last 3 comments dead on !
 

ya that and aids is aids. the original cpl at the top just needs to firm up their policies and then go forward.

Thanks for the help, we are still trying to figure this out and it's nice to get good honest advice.

Tested
 

Make arrangements for him to get tested yourself, so he cant fake it.

Well there you go with the name calling. Jerk, and now prick. It takes one to know one they say. If you don't have anything nice to say then shut up I was once told and the part about practice what you preach I was referring to. Not safe sex. Who does not know that??? It does not take a brain surgeon to figure out what you just advised them to do. But then again you could be one, but just incompetent. EVERYBODY in this lifestyle and even those that are not knows the danger of swinging and inviting anyone into you bed since way back when. Did you solicit advised when you started? I would guess no because you were smart enough to figure it out on your own. Don't go swimming in lakes and river that you're not familiar with is and was always good advise. And no! You did not mentioned their partner's race, neither did I. But look a little closer and read more, and you'll see pictures of white couple, posting about BBC creampie. It's pretty clear to anybody, except you. What is "the op"? and if you don't care if they're fake or not as you are probably too then you can keep your two cents to yourself.

I read all this talk of 'testing' and certificates and while it makes sense if you believe your 'swing' partner is being monogamous... it's kinda BS because it's only as good as his last test... who the hell did he fuck last nigh tho???

Our rule was simpler... no gay men, bi men, drug users, illiterate, inarticulate or poorly educated... Horrible profiling but kinda stacks the odds in your favor to start with... After that it was a long and honest discussion about attitudes and experience... then I deferred to her female intuition, posing the simple question "if you met and dated this guy as a single woman, would you fuck him?"

If the answer to that was "no" then we made a polite exit... I never wanted her to fuck a man she didn't genuinely like - bareback or not. I loved my wife!

You have to be pragmatic about things - after all it's actually more dangerous driving to the damned date....

We never had a problem.

I would never trust someone first time. And even though I love being cum in its just not worth the risk. Once you get to know someone I gues its a judgement call. Though I'm not proud of it I have been to an STD clinic when I got worried about someone (thankfully I was ok)

First of all, gay men wouldn't be interested in this type of scenario. As for bi men, you mean you said no to those who pretended they weren't bi. You're just fooling yourself if you really think you have the cards stacked in your favor. I love BB, but I don't fool myself. Good luck, though. You'll need it.

I see mostly married guys, very few single. Regardless of which, I always ask to see test results before I let a guy cum inside me. No proof then wrap it up. Once a guy is inside you both of you may be too excited and into it to stop him from cumming. My attitude is that if he is unprotected and deep inside, then its already been decided that I want him to cum in me.

Yes, most bulls are more than willing to do that

On the flip-side of the coin. If you're a BBC with genital herpes and no other diseases, NorCal, send us a friend invite.