
04-22-2012, 06:33 PM
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Best type of nightlife place to take my gf to meet black men?
So I want to take my woman to a nice place where she can relax, have a drink, cut loose, and start having black gentlemen approach her either by me initiating it or them naturally talking to her the second I leave sight.
I want to know which one would be the best, as in a balance of having quality clientele but also the assertiveness...here's my ideas/rundown, let me know what you think:
Jazz Club - Caters to the 35 on up crowd and is located on the east side of my city which is known to be more black populated. This place has the good music and a mature vibe, but I'm not sure if it would look too obvious and awkward having men talk to her when there's hardly any dancing.
Hip-Hop Club - Now I don't mean nightclub I'm talking a more ethnic mixed club where the music is heavy Top 40 that you would/would not hear on the radio. Where the men are wearing more urban gear and the crowd is anywhere from 21-35 and there's dancing and plenty of alcohol involved. It might attract dorks who are trying their "holla game" but at the same time they are a bit braver at a dance club when there's plenty of music and distraction happening.
Nightclub - This is more of your mainstream club where the crowd is a bit more buttoned up and the music is more remixed, it might even be more multicultural including junior executive types of all races dancing the night away. The more classier black men might be there but would they be as raw and assertive as a hip-hop club?
She already has her loop rings, tight skirt, and nice cherry red lipstick going I just need to be decisive and pick a good spot for her. I obviously want her to feel comfortable and not too out of place but at the same time a place where BBC definitely know what's up and aren't afraid to get it. All ideas and suggestions are appreciated!
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