Other than hooking up...
 

Has anyone had a full blown relationship through ILI?

Finding love on an amateur porn site
 

I met a man on here over one year ago and we are still going strong. We still laugh about how we came here looking for one thing and wound up with something so much greater. He says he just likes looking at the videos, and I popped up on the home page and he messaged me and here we are. My close friends know how we met, but other people think we met on a poetry forum. So to that I can only say "Somewhere ages and ages hence, I shall be telling this with a sigh; I met the man of my dreams in a place called ILI... "

I met quite a few people from this site in the Greater Toronto Area. My advice is hang in there. There are real people on this site.

I haven't met anyone from this site because none are local to me, but the possibilities are there. My job simply prevents me from traveling for a meet and circumstances prevent me from having someone over. Don't give up hope, it can happen here.

While we've met lots of playmates from the internet, mostly from our site and some swinger sites we're members on, we so far have not hooked up with anyone from here yet.

I have !
 

I met one, all the others became members

Yup Once!
 

she's a good person and we had fun but we don't really see eye to eye on things anymore, anyway it can happen just don't come here with those expectations...When i was active on here i had honest and pretty consistent pics to show i was pretty real plus i can cam verify etc...I wonder if its worth filling out this profile and putting pics back on when theres very few people on here from NYC...a city of 8 Million!:D

Yes... it happens.... has happened lol.. I actually know of 3 couples who met right here on ili.. :)







My goodness, has it been a year already? Time fly's when your having fun.... *muah* hugs and love to C&C ................ so happy to see a post from you.. :)

You have a very strong Point

Be real!
 

well we are real put up brand new pic from this past friday of the wife with a 9 in BBC but yea there are alot of fakes out there and some like us sit with elder parents have a hard time getting out but when we do she really enjoys a good fucking

I've met several people on this site . A couple did not work out and one was a lot of fin.
2 others the time schedules just don't click - but not completely giving up.
Just be yourself and be honest wih what you are looking for. Have fun!


Humbly, sahndrahspanked

We have...once
 

We recently played with a guy we met on here. Though it took a while to get together, we finally did and things went pretty well. We have posted a short video of the fun. That said, we have been disappointed a few times when the guys failed to show up after lining up a date. What's with that? Guys are always saying that all the couples are fake and that hookups never happen, but when they have the chance, they flake. Either follow through or don't whine about what isn't happening for you.

Hook up
 

I can report one almost hook up from this site. I actually met him for lunch but he was nothing like his profile or pics. I was nice but turned off so I didn't take it any further. My expectations were high...very high, and the reality was so different that it made me afraid to pursue a sexual encounter with someone who essentially lied to me. I paid for the lunch and said goodbye. I'm definitely real but I am cautious and married so if you want me, be honest and patient because I can't do everything that other single girls or girls with encouraging husbands can do. I have a few regular bbc boyfriends so I'm never left without the things I need so I can be fairly picky...sorry.

I met a woman from this site about a year ago, we ended up not having sex but made out. I wasn't sure of what she was afraid of, but we chat from time to time.

same problem
 

same problem here, they back out at the last moment and you never hear from them again. AFF and Craigslist have been much easier to meet people. I live in NYC. you'd think there would be someone actually willing to meet.

I met my white girlfriend and her husband through this site. I was so shocked that it actually was happening because so many people on here are fake.

We are a couple that does not have a lot of opportunities to meet and invite another guy into our bed for a MMF. I am up front about this constraint and state on our profile page that we do not play with others very often. Between our personal relationship as a couple and kids and jobs and community commitments/obligations and the randomness of life in general, there is just not much opportunity for us to invite and share our bed with another guy and an MMF is not that high of a priority for us. But it does happen from time to time, and we enjoy those times when they do occur. Just because we cannot hook up now or this weekend does not mean we are fake or posers. I am sure there are a lot of teasers on ILI just like there is on AFF and CL; however inviting another guy into our bed really is a once or twice a year event and requires a lot of planning on our part. Patience is sometimes needed and required.

We live in the Netherlands so for us it would be quite difficult to met with someone in the USA :D

i am real
 

I am real have just not found anyone that wants friends first as my wife is not a meet and fuck I would also like to meet friends closer to my area I have with some but probably is travel right now as I have some issues with a tenant that I've got stick close my area right now so to answer your ? I am real just no luck yet

awww
 

i am real !!! and shall be playing in amsterdam this weekend , maybe B1 cinema
xxx maybe friday

Trying
 

Been trying very hard to find a black man from this site to meet up with. There are a few qualifications of course other than just being black.....but we have had zero luck. I mean we have other sources of course...but would love to find some from here as well.

met 2
 

I have met 2 wonderful females from the site. Both were serious about meeting and we continue to play occasional.

We have hooked uo 4 x in 2 weeks...none from here, I'm sorry to say...but am finally getting to harvest from these damned postings! Its looking good!

I'm just starting to get involved here. I have no real clue what I'm doing... Not sure if I'll get someone based on what I've been reading. Does anyone have any good tips for me?

Tricky LV
 

I haven't met up with any women on here. Las Vegas is kinda tricky to meet white (and other) women here who want Black Dick. on the streets, when you speak to them, they either stare at you, ignore you or run off, fast! I moved here from Miami, where the women are plentiful and very beautiful and the ratio of women to men is 8 to 1.
I remember meeting a girl, when I first came here, staring at me. she worked in a movie theater. I went at her and then I went to see a movie. she kept coming inside the movie theater I was in so I said you must want something, so I took her in the back at started kissing her. some people walked into the entrance and saw us kissing, she got scared and raised her voice and pushed me away because they saw us, after they left she started kissing me. then, someone else walked in and she did it again! spouting some shit about losing her job. whatever. so I met her at the mall after that and she wanted to kiss me. someone she knew saw her kissing me and commented on it and she got mad and told him we weren't together and not to tell anyone. he shook my hand and said I hope you don't think every one here is that way. I never spoke to her after.
I've talked to a few women on CL but a large majority of women are working girls. I say, to them, get your hustle on.
Occasionally, I might run into a few women during some conventions here and there from out-of-town. matter of fact, it seems they're the ones who really want BBC! but for the most part I just keep my mind on working and stacking my paper and keep my BBC to myself or let loose when I leave for trips out of Vegas.

Does anyone find that they get comfortable with a couple of guys and find themselves hooking up with them over and over rather then chasing the unknown?

wife and I have hooked up with 2 bbc from this site in Toronto and had a blast !!!... continuing with the cuckold and sharing lifestyle today that we both are enjoying greatly!!!