Black Friend Trash Talks White GF

Mandingo the Barbie Lover · #1 (**permalink**) 10-07-2012, 02:53 PM

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Originally Posted by goldensun101

Do people literally think its in a black man's DNA to do this? How can a human being be so objectified and pigeonholed? Maybe its what certain people get away with and what's eventually is expected of them. If you are looking for a black man for that, it is what you'll find. If you are looking for a black man who is more dignified, you'll find that. Doesn't mean it's in anyone's DNA or an innate part of them. Or maybe its just that I'm not black enough. Its amazing how pervasive this type of thinking is on a site like this. You'd think people were here because they were beyond that.... turns out their here in spite of it or because of it. Still prejudiced... just a little more "tolerant" or even masochistic. How fucked up is that!

Exactly. I'm trying to tell you that these people will bang black dudes yet still have these "black men have abusive traits in their DNA" idealogies. Lol. Wtf.

honestjudge · #2 (**permalink**) 10-07-2012, 08:17 PM

When I read the first post the first thing that came into my head was that it sounded like a cuckolds fantasy view of the world......

Lovesex3320 · #3 (**permalink**) 10-07-2012, 08:53 PM

The guys I'm friends with benefits with have never behaved in that manner. Out of seventeen very hot black men I'm still chatting with almost all of them. There are some who were always busy and could only meet or chat once in a while. But for the most part everyone stay in touch and are good friends with me and my husband. They are very respectful. I've encountered only a couple on this site that were not very nice but honestly that is rare. Not a one of my friends have ever trashed me. None of the white guys have either. It's all been a great experience for me. The main time I feel bad is when one of my friends can meet and no one can watch our kids so we can meet up with them. I hate it when that happens but they have all been understanding.