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[Principe03]

So I want to take my woman to a nice place where she can relax, have a drink, cut loose, and start having black gentlemen approach her either by me initiating it or them naturally talking to her the second I leave sight.

I want to know which one would be the best, as in a balance of having quality clientele but also the assertiveness...here's my ideas/rundown, let me know what you think:

Jazz Club - Caters to the 35 on up crowd and is located on the east side of my city which is known to be more black populated. This place has the good music and a mature vibe, but I'm not sure if it would look too obvious and awkward having men talk to her when there's hardly any dancing.

Hip-Hop Club - Now I don't mean nightclub I'm talking a more ethnic mixed club where the music is heavy Top 40 that you would/would not hear on the radio. Where the men are wearing more urban gear and the crowd is anywhere from 21-35 and there's dancing and plenty of alcohol involved. It might attract dorks who are trying their "holla game" but at the same time they are a bit braver at a dance club when there's plenty of music and distraction happening.

Nightclub - This is more of your mainstream club where the crowd is a bit more buttoned up and the music is more remixed, it might even be more multicultural including junior executive types of all races dancing the night away. The more classier black men might be there but would they be as raw and assertive as a hip-hop club?

She already has her loop rings, tight skirt, and nice cherry red lipstick going I just need to be decisive and pick a good spot for her. I obviously want her to feel comfortable and not too out of place but at the same time a place where BBC definitely know what's up and aren't afraid to get it. All ideas and suggestions are appreciated!

[jibstar]

There's no right or worng answer, its up to her to go to the venue of her choice, depending upon whetever she's into. If she someone she likes, make sure she offers the guy a drink, and things should follow on from there.

[new2sexyfun]

Go to an adult bookstore and pickup a local adult happenings publication. They are normally free. Go through and look at the adds for lifestyles(swingers) clubs. Then go check there website out. Most have firm rules as to how women and couples should be approached. Everyone is there for the same reasons, so no akwardness in that regard. You will only do what you feel like doing, no pressure.

[pa2for]

We had the same question. Better yet, there should be posts for best IR pick up clubs by area. We go to swing clubbs but not all allow single guys. I'm sure there are certian clubs/bars in each city which have a good IR scene. The guys are on here looking and so are the ladies/couples. Let's post best places to meet up by city. We are in the Philly area.

[Principe03]

I'm looking at her having this kind of look when we go out, don't you black fellas believe that the hoop earrings with the high ponytail is a white woman with style that's ready for BBC? I mean I don't know about you but that style just conveys attitude that can only be matched by a strong ethnic man taking on it. Would like your views on her dressing up like this and where she would get the most setting (non swinger club).

[Jared Black]

Wow, dude, you are fucking hilarious! The red carpet facade to lure a black man? Black men just need you to be secure enough to let her be herself and not feel like you are acting like a douche or pimp.

Your girl just gotta DROP THAT SHIT LIKE ITS HOT.

She ain't gotta buy a drink... She don't owe any man a damn thing!

Your pics are creepy as hell.

You're right about one thing though... DA CLUB > DA CLUB > DA CLUB...

OMG pale rider let it go