
05-15-2012, 03:06 PM
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Junior Member
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Join Date: May 2010
Posts: 9
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I will admit that I have never seen my wife with a black guy. However, we have been in the swinging lifestyle for a good 20 years now. During that time, I have seen my wife with guys who are thicker then me, longer then me, thicker and longer then me, last longer then me ... you get the point.
We enjoy the lifestyle. That doesn't mean it's for everyone. I have seen this wreck various marriages. More then once we have met a couple, had fun with them several times and the guy said fuck it and left the wife. This really bothered me, so I had to inject a ground rule that I won't be part of a couples first time experience with swapping. The wife and I are in this for fun, not to be the reason for a divorce.
Back to you, if you don't think you will like it. In the end you probably won't. You will probably be extremely turned on while it's happening and then wind up with a SERIOUS case of buyers remorse. But unlike a car, this is your wife you're talking about.
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