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This is my point.

This issue does not seem to be about preferences, as in some guys prefer women with big boobs to small boobs. Its more to do with stereotyping, ie black men are supposed to have blg dicks. So if you are black and are not well hung the insinuation is you are not a 'real' black man and less desirable to white women! very patronising and offensive.

So a question to the ladies, if you met a black guy the first thing you think about or want to know is how big is he? Is that how women really act? I thought men behaved like that. unlike boobs the dick is not readily visible untill it is shown, usually in the bedroom or whenever. Im not talking accidental slip outs. So if you met a guy on here and he kept you guessing about the size untill you were in the bedroom, if it was small, you would tell him to leave, no matter is other qualities? Has any woman on this site done that?

you probably guessed it, i am not in the hung camp, loads of black men aint either. But have been told i am attractive charming in good shape and intelligent. Never had a woman say to me, wished you were bigger, or dont really like small dicks they dont do much for me etc

Another stereotype coming out is a black guy has to be 'ghetto' or 'street tuff' that is what white women are attracted to. Sorry I dont watch "The Wire', MTV Bass or try to be a wannabee rapper or gangster. There are all types. Again can the ladies have their say, let me know if I am in the minority and wrong. At least it would enlighten me

I object to the assumption/stereotyping that a black man is supposed to be long and thick. I thought this site was about interracial dating. It did not say big dick black guys only. I should not have to change or find another site as teewest suggested, people on here should change their opinions or choose a site that caters for them.