To be Honest..
 

There are some real people here..you just have to weed through the BullS*&t & say to yourself ..what am I looking for.
I've found a couple of interested women & couples in which we talk & email & set things up, plus I'll keep everyone updated but remember this...
Nobody Fucks a Quitter! ;)

Ty for sayin that,i was beginnin to think this was a empty site woth jst men lookin

I've met one guy on here once and he never contacted me after so i guess i wasn't what he wanted... girls have to be careful though, i don't want to walk into something that's different from what we talk about

dsoul-60, this is really a great topic and I have enjoyed the good responses. I'm speculating that some couples might be concern about safety issues and I would hope that guys like myself who literally put ourselves out there, will receive the benefit of a doubt. What I mean by putting ourselves out there is posting profiles with our pictures, preferences, locations but especially our pictures. As commented on in the past, I find it irritating that so many 'members' lack the courage or courtesy to develop a proficient profile. Even if you don't post pictures, you can be descriptive...milf, mature, bbw, attractive, long haired, looks like Morgan Fairchild, medium build, athletic, could lose a few lbs, looks are probably 6 on a scale of 10, etc., the sky's the limit and what about posting your location? I have made connection with friends from around the world but if I know someone is local, well that really spikes my interest. As mentioned on another occasion, I got a ton of emails and visits from local couples several weeks after joining on 12/30/11 and that has abruptly changed. I'm also having some problems with even convincing some couples to meet for coffee. My goodness, do you actually equate having a latte with sex? It's just a meeting to decide if we go on from there and yet this seems like an insurmountable task for some. My preference is really not to go to bars or deal with the crowds. I figure that such a site like this allows you to cut through the mustard and I have met two really cool couples just trying to meet more and make my investment of time here worthwhile on a continuing basis.

2 Meets
 

Hi we havent been into this long but has a meet last weekend & met another guy yeasrterday

In all Honesty...
 

I know exactly why I'm on this site... looking to meet white women of course. I have no problem meeting women in person and i'm always getting hit on but this site expanding my horizons. so for all the men or women who are like "I'm just on here to be on here" you really need to figure out why and just remember closed mouths do not get fed

Real Meets.
 

real vs fantasy.... We have actually met 1 person on here and the wife did play with him... I've chatted with another guy on here but we never did meet cause of issues I didn't feel safe with because of locations of the meet. There's a few guys on here that my wife would like to meet up with to play but schedules are a bitch when you have to work and family to juggle.

Whatever site you use there is always the potential to run into flakes. thats just the interenet and lots of people fanatasizing about the lifestyle. That's the main reason my wife rarely gets online to search for playmates.. I do all the screenings and set ups , thats how she likes it and it has been working for us for a few years now.

Personally, I'll continue to act like a male, dress like a male looking for a male for the wife!

WW

Thanks Mustang. I already posted on this thread a while back.... I have had some success on ILI. I can fly from place to place because of my job so of course my results aren't typical like most guys here (I'm guessing).