Any Real Meetings Here??!!
 

I'm just as curious to know how many fakers there are in this site. How many in here have actually wanted to meet with black men and till this day are scared to pick up the challenge ... or some are just too fake, pretending to wanting to be part of the lifestyle and always backing out when the moment calls.

Ever met anyone in here for real?

I'm asking this question because I certainly haven't. Folks just want me to add them to my friends' list after which I never hear from them anymore. WTF?!!!!?

Funny you should create a thread about this today, because I was supposed to meet a fellow member tonight for a little fun. She insisted on getting the room and also would not allow me to take pics with my camera. I asked her "so you're the only one who gets to take pics?" her response was "that's right". I replied "yea I'm not really down with that, it seems a little one sided" her reply was "too bad"

I told her that id have to decline our encounter and that was that. I mean if you insist on getting the room, that alone makes me feel a little weird. Like I could be walking into a jack haha, but when she said I couldn't take photos but she could that's when I was like yea fuck all that and dropped it

It's hard meeting people on this site. Hahaha I've had more luck with CL hahaha and CL has only worked once for me. Kind of makes having a VIP membership pointless.

Yes
 

We live in Toronto, canada, and we're not sure how many members live close to us. We do have encounters with BBC, just that not with members on this site. It started with couples where the male was BBC, then slowly it was ok for us to do MFM with the other M was BBC of course. So far we had wht/latino/blk/asian. We started out young (20s) with this life style, on and off between having kids, and we do not "play" very often, but we usually play on 1st meeting, either over a cup of coffee, a beer in a bar or str8 to the hotel/motel room.
All over all, we had a great experience with all the couples and all the males we met.

That's so funny. The woman I was supposed to meet was from Toronto. I'm from Buffalo.

@Mustang yea thanks, I was excited to actually meet someone but I just got a really weird feeling about this one haha. I'm glad you've been having luck.

Heres some food for thought.....White women can get black dick anytime they want, especially the ones who are classified as being HOT. If anybody on here is disappointed by not hooking up with someone from this site.....have no fear. Use this site as a spring board of confidence, to go to the real world and mingle, as much as you can, without coming off thirsty. When shes feeling you, you must make her a top priority for that night. If you play it smart, chances are YOUR FUCKIN' THAT NIGHT!!
PS.....don't start talkin' bout social issues, cause they ain't trying to hear that shit. Lay that black dick on them.....cause that's what their lookin' for.
Peace & Happy Fuckin'!!!!!

From a real person here also who does enjoy the (unfortunately rare) meet ups: with this and two other sites I've had about a 10% success rate with actual meetings. It was an eye opener that one of the gentlemen who posted here assumed that no meetings actually ever took place (he's put some nice comments on some of my profile pics)--for me it's not about showing what I've got with no end purpose in sight, and fishing for compliments. For me it's about actual meets, physical pleasure, and mutual enjoyment. Having only been on the site since January, I'm still optimistic---we need to boost those percentages, though, guys!

I have and you are next on my "TO DO" list Mustang. You are one sexy desirable woman.;)

I have met several women from this site: two in GA, one in Cali, and one in Vegas, and I must say that real meets are very few and far inbetween. I must also say that the ladies who did meet were worth the effort of emails and phone calls etc. It sucks but you have to work through the fakes, the fantasizers, the hags, and men posing as women to get to the true BBC queens. Fellas you have to interact as well. What I mean is go into the chat room, leave comments (compliments), cruise the forums, email, etc. Dont be to pushy, dont be too ghetto, and most of all have some conversation, and you too can be fuckin in no time.

I am real but I haven't taken the step of actually meeting yet. I have plenty of black guys in real life this site is just fun for posting and chatting I guess. I am not totally against the idea maybe I'm just a little scared is all

To be Honest..
 

