on.

That's a great idea! And I will show him how much it turns me on to watch a black guy fucking a white woman.

Preferably some other guy's wife!

Thank- you!

I agree with the adult video that includes interracial sex. Usually those with amateurs or non professional actors are really good to watch. If he does not respond, then perhaps have a secret affair with someone you trust that will be discrete and safe. Good luck and let us know how it goes.

what to do?
 

have you ever hinted to hubby your attracted to something like this especially with a black man? if not break the ice at least try to get him on board with it. you might find out he might be. hard decision

Was that a question? or your opinion?

Like I said... The last time I joked about it- he stared at me and said "whatever makes you happy, Shelly"

I don't know if he was tired of hearing me joke about it, or if he was finally admitting that he would let me.

His face looked either blank- or defiant. I couldn't tell, so I just kind of stormed off, laughing, like the argument was ridiculous, and I was done fighting with him.

I couldn't read him that day for sure. I can't tell if he was daring me to continue talking about it because he wanted me to...

or if he was daring me to keep talking because he doesn't want me to, but wanted to see how I would react.

I honestly don't know.

yes- I have hinted. in the way I described- by teasing him. And I am only interested if it is a black man.

I might find out he is on board with it... or it could out me as a slut, and ruin my marriage. Plus if it got out why we divorced, it would really be hard in my family.

I wish he would bring it up with me- or else I'm going to have to do it behind his back.

Be honest with him. you don't want to ruin your marriage and he may surprise you with his attitude towards it

You sound like a really interesting woman… your husband is lucky to have you and if he were I, I wouldn’t have an issue it be encouraged and embraced I actually have very simple requests and guidelines I ask of and they are really not a bad thing! No condoms, no pulling out and either I watch and or participate and I clean her up in between or you being home the treat… I think it’s a major sexual turn on to share a significant other with a black lover. As long as she still with me.

I have tried... by hinting.

But it's so hard to actually come out and tell him I want to fuck a black guy. We are pretty repressed in the bedroom.

And I don't want this to cause us to split up if he is totally against it... I just want more. (more inches, more thickness, more rough, more submissive, more guys at once) (and more Black in me! LOL!)

Sigh! Being on here has just made me want it more

Don't bother telling him
 

Don't tell. Go ahead and fuck a black guy (I volunteer). If you decide its a one-time thing (which you won't) then you go back to your current life and no one has to know. Of course, the almost assured scenario after you experience what you've been missing is that you will confront him and lay down the law to him. He will either accept your new lifestyle or you will move on. Regardless of what he decides, it's a win/win for you.

wow- the way you put that...

To be honest- the though of having a black BF on the side, who is happy with that arrangement makes me kind of wet. To have leverage with my husband, so that if he finds out, he knows I have another man, and it's like... let me have this on the side and we can stay married, or if you don't, I'm leaving...

I don't want to get re-married if I leave him. I would be able to see anyone I wanted after that.

mmmm

Threatening to leave him for my black lover unless he allows me to continue to have my fun on the side... with my black fuckbuddy...

fuck that sounds so empowering!

Threatening to leave him for my black lover unless he allows me to continue to have my fun on the side... with my black fuckbuddy...

fuck that sounds so empowering![/QUOTE]


big step though- so you think I should have my Black side thing first before making any demands of my Husband?

Married, But Want To Have Sex W/ A Black Man
 

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Good idea!

You need to decide it loosing what you have is worth it. Only you can make this decision, nobody else. As an older person, I can tell you that sex isn't the only thing in a relationship. Now at your age it IS a HELL of alot more important than it will be later in life. How are you with dealing with guilt? Seriously, can you compartmentalize and deal with it? If not, then you need to have a sit down with him and talk about including others into the relationship. Are you ok with him having another woman on the side?
You guys need to talk about all this. My impression of things is that he really isn't into this, so be prepared to break up. I"m not saying don't have the talk, there is nothing worse than being in a relationship that isn't fulfilling for both of you, in the end both of you will be happier with someone else. But the best way forward is honesty, because maybe you can deal with the guilt, and maybe he will never find out. Neither of those is a given, and the consequences of both are worse than just getting things out into the open.
As someone else posted above, test the waters first with some IR porn first. See how he reacts, that'll tell you some things. Think about all of this, and his reaction to the IR Porn, and then talk. Go forward from there. Unsolicited Old Man Advice.
Good luck and keep us posted!

big step though- so you think I should have my Black side thing first before making any demands of my Husband?[/QUOTE]

Yes, do it discretely and once you see how great it is your decision will become easy

Well it’s your life. If getting nigger dicked is worth more than your marriage then don’t tell, tell him or who fucking cares right? Go for it. If you think that you fucking another man in your marital bed, a hotel, behind a dumpster or whatever might be a problem for him and you value your life with him well then it might be time for an actual conversation. If he says fuck no - then what you do next is again based on what you value more. Just think first.

