never had an orgasm before
 

kinda a weird question but i dont think i have ever cum having sex i posted yesterday about how i have started dating a black guy but we havent had sex yet because he is really big he says its like 12 inches and its like the size of my forearm but my ex was very small not even half the size that my new bf marcus is and i never really had an orgasm cuz he would cum with in 5 minutes lol so i was wondering having marcus in me and i get used to him if his size alone will make me cum and will it feel good wen h has really deep in me ive never felt a guy deep in me before is there a spot in me thats to deep for a smaller guy to hit and wat will it feel like wen i cum

lol i hope he does to he is 8 years older than me so i figure he is pertty experienced as for a big dildo i dont have one so we will have to foreplay alot first i have never cum b4 so im kinda scared how i will react if he makes me will he feel me cumming wen i cum im so turned on thinking of being that filled and nervous at the same time and im not on the pill yet so i hope he doesent lose control and cum in me....

You can take it easy. Try a BBC dildo, or let him finger your pussy first with one finger, then two, later three and/or four. Hopefully you will get very wet so he can easy slide his cock inside your pussy.

Oh you can take it to the bank he is gonna cum in you. Especially if you tell him you're unprotected. He will bury it to the coggs and flood you with his cum!!!

well if he cums in me i really dont care im curious of wat it feels like will he feel me cumming on him if he makes me cum

You squirt when you cum?

i have never cum before so i dont kno im sleeping at his house tonight and i think im gonna try to have sex with him i just hope it works out and he can get in me he is so long and thick im so nervous about wat it will feel like and how i will react if he makes me cum i really wish i could get some advice from another girl who has had the same problem

Just relax. I don't know if you're natural wet, otherwise use lubiricant.

Also if you don't use the pill, use a condom.

i got pertty wet with my ex but he was very small marcus is like 3 times his size and alot thicker i told him today i want to have sex with him but he has to take it slow and treat me right he is really being so good about it and is not pushing to do it we have been together about a month now so i think its time we try he has lube im not worried about that im just nervous how it will feel wen we get into it as for a condom lol i dont think they make them that big lol...jk condoms seem to make me itch it used to burn with my ex wen he used one and i kinda want it to feel natural

I understand :-) Good work with fingers (like my magic fingers :o ) can do miracles and make pussy's huge wet ;)

Throw away your worries and let it all go.

Don't forget to share some pics or vids :p

Did I understand you correct you're unprotected (no pill, no condom?)

Honey, once he gets inside you it will be all over and believe me, you will never want anyone else but a black man. Just enjoy the ride and by all means let him cum in you!! It is unbelievably fantastic. I am soooo jealous!!

yea no pill or condom im goin to the doctors friday to get put on the pill but im staying at his house tomorrow night and told him i wanna fuck so if he cums in me watever im so turned on by the thought of him in me i dont even care im ready to try him ive heard so much about bigger is better i wanna cum for the first time and want him to feel me cumming on him but i will ask him to try to pull out but if he doesent then i cant blane him ive made him wait over a month for sex he has been so understanding i feel i owe it to him

Okay, it's your choice. I would have wait till I was protected. You will have many time more where you can do unprotected sex. As your nickname suggests, I think you're just 18 so a long time to have more unprotected sex.

And don't forget the pics and or vids. :p

Your probably sprung by now it's the 14th...lol
 

Tell me how things went, send me a message!!!! I wish it was me getting that new new...lol If you never felt the goodness of cuming!!!! Damn your in for a treat. I'd make you come over & over just to show you what real love making is all about.

Glad to see a woman who is curious about her body and what to expect

Covered this partially in my other post to you but to reiterate more deeply.

G-spot, 2-3 inches in the vagina upper wall, about the length of the knuckle of an index finger. It will swell up when you are aroused from foreplay and has a ridged, wrinkled feel to it when touched.

Deep Spot or A-spot, at the back of the vagina, just before the cervix, at the top and bottom of the back of the vagina, the bottom of the a-spot is further back, because the vagina is tilted based on its design. It has a smooth feel to it.

The key to making a woman orgasm is to stimulate these spots repeatedly for extended periods of time. If a man has very good technique in bed and knows what he is trying to do he can stimulate these spots based on how he angles his penis during sex and using a combination of short and long strokes.

Unlike the g-spot that is sensitive at the top of the vagina wall, the a-spot or deep spot is sensitive all the way around.

The longer those spots are stimulated the greater the sexual arousal and the likelihood of orgasm. A guy has to pay close attention to her reactions during penetration and it will give an indication of what she is feeling.

One way a guy can tell if a woman is having an orgasm is the walls of the vagina will contract and squeeze your penis at the time of orgasm and fluttering in waves sometimes. Another way is to stick a little finger in her anus and if she is having an orgasm it will squeeze down involuntarily on the finger.

Some women can orgasm quickly and others will take longer, it varies, especially if like you they have never before.

For me there is nothing sexually like making a woman orgasm, I love to see her response in her eyes and how she lets go and becomes uninhibited in her reaction. Truly a thing of beauty to see.