There are some real people here..you just have to weed through the BullS*&t & say to yourself ..what am I looking for.
I've found a couple of interested women & couples in which we talk & email & set things up, plus I'll keep everyone updated but remember this...
Nobody Fucks a Quitter! ;)

Ty for sayin that,i was beginnin to think this was a empty site woth jst men lookin

I've met one guy on here once and he never contacted me after so i guess i wasn't what he wanted... girls have to be careful though, i don't want to walk into something that's different from what we talk about

dsoul-60, this is really a great topic and I have enjoyed the good responses. I'm speculating that some couples might be concern about safety issues and I would hope that guys like myself who literally put ourselves out there, will receive the benefit of a doubt. What I mean by putting ourselves out there is posting profiles with our pictures, preferences, locations but especially our pictures. As commented on in the past, I find it irritating that so many 'members' lack the courage or courtesy to develop a proficient profile. Even if you don't post pictures, you can be descriptive...milf, mature, bbw, attractive, long haired, looks like Morgan Fairchild, medium build, athletic, could lose a few lbs, looks are probably 6 on a scale of 10, etc., the sky's the limit and what about posting your location? I have made connection with friends from around the world but if I know someone is local, well that really spikes my interest. As mentioned on another occasion, I got a ton of emails and visits from local couples several weeks after joining on 12/30/11 and that has abruptly changed. I'm also having some problems with even convincing some couples to meet for coffee. My goodness, do you actually equate having a latte with sex? It's just a meeting to decide if we go on from there and yet this seems like an insurmountable task for some. My preference is really not to go to bars or deal with the crowds. I figure that such a site like this allows you to cut through the mustard and I have met two really cool couples just trying to meet more and make my investment of time here worthwhile on a continuing basis.

2 Meets
 

Hi we havent been into this long but has a meet last weekend & met another guy yeasrterday

In all Honesty...
 

I know exactly why I'm on this site... looking to meet white women of course. I have no problem meeting women in person and i'm always getting hit on but this site expanding my horizons. so for all the men or women who are like "I'm just on here to be on here" you really need to figure out why and just remember closed mouths do not get fed

Real Meets.
 

real vs fantasy.... We have actually met 1 person on here and the wife did play with him... I've chatted with another guy on here but we never did meet cause of issues I didn't feel safe with because of locations of the meet. There's a few guys on here that my wife would like to meet up with to play but schedules are a bitch when you have to work and family to juggle.

Whatever site you use there is always the potential to run into flakes. thats just the interenet and lots of people fanatasizing about the lifestyle. That's the main reason my wife rarely gets online to search for playmates.. I do all the screenings and set ups , thats how she likes it and it has been working for us for a few years now.

Personally, I'll continue to act like a male, dress like a male looking for a male for the wife!

WW

Thanks Mustang. I already posted on this thread a while back.... I have had some success on ILI. I can fly from place to place because of my job so of course my results aren't typical like most guys here (I'm guessing).

Take the good with the bad
 

with today's ability to download any pic, I find guys sending me pics of a black dick that can be anyone's. I have learned from experience that if they cant send a pic in a mirror holding a sign with my name on it, they are not real and I don't waste my time. But I have met a few guys here.

oops my bad, I didn't realize you had posted in this thread or was aware of it.. Didn't bother (it was very late) to read all the replies last night before bumping up. ;)

"fly from place to place" that's cool, yea you are probably right about meeting more women from ili because you can zip all over the place in search of them.Ha Ha, I'm picturing you in a super hero costume (BBC in bold letters on your chest) flying from place to place servicing women. ;)

We have meet one couple with similar 'interests' and a man from here all at once, it was a VERY fun encounter, but all 5 of us were also on lifestyle lounge and AFF, our 40+ pics all of ME are proof enough were real, but to be honest would be hesitant to meet up with someone who is only on here without caming of getting some other proof first. LL has a nice Real Seal feature which only means you exist and look like your pics, we have found it to be pretty reliable, were chichoclover on AFF and foxyriley on LL if anyone is on there,
Foxy

Previous/current Meets
 

I have had the pleasure of meeting some great people on here. Those who I have met, well represented themselves as they have on here.

