Raciest BBC lovers
 

Hi.
This is an interesting site. I have always known that more White females than were willing to openly admit desired Black men but I never knew that it was THIS deep. This is like a sub-culture within a culture.
My question is are there any women who love BBC but are still raciest or have raciest views against Blacks? Understand that just because you have sex with another person doesn't mean that you respect that person or even view that person as an equal (slave masters fucked their slaves and some men today fuck women who they don't respect or see them as an equal).

My question comes from seeing the word "Nigger" used on this site more times than I care to think about. I'm not trying to start WWIII here. I'm trying to find out (since we all can hide anonymously behind our screen names) if their are any White women, men, couples,etc. who enjoy Black sex but don't really care for Blacks outside of the bedroom. Are there any ladies who had raciest views that changed after trying BBC?

Please be respectful to all posters even if their views differ from yours.
Thank You

This should be interesting........

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I will say this, as a teenager in history class I would sometimes imagine myself fucking WWII-era German women who secretly snuck away from their husbands purely out of spite, but I eventually grew out of it. lol. Honestly though, I can't see myself fucking someone I don't like, or that doesn't like me. :confused:

I don't know. I have no issues with the word being used, but it depends on how it's being used. If im having sex with a woman and she says "fuck me you filthy nigger" or "give me that nigger cock" then it's more of a turn on than anything else. But if it's used in just general conversation, or out of anger then that's why I have a problem.

Some women love to be called a whore or slut and while I im not a fan of those words and dont really use them I would oblige and call them what they want. Don't get me wrong, I am in no way comparing those words to the N word. But when it comes to sex almost anything goes....at least to me ;-) hahaha

I personally don't think it has any place being used at any time. This is only my personal opinion but from my perspective any black person who uses the word forfeits his/her right to complain when being racially abused by someone who uses the same word against them.

It's ignorant and disrespectful to those who came before us an fought for out rights to be equal.

N-word Sex
 

It turns me on sexually ;)!

Thats a good question,
Id like to know that myself!!!

I only have used the word when the man indicates that he desires me to. It is not a word I use in normal conversation and I think it is very demeaning. I can understand why there are people on both sides of this fence.

If the man wants the woman to call him a "n" and it makes him fuck her better, then say it. Honestly speaking most of the descriptive words used in the bedroom wouldn't fly outside of the bedroom. Call most women a bitch outside of the bedroom and it could start a problem.

Very good post. Within a week or two, of no responds from white women. You'll have your answer.

Racist BBC
 

Well I know for a fact that there are some women or couples that hold very racist views, and some don't really realise it, but some do. There are many many women who want to have sex with a black man and do have sex with black men, but would never have a real or serious relationship with one. Many white women love for BBC is a secret, they would never be publicly seen with a black man, or bring a black man around there family or Friends. For some Black men are only seen as a fuck beast with no real value or qualities outside of sex. But then some white women adore black men, and publicly scream it from the mountain tops. But most are very discrete about their BBC love.

Im not racist at all but I too have used the "N" word while having sex

I agree completely. I hate the word and think it's ugly and demeaning. But we all tend to say things in the bedroom that we wouldn't say anywhere else.

wow!!!!!
 

and u will understand when u stop think like a child.

Interesting topic. I come from a family with fairly racist views because of their upbringing. Not a racism of hatred and contempt, but certainly one of recognized differences. I remember being at a mall with my grandmother one time and some black kids were playing by where we were sitting. She commented to me about the "cute little nigger babies". It surprised me and I don't remember commenting back to her. Her tone was kind and one of adoration for the children while at the same time being undeniably racist.

My wife's family is a little racist out of lack of knowledge and understanding more than anything. There are no blacks where they live so when they see one around they are apprehensive and suspicious; like a deer in the presence of a lion.

My wife and I do not have any racist feelings to speak of. We had very little association with black people prior to my wife's boyfriend making her fuck a few of them. Not by choice, just by opportunity. Now my wife has fucked hundreds of black men and even has a black baby. A fact we have hidden from our family and friends because it seems a whole lot easier then explaining the reality of our situation. I certainly don't think our families would ever understand.

I have found a lot of racism here as well, but more from the standpoint of people feeling black men are far superior to white men, and that white women have a responsibility to give them all the sex they want. This idea is ridiculous to me. Black people are just people. Same as anybody else. There are certainly racial differences between groups of people. Black men tend to have bigger cocks on average certainly, but my wife had a white boyfriend with an 11 inch cock who was very sexually aggressive and could cum a huge amount five or six times a day. None of it is absolute. There are wimpy black nerds too. That being said, I enjoy interracial sex for the sharp contrast and the social taboo aspect of it. I enjoy my wife being secretly slutty, no matter who is fucking her. I love that she spends her days getting her pretty white pussy stretched out by big dicked men no matter what race. All the cum inside her is white no matter who it came out of...