Bitch pulled disrespectful shit like that on me, she’d have a major problem. But that’s me.

I am married to a much older man. He is a sweetheart and my security blanket, but he has not been interested in sex in years. I am a working, traveling insurance rep, and at age 44, I encountered a very handsome and charming black man in the hotel bar. With more wine than I should have accepted, I found myself undressing in his room while he watched. My juices were running down my thigh as I undressed before this man, and in staying with him all night, I have become totally addicted!

In the early morning, he introduced me to my very first anal, and while on top of me with his very impressive dick still in my freshly fucked ass, we whispered several things to me. I remember hearing his words like it was yesterday... "Peggy, when a black man fucks a white woman in her ass, her ass belongs to black men forever."

"White men have white cocks. Black men have big black dicks that were made and designed to please and excite white women and their pussies."

He was right! He certainly pleased mine! Although I am cautious and selective, nothing, absolutely nothing excites me more than a black man who considers a married white woman and her pussy as a trophy, and who will do literally anything to get it.

He told me that he never seeks single white women or "younger white girls" and that only married, seemingly prim and proper white women who are exceptionally attractive, and who seemingly would NEVER picture themselves being with a black man are his thing. He certainly changed my views and desires after just one night in bed with him!

Wow that’s hot… so your husband doesn’t know or you end up telling him?

Just do it. It will open up a new world and you will never regret it.

big step though- so you think I should have my Black side thing first before making any demands of my Husband?[/QUOTE]

YES! And if you need any help hit me up.

Go for it
 

Your desires need to be taken care of

I agree , get what you need
 

That is what I keep telling my wife

As a very happy Hotwife who is black exclusive, I would seek approval from your hubby before starting BBC. No white woman will ever just fuck BBC just once. It is incredibly addicting and impossible to stop once you start.

Break your husband in slowly. Start some dirty talk in bed about BBC when you are sucking his cock. Tell him that a married woman at work has been enjoying a long term sexual affair with a black man with her husband’s full support. When you are orally servicing your husband’s erection, he is much more likely to agree to let you fuck a black man.

big step though- so you think I should have my Black side thing first before making any demands of my Husband?[/QUOTE]

“Sounds so empowering “. That’s because you are a selfish stupid cunt. If you want to go black - do it. Emasculate your husband in the process? Choose your sexual gratification over his mental health and overall happiness? Fuck you!

I would love to stick my my bbc down your throat until you turned blue and keep it there until you turned back to white!

My brothers, I know we are here for the fucking but SOME of these bitches are fucking evil. Hanging your husband, father of your children out to dry like that? Recently I can’t help to think about what would happen if one of these cunts turned on us?

Maybe it’s me going through some shit and thinking too much but fucking -WOW!

mmmm!
yes please! and bring your friends! LOL!

That would be a night to remember!

God bless you

I don't want to be blessed by God...

I want to be fucked by Black!

LOL!

Majority of the poll says I should do it. Looks like I need to get the courage to actually make something happen. I am pretty sure my co-worker is kind of into me, I've been more flirty lately, and he seems to have picked up on it. Just afraid that I could mess up my job, too.

Might be better to see if I can meet someone at the bar instead. And I just realized that I am thinking more like HOW this IS going to happen, rather than IF it were to happen! That maybe a sign!

That was hot to read this post… like I said if you were my wife it wouldn’t be debated. Encouraged and assisted more like it. I’d even clean you up after your dates! Love a. Woman who isn’t afraid to embrace her desires and slutty side. Major turn on! You also wouldn’t need to sneak it just a simple notification and communication is a respectful return and consideration.

Put on some sexy clothes and go into the black neighborhood. It doesn't have to be a bar. Store, coffee shop, etc. If you see a desirable black man make some conversation. Be flirty. You'll soon get a taste of what you're missing in your life. Once you know what alternatives life has to offer you will be able to have a more honest discussion with your husband. And you will be able to tell him what his alternatives are. Good luck