Ladies: Intimacy or Straight Fuck?
 

So I was wondering to myself earlier, what do women in this lifestyle prefer? I've seen some say they just want to fuck bbc because they can 'make love' anytime with their husbands, and some say they like to make love to/with their lover. What do you ladies here prefer? An intimate boyfriend/girlfriend experience or straight "business?" Or does it depend on the guy, your mood, etc.? I'm mostly talking about 1-on-1 encounters, as gangbangs would be the latter.

Straight fucking, as much as I can get.

Haha, somehow I knew you'd be the first to respond. :p

I'm not looking for boyfriends or lovers. I love when BBCs use me as a personal fucktoy and cum dump. I love to please BBCs. The bigger and blacker, the better

Pretty much same here I have my hubby if I want intimacy
I have had a couple black guys that were a little closer but usually it's just sex ;)

Fuck, fuck, fuck
 

Of course it's to let a black man FUCK me. Love is not part of the equation - that's what boyfriends and husbands are for. When I'm with a black guy it's pure lust and if he verbally (and to a certain extent physically) abuse me, the joy is so much greater. There is nothing like feeling a black man shoot his cum into me. So do I love the black guy fucking me? - no. I don't hate him either, but I can't be neutral. I LOVE the way his cock fills me.

must agree, is all about the fucking

For me, it's the sex, don't need "intimacy" but when fucking, that feels pretty intimate to me, if only for a while.

Notice how all the women posting here say the same thing. We don't want to "make love"...we want to FUCK. I never reached anything close to an orgasm from "making love." I had my FIRST orgasms of my life at age 31 with the first Black Man to FUCK me. And I cum pretty much every time with every Black Man since then

Then someone wasn't doing it right.

My vote is for both..

It's a bit of both!!

Most always, just want the FUCK.... mutual foreplay makes me want to Fuck more & Harder!
There are times tho when my husband encourages me to kiss my BBC Bulls "deeply"... He really strokes his cock when I have a black cock in my pussy & a black mans tongue deep in my mouth!:D

Isn't it called seduction, not intimacy. And yes any woman would need both.

For me it mostly when I'm in the mood for something different or the thought of a BBC inside of me gets me worked up. When either of these happen it's just for the sex and nothing more. :)

Straight Fucking?
 

I can't imagine other women choosing that except maybe to manage some distance to preserve their primary relationships with their husbands. For me, inviting any man to share at that level comes with some emotional investment. I am certain that it's just not me; most of us gals are wired this way. Intimacy and passion are integral to the shared experience. If it was purely mechanical, I wouldn't want it. After all, there are risks in taking new sex partners. Might as well play with sex toys. I need intimacy, passion, and romance along with it to make it completely worthwhile.

Mars versus Venus
 

This really validates one of the many emotional differences between men and women that I learned about many moons ago. A woman craves intimacy or "closeness" to a man in order to fully enjoy having sex with him. Whereas, on the other hand, a man craves sex with a woman in order to feel that same "closeness" to her.

Neither of these emotions is "better" or "worse" than the other. It's just the way we are naturally wired as men and women. And the beautiful thing about it is this. Although the male and the female "equations" here look different, the goal that each man and woman who are sexually attracted to each other wants to achieve is exactly the same. Intimacy. Closeness.

Men want that too ladies. Very much so! We just express ourselves about it differently. Now, TMV is 100% right. There is indeed a lesson here for men. BUT, there is also a lesson here for women too! So many women think they already understand men, but so many women absolutely do not. They really, really, really don't.

Both men AND women need to take time out to really learn about and understand what makes the other gender tick. When both men and women do that, they just might be shocked to discover that they're actually both trying to achieve the exact same thing when it comes to sex. Romance. Intimacy. Closeness. They just have a different way of showing it is all.

seduction is when you are on the path of attraction NOT wile your putting meat in a lovely womans holes... be it intimate love making: the act of expressing a connection
fucking: the act of expressing an attraction

BOTH are emotional yet the types arent the same

its a BODY attraction when any woman wants bbc
and its the comfort of blending in daily life when they want
to be with a guy of their own race ... its simply

others ideals vs her pussy...
so if she makes love with a black guy
her social life n sex life are aligned
simple as that yet

personal stories have their own complications
each woman is different remember that

I need the intimacy no matter who-I like to be held-fondled -kissed. Sex is meaningless to me without that and would not satisfy me.

