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[bobforfun28]

Hi all,
Found this forum a couple days ago and I thought that maybe this could be the place to ask a question that I have had for a year or so.

First, I am 32 and my wife is 28,29 in a few weeks. married 6 years. After a night out while we were making out about a month ago we started talking about our fantasies. There was one that my wife was very hesitant about. I manage to get her to tell me. It was about making out with a black guy. She asked if this made me mad. I just said that it was normal and that I sometimes I imagine her having sex with a black guy, She was surprised but we left it at that. ( this is why I am on this forum). We continued talking but she stopped talking and went to sleep. We often talk about been a little more adventurous to spice up our sex life. I also know that some guys at work flirts with her.She is nice looking so it is not a surprise.

The more I think about that the more it turns me on. So my question: how can I convince her that she can make out with a black guy and it would be ok and that it would not break our relationship.
She is a little insecure so I have to be careful about the way I bring this up.

I also have my own conditions. It could not be someone I know or someone that knows us. A good way could be like on vacation etc . We will be going in Jamaica next winter (Montego bay)
That would be perfect.

So how do I bring this up without breaking our relationship ?