Do Women Like Nice Guys ?
 

I have a question for the women here do any of you like nice black men?

That's the only kind I like, nice doesn't equal weak, and being kind doesn't mean your less of a man, if anything more of one

Interesting...
 

I've wanted to ask the same thing many times. I think some women do, most like assholes. I cannot tell you how many beautiful women I've encountered who go for the guy who mistreats them, horribly, or a guy who pays them no mind. When showing people like this affection they turn on YOU for being controlling, etc. kinda projecting the bad habits of their current former lovers upon your personality. Puzzling.

It really goes to patterns of people's behavior, prior abuse etc. It the same way those douchey guys came into being, being abused. Really, if you're not abused, you're probably not going to be an asshole. You'll probably not have a penchant for people who are assholes.

The real hurt comes in when you try to "show" a person (taking it from the gender bias to general people here) who has such a piss poor past, that you are different. I mean really, once you figure this out about a person, and you decide to give it a shot, who is the one loving the abuse now? - being rhetorical. Another outcome is observing repeated poor behavior of your chosen pal, and the poor choices they make. Then another outcome is that it all ends up pretty good since you are the nice person and you're just what they needed to snap them out of it.

any and all outcomes are possible. good to bad.

I think a lot of women and indeed people in our society here in the US are victims of abuse. Either they repair themselves or they just remain damaged, like most of us.

The capability to find a kind person or to find someone who likes kind people is to basically hang around those people yourself. trying to find anyone online is just a crapshoot, nothing beats direct human interaction.

Everyone deserves a shot and sometimes a second chance. After that...well then it's up to you.

Nice.
 

Well said.

I agree, I too only like meeting with nice BBC men...even tho they are nice and respectful, they still no how to treat me like their white slut when fucking me...hope this helps ;)

Cool I hope you think I am a nice guy. :)

Politeness and a friendly manner coupled with good humor are the qualities I look for and I cannot understand why some women are attracted to men who speak to them badly and treat them roughly. My boyfriend is African and so warm , thoughtful and such a good natured person, which is why we have been seeing each other for about five years now.

Yes we do but for some reason the nice ones are either taken or hiding

sex is one thing, we like it rough from time to time and we want our men to be jerks while having sex. but back in everyday life, being nice is a HUGE plus for every guy. it's too bad guys are mostly one or the other, so we have to compensate with several...oh wait :P

I disagree, If you are talking about an actual relationship (as I believe Newblk was) then no SELF RESPECTiNG woman would want a jerk for a "soul mate" .. Just because a guy is nice doesn't mean he is weak,.

Yes I was talking about an actual relationship, not all the time it just feels like "nice guys" get passed up for said jerk, I just wanted to ask some of the ladies here their opinion and once again you prove why your the perfect woman you gave me an honest and intelligent answer.

What every woman wants is a nice guy who really knows how to please them mentally, physically and in some case, financially. Nice guys will get more pussy and ass than any jerk ever could. It's all about attitude. I don't think and believe most woman want a jerk in their lives, just like men don't want a bitch in theirs either. Slut or a whore, Yes, maybe!!! Women wants a man who can appreciate them for who they are, satisfy them in and out of the bedroom and will make them feel special like they are.

Nice guys aren't taken or hidng often we are just missed because people dont want to notice whats good for them over whats bad.

Walking The Tallk
 

Every woman right down to the last one will SAY she wants a nice guy, but the truth is that many, many women are attracted to and end up with "bad boys". Often times, these women think that they can "change" the guy into something he isn't. It's a recipe for disaster.

Same thing for guys attracted to "fast and easy" troubled women. Some of these guys like to play "Captains-Save-A-Ho" thinking they can "save" the woman, when in fact, she doesn't want to be saved from anything, including herself. Many men fantasize about being with a slut or a ho, but if and when the dream comes true, they can end up with a nightmare on their hands that they can't handle.

What you got against ATM baby??? You seriously think I would refuse to put my mouth to your ass? :D If you have not tried it, then you have no idea just how incredible nasty and kinky ATM is. Where is my bags?? I think I am coming to Mississippi.

lol, I said ATM (ass to mouth) not MTA (mouth to ass) :p lol. Ya know we had that discussion a long time ago, about doing anal, pulling out and then sticking the dck right into her mouth.. Umm that would be in my mouth and that's a big No Go on that!! Now MTA (mouth to ass) well that's ur mouth and my ass, knock yourself out!! Lol

Atm & Mta
 

SELFISH :)! HAHAHA :D!! I've done "mouth to ass to mouth" many times . . . slurp that booty hole out then deep kiss LOL! Many women seem to like this. They get so turned on by a man munchin' that butt hole out that they end up agreeing to all kinds of things!

