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SarahSweet 01-26-2012 05:37 AM

Do Black Men Prefer Married White Women?
 
I was curious about this. When we first moved into the neighborhood where I stil live now, the majority of our neighbors were African- American. The very first day as I was carrying stuff into our apartment, I had a handsome young man hit on me! Despite the wedding ring I was wearing. I'd get hit on maybe half a dozen times a week by various guys. From casual talking, to innuendo filled conversation to very direct questioning of whether I would consider messing around with them (in VERY direct terms) What do you guys think?

87168 01-26-2012 03:29 PM

Well I can tell you from a personal stand point, I love to send vibes to married white women. For some reason it turns me on to know that I am secretly turning a married white woman on. I work for a cell phone company here in the US in one of the suburbs of Buffalo, NY. The majority of women that come on are white and mature. It's my weakness, so I make sure that I stand extra close when I'm showing them how to use their phone or going over their bill or something. Maybe "accidentally" allow then to catch me checking them out. Sometimes I'll even help them pair their phone to their car's bluetooth. Whenever I do that I make sure that my cock it visible though my dress pants and that I compliment them while performing my "work duties". I do it pretty often and a lot of them return, absent their husband so I can help them out. hahaha one even told me that her husband didn't like me because he thought I was hitting on her. He was right, but that didn't stop her from coming in again.

notact 01-26-2012 08:56 PM

Just my opinion
 
Personally as a w/m I love seeing a wedding ring on the white ladies finger when shes with a black guy, even if they are in public and theres nothing going on between them. Part of the "big taboo" thing I guess. Love seeing a ring if she IS doing something with a black guy, wish some of the gals would get a cheap ring and wear it just for the pictures.

SarahSweet 01-27-2012 01:03 AM

For quite a while, I would get totally flustered by the attention I was getting. The grocery store, walking on the street somewhere in our neighborhood, or just running into someone in our building.
Lots of times I found guys checking me out when they thought I wasn't lookin.Though some didn't try to hide their desire for me. I suppose I egged a lot of them on by wearing tight jeans and low cut tshirt/blouses most of the time. I grew more and more bold and flirty as time went on!

87168 01-27-2012 02:07 AM

Yea, and that's another thing Sarah. Women who are aware that they are attractive and don't mind the attention. Back to the lady that comes into my store for "help" well one time we were talking about the way girls dress and I mentioned that I really love leggings on a girl. Next time she came in, she was wearing leggings and they looked amazing on her curvy waist! Confidence one a women, especially an older or married one is a huge turn on and it's something that I cant help but be attracted to.

So, if you don't me asking Sarah when you say you because more bold and flirty, what exactly does that entail? Just curious ;) hahaha

hyphy06 01-27-2012 02:08 AM

I'm not going to say most black men prefer married white women, but from my experience married women seem to be more responsive to flirting.

SarahSweet 01-27-2012 04:06 AM

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Originally Posted by 87168 (Post 32874)
Yea, and that's another thing Sarah. Women who are aware that they are attractive and don't mind the attention. Back to the lady that comes into my store for "help" well one time we were talking about the way girls dress and I mentioned that I really love leggings on a girl. Next time she came in, she was wearing leggings and they looked amazing on her curvy waist! Confidence one a women, especially an older or married one is a huge turn on and it's something that I cant help but be attracted to.

So, if you don't me asking Sarah when you say you because more bold and flirty, what exactly does that entail? Just curious ;) hahaha

A guy who'll come right up to me, starting a conversation....... if all goes right then making an inuendo here or there, letting me know he's really really interested in me!

AZWizard 01-27-2012 12:42 PM

Married ladies
 
Some married ladies give off vibes or even wear things to attract men, sometimes to even let black men know she is game to the IR thing ... I bowl in tournaments all over and watched as men were obviously hitting on my wife, there were black guys as well as white guys ... I asked her if she was interested in expanding our experiences as a married couple and she asked what I had in mind ... I told her that I would like to see her with a black guy being as she admitted she gave it a thought in the past ... I got her a little black beaded anklette and it turned out to be a magnet for black guys, besides being a very attractive lady with pale skin and red hair which helped ... Long story short she had her pick of many guys and she and I both had a great time until she said she had enough and that she wasn't into it anymore ... She and I are still together and very happily married ... I think I liked the idea of seeing her with a black guy more than she ever did so it was her call to keep on going on or eliminating it from our experiences ... Life is good and she knows if she ever has an interest in doing it again I am willing to let it happen ...

laikaloco 02-12-2012 05:27 PM

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Originally Posted by SarahSweet (Post 32826)
I was curious about this. When we first moved into the neighborhood where I stil live now, the majority of our neighbors were African- American. The very first day as I was carrying stuff into our apartment, I had a handsome young man hit on me! Despite the wedding ring I was wearing. I'd get hit on maybe half a dozen times a week by various guys. From casual talking, to innuendo filled conversation to very direct questioning of whether I would consider messing around with them (in VERY direct terms) What do you guys think?