Great topic and a lot of well reasoned, interesting responses. I think it is quite possible for many racists who are white or black to have sex with the other race. I read this story a couple of years ago where some white couples approach their interracial desire with a mindset that didn't allow them to consider the black male as an equal but more of a sexual object. I think one can certainly respect or like someone intellectually speaking and not sexually or work well with someone but not have any desire to live near the person or associate outside of work. I guess many of us have our ways of separating our lives into compartments. Certain people we act different around or certain behaviors we exhibit with some but not with others. There are certain black males I will use the term nigger around and others I will not, certain people I use profanity around and others I won't, certain places I will take a 'booty call' date to and other places I will not, etc. speculating that for some white couples, having the white wife to get pounded by a black stud represents the ultimate taboo in society and to secretly carry on in this fashion gives all interested parties an emotional, physical and sexual thrill or high that is not easily found.

My wife is from the deep south and her family is very racist. Amie thinks that is part of the reason she is so turned on by black men. She her father and brothers and other family member's attitude is so wrong. She thinks black men are so handsome and sexy and loves having sex with them. Before she met me she dated them when she was in college but kept that information a secret from her family. She told me she likes black men for the sex but prefers white men for long term relationships.
She loves it when part of our dirty talk when we have sex involves me asking her stuff like:
"Your family would be so angry if they knew are a slut for big bare black cocks wouldn't they?"
She answers with stuff like, "Oh, they would call me a filthy whore and disown me!"

Nehighlander, yours is another good response along with so many others. I'm mentioning this not to dig up negative horrific history but just a couple of generations ago, even the pursuit or desire of interracial sex expressed by a black male in a subtle and/or non touching way such as a stare, certain smile, compliment, etc. could literally lead to death. Historically, this happened many times in this country now fast forward to the present and the recent past and all of a sudden, what use to constitute death, physical injury or being ostracized from one group is now okay or at least light years more acceptable. The forbidden fruit, whether viewed by some black males or some white females, is now available without great cost or fear. For some, I think the desire and secrecy involved is tantamount to working for a secretive organization whether it is the CIA, undercover law enforcement, corporate espionage, etc. meaning that many don't want to get caught and the payoff is so sensual, rewarding and pleasurable that you put it on the line to get what you want. Just my two cents.

Yes, pretty much the case. One thing I failed to mention was that my wife's grandfather was a Klan member and proud of it. You can imagine his views of black men with white women, he must be turning over in his grave over what Amie has done!

That's the truth, a sad one but the truth just the same...


Mountain tops? wow, I am afraid of heights so I just stick to screaming off roof tops. ;)

Steve, I thought your statements were the most sound and reasoned and even honest that was posted. Everyone has a different perspective, and that causes people to vary in their outlook, desires, and method of satisfying those desires. I am 20 but I do have an understand ing of the history of it, having heard about it from family members, as well as from older black people. Living in a small town in the Deep South puts me on a somewhat different footing than someone living in , say, New York City. If I have a need for privacy or secrecy, then that is just the way it is. If I was in NYC, then that privacy would not be as much of a factor. Anyone can be anonymous there. Anyway, just my two bits worth LOL

Katie

Thinking like a what?
 

That was humorous.

I do this a lot when fucking white chicks. "How would your daddy feel if he knew you getting fucked by nigger" . I asked one chick this and she came instantly. I think it turned her on even more.

Who's Ya Daddy???
 

I asked one white chick I was fuckin' what she would do if her daddy walked in and caught her fuckin' a nigga . . . would she stop or keep fuckin'? She said she would keep fuckin' and say, "Daddy this black dick feels so good!" LOL! Some white girls will cum just from a black man sayin' dirty, racial stuff to her, like "I love your milk white snow bunny ass" blah, blah, blah LOL!

Nah, ain't happening, no scallywag is calling me racist names without me checking her to where her soul is hurt afterwards regardless of what preprogrammed internet fantasy she has. Let another corny sucker black male accept that, chick MUST respect me in public and private across the board or else I can't be around her and the weak shit she on.

Every dude is different but I'm not desperate for "white pussy" like many other guys. I give props to those females who do genuinely love and understand a black man and not doing it as a fad or something just to tell their close friends during home wine drinking moments or some bullshit.

I respect this. But during sex I gotta hear it.