I've never had a girl do my dick from ass to mouth, but one time a chick requested that I go directly from her ass to her pussy. I was surprised since that could lead to an infection. Well, she said she wanted it, so that's that I gave her. Went from that butt hole right to the cootchie hole.

Wild Mustangs are hard to train. But not impossible to be broken. With the right man at the right time, very often a big no go can becomes a "damn, that was amazing" and I am ready and willing to knock myself out for a :p tongue trip up your Alley Mustang. ATM/MTA, really no difference. It's all comes down to being clean. And I have no doubt you would only let your man stick his tongue in your ass when its clean. That's what we call a lucky man. :p

Bags packed and just waiting for the green light from you.

Being a Gentleman Isn't Being Nice.........
 

I've found that "nice" is too relative a word to describe a man's approach to a woman. Being a gentleman with a sense of humor but with a No BS approach confidence and straight forwardness is appreciated more. Nice is too general of a term and misleading. It's generally used to characterize something with acceptable aspects but is not compelling or desirable.

I believe when a woman or couple on this site meet a black male they expect a gentleMAN. And I'm not referring to just a BBC. Interesting and stimulating conversation, mutual respect, courtesy in the "palor" and BLACK STEEL in a velvet glove in the sack. I have no doubt that the majority of women on this site are familar with "NICE" guys they wouldn't want to fuck. There isn't much passion or chemistry in "nice". The "nice" approach fails to convey a definite and unclouded appreciation of the female's sensuality and desirability.

Totaly agree with Big Daddy.

Bottom line is often the nice guys hang back and miss out.

lol M427, I told you a loooong time ago, my ass is so clean it taste like lettuce.. :p

Oh and shug, I'm very hard to train and even harder to break.. ;) Besides you wouldn't like it if I was all trained and broken in. :p



HaHaHa Damn straight!!!

Sorry Newblk, didn't mean to highjack your thread.. *smile*

Lol nice guy
 

No, women love jerks who are over confident and arrogant.

it's a sad truth
 

No problem your not hijacking my thread, I am loving the insight from the real people here.

agree
 

nice guys preferred.....xxcect on my pillow...

Eat Your Veggies!
 

Dang what you been eatin' girlie girl :)? Reminds me of the first time I ate a white girl's cootchie out. White babe smelled like BROCCOLI down there :D!!! I ain't lyin' either :p Good thing I like broccoli. But if it's between a white girl's legs, I don't want to see nor smell ANY cheese sauce down there :(

TND

"Nice" is subjective, chicks don't RESPECT simps, tricks and pushovers. Sure they might like you but only for certain things such as money and personal mindfucking entertainment on the low every once in a while.

Yummy!
 

A lady in public, a slut in the bedroom. Most women like ti like that, and I'm glad you're up to admitting it. The bedroom is the sanctuary of sweaty behavior, and not being a total slut in such an atmosphere seems a waste of time. I commend you on your veracity!

Side Note...
I'm just looking for a sex toy for the wife. A "nice" one, a gentleman. Or we wouldn't call you back.

dilemna of my life - to be nice, or not. be yourself. truth is, most people are not very nice. they have low-self esteem and are ugly, on the inside, and that's where it counts. of course, you knew that. looking good is great, but i could care less what you look like if/when you show me the ugly truth. win, lose or draw, i'm gonna keep it real, y'all! i'm a nice guy ;) but fuck around if you want to ...

Couldn't disagree more. Women like strong men and those who take charge in the bedroom in general. But you'll never even get me in the bedroom if you're an asshole. On the contraary, seduce me, treat me like a lady even if its a sllutty lady but don't be an asshole. If we have a prearranged meeeting and we've talked and are meeting with the sexpectation as long as both agree, you can be assertive and seductive and I'll be right there with you. Once in the bedroom chances are I will do anything you want and let you have anything you want but "assholes" are not welcome.

Blacked woman

confidence + kindness = sucess
 

i read some responses from this thread and most people made some solid points but i want to share some of my knowledge with you guys and you can disagree if you choose i won't judge you.



from what i have experienced i think 90% of the women i meet & talked to love a guy who's kind & has confidence within himself.

to all the nice guys aka good brothers who have been shot down over & over again keep your head up and be confident because that will take you anywhere in life.


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SOOOOOOO right
 

Yup seems like ladies like the thugs assholes or plain old jerks.
I'm more of a well spoken laid back nice guy.....big daddy is right nice guys seem to finish
Last or are looked at as "friends" oh well.....