So have you ever taken any of them up on it?

I personally prefer single, but wouldn't NOT do married if it came down to it. I wouldn't want her husband around at the time, though...just her and me.

azbrotha4irlvr 02-12-2012 05:48 PM

I don't know about others, but I for one don't mind married women. They usually get to the point without a lot of BS

jodired 02-12-2012 10:31 PM

ive been told many times by Black Men that They prefer fucking mwfs to swfs; we married ladies are obviously not seeking a meal ticket or even a steady relationship. quite the contrary, we DON'T want the Men to call us the next day. we want to fuck, cum, and go on with our lives. by the time a woman reaches her mid 30s or 40s, she has come to separate love from sex. we (white women) seem to get hornier and hornier as we age, and our men cannot keep up. so...mwfs are looking for it. we LOVE it.

m4272000 02-13-2012 03:08 AM

Married or not. I love women. And when they like me back. It's even better.

SpectreFox 02-13-2012 05:55 AM

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Originally Posted by SarahSweet (Post 32826)
I was curious about this. When we first moved into the neighborhood where I stil live now, the majority of our neighbors were African- American. The very first day as I was carrying stuff into our apartment, I had a handsome young man hit on me! Despite the wedding ring I was wearing. I'd get hit on maybe half a dozen times a week by various guys. From casual talking, to innuendo filled conversation to very direct questioning of whether I would consider messing around with them (in VERY direct terms) What do you guys think?

A beautiful white woman like yourself living in a predominately black neighborhood, it's natural that you're going to be on every man's radar. ;)

dashinglad2010 02-13-2012 07:20 AM

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Originally Posted by jodired (Post 33662)
ive been told many times by Black Men that They prefer fucking mwfs to swfs; we married ladies are obviously not seeking a meal ticket or even a steady relationship. quite the contrary, we DON'T want the Men to call us the next day. we want to fuck, cum, and go on with our lives. by the time a woman reaches her mid 30s or 40s, she has come to separate love from sex. we (white women) seem to get hornier and hornier as we age, and our men cannot keep up. so...mwfs are looking for it. we LOVE it.

Sounds like you are right up my alley! I've done a few married women in my life. They always have that closet full of housewife heels that become slutty once a brotha show up to nail that twat!

brothatrain 03-08-2012 08:57 PM

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Originally Posted by jodired (Post 33662)
ive been told many times by Black Men that They prefer fucking mwfs to swfs; we married ladies are obviously not seeking a meal ticket or even a steady relationship. quite the contrary, we DON'T want the Men to call us the next day. we want to fuck, cum, and go on with our lives. by the time a woman reaches her mid 30s or 40s, she has come to separate love from sex. we (white women) seem to get hornier and hornier as we age, and our men cannot keep up. so...mwfs are looking for it. we LOVE it.

I don't care if she's married or single its about her wanting the dick and thats it.

Jared Black 03-09-2012 03:57 AM

Nope.
 
I'm actually qualified to answer this because my black friend's swear I'm half black.

Meaning, I'll give you a complete answer using half the space I normally use to post my POV.

Men hit on you because we were put on this earth to seed women. Men hit on you to expose your kinks, your flaws, to challenge their misunderstanding of your womanhood.

If your husband agrees to share you with the homies in the hood it's all good. If you have an open marriage, it's your right.

Let;s just assume that even if you were living in a predominantly black community and there was one Mexican who acted like his dick were the biggest thing in town, he'd hit on you too.

He's a male. Likely, he'd offer to do your landscaping first.

Don't rely on men to validate you. You are a woman, you are supposed to start wars, compete with all the other queen bees for the studliest workforce.

Jared Black 03-09-2012 04:01 AM

Bingo!
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by m4272000 (Post 33677)
Married or not. I love women. And when they like me back. It's even better.

Thank you.