Real - yep!
 

Hi

We're a UK couple and we met a guy in London a couple of weeks back...blakdreem...

Happy to report got a pounding last night from a sexy chocolate gentleman:D

Just be yourself and ....
 

Good things will " Cum"
So speaking for myself good things keep happening because open minds attract " Open Minds"
And if your efforts aren't working to get what you want ..then " Re-double " them & never give up,
because when you " Quit" the race ...your labeled as a quitter & the morale of the story is ....
" Nobody wants to " Fuck " a Loser ! " ;)

Off the topic but, not really
 

I have had several real meetings with women from this site and actually I'm in the mood to indiscriminately fuck someone at the moment so, women in my area hit me up

Now, that's one hell of a welcome back to ILI gift!!!







Amen, Tay Amen!!





*runs* to check your profile for your location.. lol... :p
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Its really nice to see that others actually do hook up from here... keep up the good sex ya'll...

Ready to give up
 

We are a white couple, very real, and very picky. I would venture to say there are as many male posers on here as females. We have been trying for a long time to meet a decent black male. When we do happen to have contact with one that is in our area from this site, they come off as crude and cocky. The first message we receive from you should not be.." Hey you white ho, you want me to give you this black dick" or any other down right rude an unintelligent comment that you would not seriously say to someone you do not even know. What ever happened to.." Hey would love to chat with you guys some and see if there is a chemistry there" or something along those lines. Every couple on here is not some slut whore wife that will fuck anything , and is married to some wimpy cuckold lil dicked white boy. We are a normal professional married couple that likes to spice up our sex life from time to time. Politeness and intelligence is just as important as the size of your dick. You will never meet my wife without me being present unless a long term trusting relationship is developed. ..you will not " knock her up" or " pimp her out" as some guys that have contacted us suggested they would do. That is not real world ...and any level headed person knows this. Should this find any sincere black males in our area feel free to message us, find out what it is we are looking for( we are very experienced in this lifestyle and know what we want) and we will go from there.

Yes I have had som fun times with gangbang king, make your toes curl, chris, pj .cant wait to be fuck bye gangbang king& makeyour toes curl again.they sure know how to show a girl a good time.I love fucking having two black men do what they want to me....I'm such a slut!!:p

I have met 3 couples and 1 single female.
 

I have been on this site for about 4 years now and out of the 200 I have on my friends list I have met 3 couples and 1 single female. One of the couples I have hooked up with several times. The wives wanted some black dick and I supplied it. I have found that 90 percent of who I meet online here are either playing games and not serious about meeting, a cuck guy or bi guy pretending to be a female with a woman's picture on their fake profile. I guess these bi/gay guys have this fantasy of having sex with a straight guy...I am a straight guy so I always try and figure out who is real or not as qickly as possible.
Rockhardpapi

Thanks 'Stang:) Double could not agree more! You should see the crazy ass emails we get, and I also 100% agree that the crazy a posters responses are, breeding, pimping, etc.. it is almost a guarantee that they are fake as shit as well as crazy as shit:cool:

Real Meetings
 

We are a couple who have hooked up more then once using this site. You can tell when a profile is bogus. :)

I live in South Africa....and I have met 2 couples from this site!!!

I am 100% real as well, and have met someone from this site, just this past week. We met for coffee and had a nice chat. May be getting together again soon, depending on how the schedules work out.

I know this is not really meant to be a dating site, per se, but I am not the type to go out clubbing and suck off some guy I've just met in the mens room. Might work for some women, but that's just not me. And I'm not looking for the kind of guy who would expect that. I want to see if there's a connection first. This connection can start with emails or messages, then over coffee, and see if both want to take it further.

We just met up with a member from this site in Vegas for my wife's first BBC. It was great.

Exactly!!!!!

Yep
 

I've met someone off here and we had a great time. Can't wait to see him again!