My wifes' current steady is about 10 inches and nice and thick. Her longest has been about 11, but she prefers thick over long. Usually, if he's up for it, she's going to fuck all night long, and she always cums many, many times.

First off most guys will state thier size, however if that does not work of couse the hand check works. The width of most people hands are around 3.5-4 inches. You look petite so with you maybe 3.5. So when you suck the black cock put one hand around it at the base, the next hand on top that makes 7. That makes it a lot easier to tell what is left. If you still have enough to suck on it's 10 inches. Some people get used to them too and can tell by looking, but you are right just from looking it's hard to tell 9 from 10. .

Sure thing, just grab a ruler flat against your desk. With me both hands went to almost 8 inches.

Well, across the center of my palm is just a hair over 3 inches .. Its funny that you can measure that way, I have always called it (when I do that to a dck) playing 1 Potatoe, 2 Potatoe 3 potato OOoooooo. :D

If I had to guess...13 to 14 inches and very thick....I could only get the head in my mouth and used both hands to jack him off. When he fucked me he could'nt get it all in and completely stretched me out. I have no idea how many times I would orgasm each time he fucked me...