Your marriage don't mean nothing to this man. His weakness is what he thinks his strength to be.

steveininlandempire 03-09-2012 05:14 AM

I find married well kept women from 30 to late 50's and beyond to be a great turn on. I guess the married part adds to the taboo so a combination of sexy, white and married is an extreme turn on mentally but I rarely even try to pick up women although my job and work area require me to work around a ton of white women. In fact, I regularly meet with good looking white women in their homes in Orange County and other areas but absolutely never act beyond the scope of my job. Due to the sensitivity of my work(not all that exciting and certainly not highly paid), I don't even give looks or imply anything of a sexual nature but wish I could:-). I also meet with quite a few attractive Hispanic and Asian women in their homes and very few black women due to my territory.

abro4irfun 05-09-2012 05:59 PM

I have done married women before, and would do more again if i had the chance. But married or not, I just wanna meet more women.

patty4fun 05-11-2012 07:26 PM

I think many black men do prefer married white women mainly because it is generally a no strings attached situation and the women involved already have an ongoing established relationship with their husbands. It is a question of knowing the difference between recreational sexual pleasure and an emotional relationship, which perhaps some single white women may have a problem with.

brothatrain 05-12-2012 12:36 AM

Truth is I work in healthcare and with a field dominated by women most are married,in a relationship, or engaged to be. As one of the blackmen in the building I see and have done it myself had interaction with these women that want the attention but only flirt with the gesture. Have I had sex with some yes but the majority just like the attention and are afraid to further travel down the hole.

Mustang Alley 05-14-2012 08:53 PM

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Originally Posted by brothatrain (Post 38432)
Have I had sex with some yes but the majority just like the attention and are afraid to further travel down the hole.

Hole? Thats a new one on me.. :p Visions of Alice in Wonderland *which I love* come to mind, Alice and her falling down that long dark rabbit hole. Once there she finds that she is surrounded by beautiful blk men, instead of the Mad Hatter its the Mad BBC, March BBC, Tweedle BBC, well you get the picture.. Its my own little version of Wonderland..

newblkman22 05-14-2012 09:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Mustang Alley (Post 38585)
Hole? Thats a new one on me.. :p Visions of Alice in Wonderland *which I love* come to mind, Alice and her falling down that long dark rabbit hole. Once there she finds that she is surrounded by beautiful blk men, instead of the Mad Hatter its the Mad BBC, March BBC, Tweedle BBC, well you get the picture.. Its my own little version of Wonderland..

Not a bad vision at all, I wonder what character I could be ?

m4272000 05-18-2012 01:46 AM

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Originally Posted by pamelaelaine (Post 38727)
Oh, of course they prefer married white women! That way they get to bust up a marriage and lord it over Whitey, and that warms the cockles of their black hearts! I am not complaining, mind you . . .

Pamela

Well I have to say you're wrong and disagree with you on us busting up a marriage. So BS. Is that what happened to you? What happened to the perfect man you said you met??

I have been with a few married couples over the years, and have not busted up any of their marriages. Matter of fact the couples are still very much together and in some case the husband wants more of my time with their wives.

Abrie 05-18-2012 05:14 AM

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Originally Posted by pamelaelaine (Post 38727)
Oh, of course they prefer married white women! That way they get to bust up a marriage and lord it over Whitey, and that warms the cockles of their black hearts! I am not complaining, mind you . . .

Pamela

What is it that you're not complaining about? - the attention you get from black men or the breaking up of marriages.
Black men prefer white women (married or not) because white women go for black men (cock).

blaquemeet 05-22-2012 04:32 AM

I agree with the no strings attached sex. Having her be white and married makes them more cautious. The taboo is a turn on, but I hold no ill will to their hubbies's. I kind of secretly thank them for not fucking there wives like beasts and treating like sluts in bed, or in the car, or park, or where ever we happen to get at each other.

Married women (white, black, asian, latina) in general are fun. Although, I have to say the married white ones almost feel that they must please "The BBC" better than any other race, or they are failures. So I say, "Keep Trying all you P.A.W.G.'s!" You are very enjoyable. :cool:

As far as breaking up marriages! It only gets broken up if they want it to. Using a Black man as the reason this is howie!

Hotwife4BBC 05-31-2012 04:31 PM

Hotwife4BBC
 
Yes, I know that is VERY true!

jenniferblonde 05-31-2012 09:43 PM

Yes!
 
I agree-black men do prefer married white girls..they hit on me all the time and I've noticed there is a big difference in how they do it when they think I'm married or not.

Mustang Alley 06-07-2012 11:10 PM

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Originally Posted by newblkman22 (Post 38586)
Not a bad vision at all, I wonder what character I could be ?