My wife wanted both. She became very emotionally attached to the black man that lived with us for almost 3 years. She has a very difficult time when his employer transferred him across the country. It took several months for her to "get-over" him not coming home to her on a daily basis. So for her off and on over the years she would want intimacy and some times she just wanted "fucked". gatorrdw

She really had two husbands for 3 years so his leaving would be a big deal to her. I agree with most who posted above that intimacy and some type of relationship is needed for good sex. If I just wanted and orgasm, I cold use my vibrator.

black cock slut
 

When I am being used and owned by a sexy black guy, he decides how I take it..

I like both. There are times I just want to be fucked, but if I really like the man there's no reason I can't have both. I currently have a bbc I would classify as my lover. He's intelligent, sensitive, and loves to be intimate. At the same time, he can be extremely dominant, and just pound my ass. He's the best of both worlds.

its all about the dick!
 

Im looking to get fucked! I have hubby for intimacy.

I totally agreeeeeeeeeeeeeeee with you - Despite all the Feminist BS - REAL women want to be women and they love LOVE A REAL MAN IN THEIR BED - BLACK WHITE OR YELLOW - JUST AS LONG AS THAT HOT MAN KNOWS HOW TO FUCK HIS WOMAN AND I DONT MEAN SOFT AND SLOW LOVE MAKING - MOST WOMENT LOVE TO BE FUCKED AND FUCKED AND FUCKED AGAIN IN THE MORNING

Just depends on my mood and my needs at any given moment. Both are nice to have.

Anything they want as long as it's just straight up hardcore sex....Becky

I'm here to have sex. I'm already happily married, so I'm not looking for that kind of intimacy. We (hubby and I) do this to further enjoy ourselves. I do like to know a little about the person before we play. I think it makes for a more pleasurable experience, knowing the likes and dislikes and what not. But I don't need to feel a connection other than a physical desire to fuck each other. Most guys here seem pretty okay with that, so it's a win/win

Straight fuckin :D
Theres time 4 intimacy also but mostly straight fuckin :P

Intimacy or Straight?
 

I have been with 4 Blackmen over the years. the first three where fucking, just plain sex Very satisfing,but just raw sex. then i started with my now steady BBC. He is very tender to me and we have long foreplay before ,and I am totally arroused and finding that i am more wetter and excited when we do it. He will kiss me all over and caress my body,making me wanting to go down on him and get him erect . when he enters me it is slowlyy and very gentle,sliding fully into my pussy fully after a few strokes. Then he waits deep inside of me allowing me to feel his full presence and then we begin that slow rythem and taking each other to full bliss. when i feel him cum in me I have learned to squeeze my vagina in response to his filling me with his cum, then iam pleased knowing that I did my part. My husband who watches us,says to him it looks like we are lovemaking. He is right. the sex with tyrell is lovemaking,we don't fuck. I truley love my husband and would NEVER leave him,but i must say that I do have an emotional relationship with Tyrell. My husband is ok withus fucking in front of him,as he is usually unable to provide the sex i need. He does enjoy cleaning me out after Tyrell leaves and sometimes he will get hard and enjoy my used pussy,not often ,but just enough for me to tell him How much I love him for letting me enjoy BBC,

She takes it how I give it to her.

Straight fuck

I’m a slut. I want cock, thick and black. I want to be a cum dump for BBC. That’s why I’m here.

I agree very much as long as he a very dark man and knows how to use it well I am as happy as a lark!

I love lots of foreplay, massage, fingering, it gets me so wet, but then I need a nice rough fuck :)

Just here to get fucked
 

Very well put and exactly right. She likes her “ friends” to just come, dominate the whole situation and just fuck her. Tbh none of the black men that’s had her have ever had a problem with that!

Pure sex and nothing else.

As the whore you are hard rough sex is the only thing you are worth getting from guys you arent meant fore love or romance because you to much of a whore.

All about the sex

For me, both sometimes. But mostly, I just want fucked.