I would not use the 'n' word. It's a word I heard a lot growing up from the Italian guys in my neighborhood and it wasn't meant in a nice way. They were looking for a fight.

I did have one young black guy use it with me when I was sucking him, something like - "you sure like that n****r dick don't you". I said I did it but wouldn't use the word itself. It's just a real bad word in my book. I didn't judge him for saying it, especially because he is younger. But I won't use it.

I would say a lot of white women fucking black men are still racist, though would say they aren't. I know that statement won't win me any popularity contests, but white privilege is very real and very much ingrained in the fabric of our society.

You're right. I mean, I bet only a small fraction of these spade hunters would actually consider dating a black guy or marrying one of us for that matter, and even if more would, their families probably would not approve at all, so they just fore go the experience in order to avoid friction.

Upon revisiting this thread, an impression that came to mind was an initial statement made concerning the words "whore" and "slut". The poster said that they were bad but not on the level of "nigger" . Actually, I have a problem when you prioritize the seriousness of slurs, whether they be racial slurs or gender slurs. I have had men use those terms when there was not basis to use them, because they had not seen me to be a whore or a slut.

As for the original question, I am sure there are racists here, of all races, and I am sure many racists have had sexual relations with another race in spite of it. It depends on how deep a relationship advances that would determine if a person's views change because of it.

And just one more thought for what its worth: the term racist is way overused...you can be prejudiced without being racist. A person's racial views are influenced by environment, upbringing, life experiences, etc. You can be prejudiced but if you control those prejudices instead of letting them control you and your behavior toward others, then I would definitely say you are not racist.

Just a few random thoughts on a rainy Wednesday.

I think the original question was a good one and resulted in some pretty thoughtful replies. As a guy that came pretty close to marrying a woman from Africa (I'm white by the way.) I know how hurtful and sensitive people can be when racist labels are thrown around. I would have never called her a bitch, whore or use the N word. Partly because she would have probably had my head right after that. But considering the responses to this thread maybe a follow up question should be asked. That is the attraction, and I don't mean a big dick, to interracial sex. I mean are is its being taboo, and the edge that brings, or is there something else that attracts you. And that question would be for both the black guys as well as the white women. In fact it could also go for a white guy and black woman. Enjoying the responses to this thread as they seem pretty deep and not full of the BS I see on posts.

Small fraction
 

Not quite understanding this question cause if a girls racist why would she wanna have interracial sex to begin with? About the N word thing. I've had 3 or 4 black lovers who make me say it and one (whos kinda regular) who knows how much I get off on kissing. He makes me ask to be "nigger lipped" and makes me tell his friends that I love being nigger lipped while he kisses me. Not sure if theres any right answer to this thread but theres sure a lot of interesting indeas and replies thats for sure. Anyways, my 2 cents.

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I could not agree more. All about respect. Some shit on this site is crazy. I am still curious about this topic coming from NY myself and now still new to living in the south.

I still see some ppl with black men sex fetishes are still on the dunce BS and getting their preferences from lame pop culture and bad acting stereotype interracial porn. I guess they can convince a weak/goofy or uninformed one to go along with their program and offerings for a fool but not over here, best believe those same chicks or couples would get checked early by a real black man with some sense of self and I'm pretty sure they want me physically (and likely mentally/emotionally) more than I would want any of those type of females offering anything sexually since I'm far from thirsty/desperate/gullible (and I def don't entertain the possible Catfish). Instead of corny racist gimmicks and e-whore demands come with some real personality and maybe some of you "ladies" would get better results with some real guys on here or even in person, if you're willing to listen.

To add: if a black man likes that's on him to allow that personally but the problem lies with a guy like me meeting chicks who like it/were allowed by a black simp to say racist shit and think they get a pass over here because they're last black boyfriend/fuck friend/babydaddy/gangbang participant said it was cool or thought they were "down". FOH with that, I'm gonna check you first quarter regardless of your background or stripes you got with someone else. You want the D? Better have some overall sense and act right because "settling" and having IR sex with trashy girls isn't something I'm down for.

I don't use the n word. I will add, however, that I get tired of hearing music that continuously uses the word over and over again. I know there are blacks who are against the use of this word, but yet the music is filled with it. Apparently the word isn't as offensive as would seem. The black community seems to have two schools of thought on its use and seems to be somewhat divided. I'm white, I don't use it.

I'm against the use of the n-word too. It's an American thing, but some black people in other countries are copying it. I think it should be rejected completely. Why try to re-appropriate a derogatory name?

I don't believe that a white woman who decides to say it in the bedroom would never use it if she got really angry. You probably sometimes use the word in your mind if you ever say it out loud.