That's a very good question, which character would you like to be? :) might have to change Alice's hair color from yellow/blonde to a redhead :)

newblkman22 06-08-2012 12:05 AM

I wuld love to be the Mad Hatter but you could call me the Black Hatter lol that was lame, I'd just like to be any character you (Alice) would like.

Mustang Alley 06-10-2012 07:37 AM

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Originally Posted by newblkman22 (Post 39178)
I wuld love to be the Mad Hatter but you could call me the Black Hatter lol that was lame, I'd just like to be any character you (Alice) would like.

Oh and we would have to change her name from Alice to Alley :o

coffeeinmycream 06-12-2012 10:52 PM

I am older, wiser, and still get horny
 
The excitment of being with who can satisfy my needs, without the emotional bagage, is what attracts me, and the black men I screw appreciate that.

I have thought that I would not mind being if a full-time relationship, married or living together with one of my lovers, but, like one of the "bulls" said here, "I am just here to fuck white women", and that is all they want.

I have accepted that, and I can enjoy doing things that I would not normally do, for fear that my man would have no respect for me afterwards.

Jared Black 06-13-2012 05:07 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by pamelaelaine (Post 38727)
Oh, of course they prefer married white women! That way they get to bust up a marriage and lord it over Whitey, and that warms the cockles of their black hearts! I am not complaining, mind you . . .

Pamela

Glad you put it that way. You're too cute.

curiouserandcuriouser 06-20-2012 07:21 AM

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Originally Posted by Mustang Alley (Post 38585)
Hole? Thats a new one on me.. :p Visions of Alice in Wonderland *which I love* come to mind, Alice and her falling down that long dark rabbit hole. Once there she finds that she is surrounded by beautiful blk men, instead of the Mad Hatter its the Mad BBC, March BBC, Tweedle BBC, well you get the picture.. Its my own little version of Wonderland..


"Curiouser and curiouser" is what Alice said when she looked down the rabbit hole...

Mustang Alley 06-21-2012 07:12 AM

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Originally Posted by curiouserandcuriouser (Post 39541)

"Curiouser and curiouser" is what Alice said when she looked down the rabbit hole...

Lol, that's perfect!!! :)

Aragon4 06-21-2012 07:42 AM

I have had the same experience Sarah. black guys hitting on me regrdless of the wedding ring. Since i started hooking up with some of them, they tell me white women are better in bed and desire getting off more then single women. I know i have better orgasms with a black man. Sorry honey. its true thought

Danny Muscular Black 06-21-2012 09:41 AM

2 conversations, 1 thread! We got Alice in NiggaLand going on & others trying to tell the world married women are bull magnets!!!!

Well if I was in wonderland I'd still be Danny & I'd fuck Alice & The Queen of Hearts in a 3 some!!!

And for all you married women from my point of view I don't give a shit about your marital situation!!! If I want it! I WANT IT!!! And I usually get it, yeah it does turn me on taking another guys wife but to be honest it's not a motivation! If you tick all my boxes that's when I move in, if your holding your hubby's hand? Well......... It hasn't stopped me yet!

So married, single, engaged, mom, daughter, gran, virgin, slut, athiest or religious!!! If you get my attention & I like what I see I'll let my presence & intentions become very clear!!

Mustang Alley 06-22-2012 05:40 AM

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Originally Posted by Danny Muscular Black (Post 39572)

Well if I was in wonderland I'd still be Danny & I'd fuck Alice & The Queen of Hearts in a 3 some!!!


LOL!!! I love it!!! Let me get this straight, instead of the queen demanding OFF with your head, your plan is to have the Queen suck off your dic head?? Clever, clever indeed..

@the OP~ sorry didn't mean to high jack your thread :(.. I blame Newblk, he took my comment and started asking questions and my mind was carried away to wonderland .. :p

newblkman22 06-22-2012 01:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Mustang Alley (Post 39601)
LOL!!! I love it!!! Let me get this straight, instead of the queen demanding OFF with your head, your plan is to have the Queen suck off your dic head?? Clever, clever indeed..

@the OP~ sorry didn't mean to high jack your thread :(.. I blame Newblk, he took my comment and started asking questions and my mind was carried away to wonderland .. :p

LOL my bad but I gotta admit the whole Alley in BBC Wonderland sounds really hot and sexy.

2eassy 06-23-2012 06:14 PM

do black men perfer married white women?
 
No.....not me.....unless its an agreed thing.....cheating can get ugly.....and i'm not into ugliness:cool:


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